How do you feel about Sir Gawayne’s decision to marry the loathly lady?
- I admire his selfless act of chivalry.
- I think he was foolish to make such a rash promise.
- It’s complicated, I understand his duty but I’m not sure I would have done the same.
- I think he saw something special in her despite her appearance.
You have a choice to either find the answer to a riddle that will save a kingdom or marry the person who knows the answer, who would you choose?
- Find the answer to the riddle, of course!
- Marry the person who knows the answer. A life is a small price to pay to save everyone.
- I’d have to know more about the person and the riddle before I could decide.
- That’s a tough choice! I’d need time to think it over.
You are at a party when a stranger asks you to marry them in exchange for saving your friend from a magical curse. How do you react?
- I’d laugh it off, thinking it was a joke.
- I’d politely decline and try to find another way to help my friend.
- I’d try to negotiate a better deal. No one deserves to be tricked into marriage.
- I would seriously consider it! True friendship requires sacrifices.
What’s your favorite memory related to reading The Marriage of Sir Gawayne?
- Learning about the legend of King Arthur for the first time.
- The moment Sir Gawayne accepts the lady, despite her appearance.
- Discussing the story’s themes with friends.
- I actually haven’t read it yet!
What causes are you most passionate about?
- Fighting for what is right, just like Sir Gawayne.
- Helping those in need, especially the less fortunate.
- Knowledge and truth, I want to understand the world around me.
- Creativity and expression, I find beauty in art and imagination.
What is your absolute favorite medieval-themed activity?
- Attending Renaissance fairs and dressing up in costume.
- Reading classic tales of chivalry and adventure.
- Learning about medieval history and culture.
- I don’t have one! But I’m open to suggestions.
How would your friends and family describe your sense of honor?
- As strong and unwavering as Sir Gawayne’s.
- I try to be honorable but sometimes bend the rules.
- I value honesty and integrity above all else.
- They might say I need to loosen up a bit.
Tell us a little about your understanding of true love.
- I believe it’s about finding someone who accepts you for who you are, just like Gawayne and the loathly lady.
- True love is a rare and precious thing that should be cherished.
- I’m still figuring it out myself.
- It’s more complicated than a fairytale.
If you could choose any magical ability from Arthurian Legend which one would you choose and why?
- To have the wisdom of Merlin.
- To possess the strength and courage of Lancelot.
- To wield Excalibur, the legendary sword.
- To have the ability to heal like the Lady of the Lake.
What’s the first thing that comes to mind when someone breaks a promise?
- I’m reminded of the importance of keeping one’s word, like in the story.
- It depends on the severity of the promise.
- Everyone makes mistakes, I try to be understanding.
- I try not to hold it against them, but it does make me wary.
What affects you most: physical appearances or someone’s inner qualities?
- Inner qualities for sure, beauty fades but a good heart lasts forever.
- A bit of both, first impressions matter but who they are inside matters more.
- Physical appearance is important to me, I can’t help it.
- It’s about finding a balance between the two.
What’s your idea of a perfect date?
- A romantic evening at a Renaissance fair, just like in the story.
- A candlelit dinner followed by a thought-provoking conversation.
- An adventurous outing, exploring new places and trying new things.
- It completely depends on who I’m with!
What is your strongest quality: bravery, courtesy, loyalty, or keeping your word?
- I’d say loyalty is my strongest suit.
- I’m known for my courtesy and good manners.
- I’m a person of my word.
- I try to be brave, even when I’m afraid.
How do you feel about the role of magic in The Marriage of Sir Gawayne?
- It adds an element of wonder and suspense to the story.
- Magic is a metaphor for the challenges and transformations we face in life.
- I find it intriguing how magic influences the characters’ choices.
- I prefer stories that rely on more realistic elements.
What’s your favorite mythical creature from Arthurian Legend?
- The Lady of the Lake, shrouded in mystery and power.
- Merlin, the wise and powerful wizard.
- Dragons, they’re just so majestic.
- I don’t have a favorite, but they’re all fascinating.
What makes you nervous about the idea of making a life-altering promise?
- The possibility of unforeseen consequences, just like in the story.
- Not being able to keep my promise.
- The potential for it to complicate my life.
- I’m not afraid of commitment!
What makes you most frustrated about modern-day interpretations of chivalry?
- That they often miss the point about inner beauty and true honor.
- Chivalry is dead.
- I think people still value chivalry, even if it looks different today.
- It’s not something I think about often.
What are you most excited about when it comes to learning about medieval literature?
- Discovering timeless themes and their relevance to modern life.
- Immersing myself in a different time and culture.
- Analyzing the symbolism and hidden meanings in the stories.
- Sharing my passion for literature with others.
What do you dream about when it comes to your own personal growth?
- Becoming as courageous and honorable as Sir Gawayne.
- Finding true love and acceptance.
- Living a life full of adventure and purpose.
- Achieving my goals and making a difference in the world.
What happened in the past when you had to make a difficult decision based on your values?
- I relied on my sense of honor to guide me through.
- It was a struggle, but I ultimately made the choice I felt was right.
- I learned from my mistakes and try to do better next time.
- I’m still learning to navigate those situations.
What comes to mind when you think about the concept of courtly love?
- The elaborate rules and rituals surrounding love in medieval times.
- The idea of love as a transformative force.
- The unattainable nature of romantic love, as depicted in many stories.
- It’s not a concept I relate to.
What’s your favorite scene in The Marriage of Sir Gawayne?
- The wedding feast where the loathly lady is transformed.
- The moment Sir Gawayne accepts the lady, sight unseen.
- King Arthur’s desperate search for the answer to the giant’s riddle.
- I don’t have a favorite scene.
When you were a kid, how did you imagine knights and castles?
- Just like they were described in the story, full of magic and adventure.
- I was obsessed with knights and castles, even building my own out of blankets!
- I preferred stories about different creatures or time periods.
- I don’t remember much about what I imagined as a kid.
You have a choice: live in a grand castle with a terrible secret or a cozy cottage with a peaceful life. Which do you choose?
- A cozy cottage, without a doubt.
- A grand castle, secrets and all! It sounds way more exciting.
- I could make do in either, I’m pretty adaptable.
- That’s a tough one! It depends on the secret and what defines “peaceful.”
What keeps you up at night about the state of the world today?
- The lack of chivalry and honor in modern society.
- The growing divide between people.
- Injustice and suffering around the world.
- I try not to dwell on negative things before bed.
Which of these Arthurian-themed activities would you enjoy the most: attending a Renaissance faire, watching a movie adaptation, or visiting historical sites associated with the legend?
- Attending a Renaissance faire, definitely!
- Visiting historical sites, I love to experience history firsthand.
- Watching a movie adaptation, it’s a fun way to engage with the story.
- I’m not particularly drawn to any of those activities.
When you think about the concept of duty, what are you most concerned about?
- Balancing personal desires with my obligations to others.
- Letting people down.
- Making the wrong choice when faced with a difficult decision.
- I try to fulfill my duties to the best of my ability.
What aspect of The Marriage of Sir Gawayne makes you the most happy?
- The triumph of love and acceptance over superficiality.
- Sir Gawayne’s unwavering courage and honor.
- The magical elements and the sense of wonder they evoke.
- I appreciate the story as a whole.
What is most likely to make you feel down about the way people treat each other?
- When people judge others based on appearances rather than their character.
- Selfishness and a lack of compassion.
- When people break promises and betray trust.
- I try not to let it get to me.
In a perfect world, what would a modern-day knight in shining armor be like?
- Someone who stands up for what is right, even when it’s difficult.
- A person who is kind, compassionate, and always willing to help others.
- Someone who is true to their word and always fights for justice.
- They would be a good listener.
If you could wave a magic wand, what would the perfect ending to The Marriage of Sir Gawayne be?
- Gawayne and the lady live happily ever after, proving that true love conquers all.
- The lady’s curse is broken, and she finds happiness on her own terms.
- King Arthur learns a valuable lesson about the power of women.
- I’m happy with the original ending.
How often do you find yourself thinking about the importance of chivalry in your daily life?
- Pretty often, it’s important to be a good person.
- I think about it sometimes, especially when interacting with strangers.
- Not very often, but it’s a nice ideal to aspire to.
- Rarely, if ever.
How comfortable are you with challenging societal norms and expectations?
- I’m all for it! Like Sir Gawayne, I don’t mind being different.
- I pick my battles, but I’m not afraid to speak up for what I believe in.
- I prefer to blend in and avoid conflict.
- I follow the rules for the most part.
You have 24 hours to do whatever you want in a medieval castle. What do you do?
- Explore every nook and cranny, imagining the castle’s history.
- Hold a grand feast in the great hall, complete with costumes and entertainment.
- Train with the knights, learning how to sword fight and ride horses.
- Curl up in the library with a good book.
Which of these themes from The Marriage of Sir Gawayne is most likely to be a struggle for you personally: keeping promises, accepting others for who they are, or facing your fears?
- Accepting others for who they are, everyone has flaws.
- Keeping promises, life can get in the way.
- Facing my fears, I tend to avoid what scares me.
- I don’t struggle with any of those things.
Which member of King Arthur’s court are you: the brave knight, the wise counselor, the loyal friend, or the mischievous jester?
- The loyal friend, I’m always there for the people I care about.
- The brave knight, I stand up for what’s right.
- The wise counselor, I offer guidance and support.
- The mischievous jester, I like to make people laugh.
Someone asks, “How’s your love life?” What’s the actual answer, not just “It’s good”?
- It’s complicated, just like the relationship between Gawayne and the Lady.
- I’m still searching for my happily ever after.
- I’m focusing on myself right now.
- Why do you want to know?
What’s your go-to form of entertainment when you need an escape from reality: fantasy novels, historical dramas, or action-adventure movies?
- Fantasy novels, I love to immerse myself in other worlds.
- Historical dramas, I find them both entertaining and educational.
- Action-adventure movies, they’re a great way to unwind.
- I prefer documentaries or reality TV.
What place do you most want to explore: a medieval castle, a mythical forest, or a hidden library full of ancient texts?
- A hidden library, hands down!
- A medieval castle, I’ve always wanted to walk those ancient halls.
- A mythical forest, there’s something so enchanting about them.
- I’d rather explore somewhere in the real world.
How prepared are you to handle a situation that challenges your moral compass?
- I’m prepared to stand up for my beliefs, just like Sir Gawayne.
- I’d try to do the right thing, even if it was difficult.
- I’m not sure how I would react until I was in that situation.
- I would avoid conflict at all costs.
What happens if you break a promise you made to someone you care about?
- I would do everything in my power to make it up to them.
- I would apologize sincerely and try to learn from my mistake.
- It would depend on the circumstances.
- It’s never happened, and it never will.
What do you think you need to work on to become a more chivalrous person?
- I need to be more mindful of others and their needs.
- I could definitely work on my patience.
- I need to be more courageous in standing up for what I believe in.
- I’m happy with who I am.
How often do you practice acts of kindness without expecting anything in return?
- Daily! It’s important to make a positive impact on the world.
- A few times a week, I try to be mindful of opportunities.
- Not as often as I should.
- It’s not something I keep track of.
How confident are you in your ability to remain true to your values under pressure?
- Very confident, I know what I believe in.
- I’m fairly confident, but I know it’s not always easy.
- I would hope that I would stay true to myself, but I’m not certain.
- I tend to avoid situations where I might be pressured.
How do you handle situations where your sense of honor is tested?
- I carefully consider all my options and try to choose the most honorable path.
- I act instinctively, based on my gut feeling.
- It depends on who else is involved.
- I remove myself from the situation.
Do you have a strong support system in place to help you through challenging times?
- Yes, I have family and friends who I can always rely on.
- I have a few close friends who I confide in.
- I prefer to handle things on my own.
- I don’t really need a support system.
How well do you stick to your convictions when faced with opposition from others?
- Very well, I’m not easily swayed.
- It depends on the situation and who is opposing me.
- I try to be respectful of other viewpoints, even if I don’t agree.
- I tend to avoid confrontation.
Which of the following is most accurate when it comes to your view of love: romantic, realistic, cynical, or idealistic?
- I’m a hopeless romantic.
- I’m a realist when it comes to love.
- I’m a bit cynical about love.
- I’m an idealist at heart.
To what degree do you experience fear when faced with the unknown: frequently, occasionally, rarely, or never?
- Occasionally, it’s natural to feel fear sometimes.
- Frequently, I’m afraid of a lot of things.
- Rarely, I embrace the unknown.
- Never, I’m fearless!
Which of these best describes your current approach to personal growth: actively seeking, open to it, resistant to change, or unsure?
- I’m actively seeking opportunities for growth.
- I’m open to it, but not actively pursuing it.
- I’m pretty resistant to change.
- I’m not sure what I need to work on.
What is your current biggest challenge when it comes to forming meaningful connections?
- Letting go of past hurts and allowing myself to be vulnerable.
- Finding the time and energy to invest in relationships.
- Trusting people.
- I don’t have any challenges with this.
What’s the first thing that comes to mind when you encounter someone who is different from you?
- Curiosity. I’m interested in learning more about them.
- Nothing in particular.
- I wonder if we have anything in common.
- I feel uncomfortable.
How do you handle disagreements with people who have different values than you?
- I try to have a respectful conversation, focusing on finding common ground.
- I avoid talking about sensitive subjects.
- I get defensive and try to prove my point.
- I walk away.
How would you describe your relationship to the concept of destiny: do you believe in it, question it, or dismiss it entirely?
- I believe in destiny, just like the characters in the story.
- I question it, but I’m open to the possibility.
- I dismiss it entirely, we create our own destiny.
- It’s not something I think about often.
Are you stuck in a pattern of making choices that don’t align with your values?
- No, I make a conscious effort to live authentically.
- Sometimes I make compromises, but I try to stay true to myself.
- Yes, I often feel trapped by my choices.
- I’m not sure.
What would you say are your top struggles right now when it comes to self-acceptance?
- I’m too hard on myself.
- I compare myself to others too much.
- I have trouble accepting my flaws.
- I don’t have any struggles with this.
What is your ultimate goal when it comes to living a life of integrity?
- To be someone that others can rely on and look up to.
- To be at peace with my choices and know that I’m living authentically.
- To make a positive impact on the world.
- I’m not sure.
What do you think is missing in your life that prevents you from fully embracing your inner “knight”?
- Courage.
- Self-belief.
- A worthy cause to fight for.
- Nothing, I’m already there!
A friend asks for your help with something that goes against your principles. How do you respond?
- I politely explain my position and offer alternative ways to help.
- I reluctantly agree to help, even though it makes me uncomfortable.
- I make up an excuse and avoid the situation entirely.
- I tell them to get lost.
What descriptive word best describes how you feel when you help others: joyful, fulfilled, obligated, or drained?
- Fulfilled. It gives me a sense of purpose.
- Joyful. Seeing others happy makes me happy.
- Obligated. I feel like it’s my duty.
- Drained. It takes a lot out of me.
Which of the following do you notice yourself worrying about on a day-to-day basis: fulfilling expectations, making the “right” decisions, or disappointing others?
- I worry about disappointing others the most.
- I tend to fixate on making the “right” decision.
- I often feel the pressure to fulfill other’s expectations.
- I don’t worry about much.
How happy and content do you feel in your current relationships?
- I’m very happy with my relationships.
- I have good days and bad days, like anyone else.
- I’m not entirely content with my relationships right now.
- I’d rather not say.
How well do you handle situations that require quick thinking and decisive action?
- I thrive under pressure!
- I’m a bit slow on the uptake, but I get there eventually.
- I freeze up and panic.
- I avoid those situations at all costs.
How connected do you feel to your intuition and inner wisdom?
- Very connected. I trust my gut.
- I’m working on it.
- Not very connected. I tend to overthink things.
- What intuition?
Which of the following is most likely to frustrate you: injustice, dishonesty, betrayal, or incompetence?
- Injustice makes my blood boil!
- Dishonesty is infuriating to me.
- Betrayal is the ultimate dealbreaker.
- Incompetence drives me crazy.
What is the trickiest part about making decisions that could have a major impact on your life?
- Weighing the potential consequences of each option.
- Dealing with the fear of making the wrong choice.
- Trusting myself to make the best decision.
- I don’t find it tricky, I just make a choice.
Do you struggle more with self-doubt or a fear of judgment from others?
- Self-doubt is my biggest critic.
- I’m more afraid of what other people think.
- I struggle with both equally.
- I don’t struggle with either.
Do you have a mentor or role model who embodies the qualities of a modern-day knight?
- Yes, I’m fortunate to have someone I admire.
- I’m still searching for that kind of inspiration.
- I don’t believe in role models.
- I don’t need a mentor, I can figure it out on my own.
How do you determine your personal growth goals each year?
- I reflect on my values and identify areas where I want to improve.
- I set goals based on what I want to achieve externally.
- I don’t set personal growth goals.
- I wait for things to happen naturally.
Are your actions consistently reflecting the chivalrous ideals you admire?
- Yes, I strive to live with integrity every day.
- I try my best, but I’m not perfect.
- I have a long way to go.
- I don’t think that’s important.
How do you manage the balance between your personal life and your commitment to your values?
- I prioritize my values in all aspects of my life.
- It’s a constant balancing act.
- My personal life always comes first.
- I don’t see a connection between the two.