How do you feel about the concept of a “maternal instinct”?
- I believe it’s a natural and powerful force in women.
- I think it’s more complex than simply an instinct, with social factors playing a role.
- I believe it’s largely a social construct used to control women.
- I’m unsure, and I think more research is needed on the topic.
What is your absolute favorite anecdote from the essay?
- The Kaiser’s enthusiastic support of large families.
- The imprisonment of individuals for distributing birth control information.
- The statistics on the concerning maternal death rates of the time.
- The quotes from prominent male figures revealing their perspective on women.
What makes you most frustrated about the historical portrayal of women in society, as described by Hollingworth?
- The limited opportunities available to women beyond domestic roles.
- The societal pressure placed on women to conform to a narrow definition of womanhood.
- The lack of recognition for the challenges and sacrifices of motherhood.
- The use of false claims and scare tactics to control women’s reproductive choices.
A friend tells you they feel incredibly pressured by their family to have children. How do you react?
- You listen to their concerns and offer your support without judgment.
- You tell them they should stand up for themselves and tell their family to back off.
- You share your own experiences with societal expectations and offer advice.
- You try to distract them by talking about something more lighthearted.
What keeps you up at night about the future of women’s rights?
- The possibility of losing the progress that has been made in recent decades.
- The persistence of harmful stereotypes and discrimination against women.
- The lack of equal opportunities for women in various aspects of life.
- The ongoing struggle for reproductive rights and bodily autonomy.
Which of these social devices for controlling women do you find most insidious?
- The promotion of the “womanly woman” ideal.
- The use of public opinion and media to shame women.
- The enactment of laws that restrict women’s reproductive choices.
- The spread of misinformation and fear-mongering about motherhood.
What’s your go-to source for information about feminist issues?
- Books and essays by feminist writers and scholars.
- Podcasts and online platforms dedicated to feminist discourse.
- Documentaries and films that explore gender inequality.
- Conversations with friends and family members who share my views.
In a perfect world, what would the relationship between societal expectations and individual choices regarding motherhood look like?
- Society would celebrate and support all individuals in their choices, regardless of whether they choose to become parents.
- Individuals would be free from any pressure or stigma when making decisions about their reproductive lives.
- Comprehensive education and resources would be readily available to help individuals make informed choices about parenthood.
- A cultural shift would occur, valuing individual fulfillment and well-being alongside family life.
What do you think is missing in the quest to achieve true gender equality?
- Addressing the root causes of gender inequality, such as patriarchal structures and cultural norms.
- Increasing representation of women in positions of power and decision-making.
- Challenging and dismantling harmful stereotypes and biases about gender.
- Promoting education and awareness about gender equality from a young age.
You have a choice of reading a fictional story about a woman who bravely defies societal expectations or a non-fiction account of the women’s suffrage movement. Which do you choose?
- The fictional story, as I find it easier to connect with characters and their personal journeys.
- The non-fiction account, as I am interested in learning about the historical fight for women’s rights.
- I would choose something else entirely as this topic doesn’t interest me.
- I would read both, as they offer different but equally valuable perspectives.
How prepared do you feel to challenge outdated beliefs about women and motherhood?
- I am very prepared and eager to engage in these conversations.
- I am somewhat prepared, but I still have more to learn.
- I am not very prepared, but I am willing to try.
- I am not prepared at all, and I would rather avoid these topics.
What happens if we fail to address the issues raised in Hollingworth’s essay?
- We risk perpetuating a cycle of inequality and limiting the potential of future generations.
- Women will continue to face undue pressure and restrictions on their lives.
- We may see a decline in well-being and fulfillment as individuals are forced to conform to societal expectations.
- It will be challenging to create a just and equitable society where everyone has the opportunity to thrive.
What do you think you need to become more confident in challenging societal norms?
- More knowledge and understanding of feminist theory and history.
- Stronger communication skills and the ability to articulate my views effectively.
- A supportive network of like-minded individuals who share my values.
- Greater self-assurance and the willingness to speak up even when it’s uncomfortable.
How often do you engage in critical thinking about the messages you receive from society?
- Very often, as I am always questioning the status quo.
- Fairly often, particularly when it comes to topics that are important to me.
- Occasionally, when something prompts me to think more deeply.
- Rarely, as I tend to accept things at face value.
How confident are you in your ability to identify and challenge instances of social control in your own life?
- I am very confident in my ability to recognize and resist societal pressure.
- I am somewhat confident, but I know I can still improve my awareness.
- I am not very confident, as it can be difficult to see these influences clearly.
- I am not confident at all, and I often feel overwhelmed by societal expectations.
How do you handle encountering someone who holds vastly different views on gender roles than your own?
- I engage them in respectful dialogue, seeking to understand their perspective.
- I avoid the conversation altogether, as it’s likely to be unproductive.
- I try to educate them about the harmful effects of traditional gender roles.
- I assertively challenge their views, calling out any sexism or prejudice.
Do you believe society still employs the same tactics for controlling women today as it did in Hollingworth’s time?
- Yes, I believe the tactics are largely the same, though perhaps more subtle and insidious.
- Some tactics have evolved, while others persist in different forms.
- I believe the tactics have changed significantly, with less overt control.
- I am unsure, as I need a better understanding of historical and contemporary methods.
How well do you think you stick to your convictions when faced with opposing viewpoints on gender equality?
- I always stand my ground, regardless of the pressure to conform.
- I generally hold firm to my beliefs, but I can be swayed by strong arguments.
- I sometimes struggle to articulate my views when challenged.
- I often find myself conforming to avoid conflict or judgment.
Which of the following is most accurate when it comes to your understanding of the societal pressures on women?
- I have a deep understanding of the historical and ongoing pressures faced by women.
- I am aware of some of the pressures, but I know there is more to learn.
- I am just beginning to understand the complexity of these societal forces.
- I have not given much thought to this topic before.
To what degree do you experience anxiety or concern about conforming to societal expectations of womanhood?
- To a significant degree, as I often feel pressure to meet certain standards.
- To a moderate degree, as I am aware of the expectations but try to resist them.
- To a minimal degree, as I am confident in defining my own version of womanhood.
- To no degree, as I am completely unfazed by societal expectations.
What is your current biggest challenge when it comes to promoting gender equality?
- Overcoming my own internalized biases and prejudices.
- Finding effective ways to engage with those who hold opposing viewpoints.
- Navigating a world that still often feels unequal and unjust.
- Balancing my personal life with my activism and advocacy work.
What’s the first thing that comes to mind when you hear the phrase “social conditioning”?
- The subtle ways in which our thoughts, beliefs, and behaviors are shaped by society.
- The role of media, education, and family in influencing our perceptions.
- The importance of critical thinking and questioning the messages we receive.
- The challenges of breaking free from societal norms and expectations.
How do you handle situations where you witness someone making a sexist or discriminatory remark?
- I directly address the remark, calling out the harm it causes.
- I subtly challenge the remark, using humor or sarcasm to make my point.
- I feel uncomfortable but stay silent, unsure of how to respond.
- I ignore the remark, choosing to avoid conflict.
How would you describe your relationship to the concept of motherhood?
- I embrace it as a beautiful and fulfilling experience.
- I am ambivalent about it, seeing both the joys and challenges.
- I am apprehensive about it, given the sacrifices and societal pressures.
- I reject it entirely, as it does not align with my personal goals.
Are you stuck in any ways of thinking that might be influenced by societal pressures on women?
- Yes, I recognize that I have some internalized biases to work through.
- I am working on unlearning harmful beliefs, but it’s an ongoing process.
- I am actively challenging these pressures and striving for greater awareness.
- I believe I am free from these influences and think critically about gender roles.
What would you say are your top struggles right now when it comes to navigating societal expectations related to women?
- Balancing personal aspirations with societal pressures to conform.
- Dealing with microaggressions and everyday sexism.
- Finding my voice and advocating for myself effectively.
- Overcoming self-doubt and embracing my own definition of womanhood.
What is your ultimate goal when it comes to challenging traditional gender roles?
- To create a more just and equitable world where everyone is free to be themselves.
- To dismantle patriarchal structures and systems that perpetuate inequality.
- To empower individuals to embrace their authentic selves, regardless of gender.
- To foster a society that values diversity, inclusion, and respect for all.
How do you determine if your efforts to promote gender equality are truly making a difference?
- By observing shifts in attitudes and behaviors within my own social circles.
- By staying informed about progress made in legislation and policy changes.
- By witnessing greater representation and inclusion in various sectors of society.
- By feeling hopeful about the future and seeing positive changes in the world around me.
A friend confides in you that they feel conflicted about their desire to have a successful career and a family. They worry it’s an impossible choice. How do you respond?
- You reassure them that it is possible to have both and that many people successfully manage both aspirations.
- You empathize with their struggle, acknowledging the societal pressures that contribute to this dilemma.
- You encourage them to explore their options and make a decision that feels right for them, without judgment.
- You share resources and support networks that can help them navigate this challenge.
What’s your favorite memory related to learning about or experiencing a situation that challenged traditional gender roles?
- The first time I read a book or watched a film that presented a different perspective on gender.
- A conversation I had that opened my eyes to the pervasiveness of gender inequality.
- A moment when I challenged a sexist remark or behavior and felt empowered.
- Witnessing someone break free from gender stereotypes and live authentically.
What causes, topics, or interests, are you most passionate about when it comes to fighting for social justice?
- Advocating for women’s rights and dismantling patriarchal systems.
- Challenging all forms of oppression and discrimination.
- Promoting education and awareness about social justice issues.
- Creating a more equitable and inclusive world for future generations.
How would your friends and family describe your stance on gender equality?
- As a passionate advocate for women’s rights.
- As someone who is always challenging gender norms.
- As a thoughtful and informed individual on issues of gender.
- As someone who is still learning and growing in their understanding.
Tell us a little about your view on the progress that has been made toward gender equality.
- I am encouraged by the progress made but recognize that much work remains.
- I am cautiously optimistic but remain aware of persistent challenges.
- I am frustrated by the slow pace of change and ongoing inequalities.
- I am hopeful for the future and committed to continuing the fight.
If you could choose any superpower to help achieve gender equality, which one would you choose and why?
- The ability to change hearts and minds, fostering empathy and understanding.
- The power to dismantle systems of oppression with a snap of my fingers.
- The gift of persuasion, inspiring others to join the fight for equality.
- The ability to amplify marginalized voices, ensuring that all perspectives are heard.
What’s the first thing that comes to mind when you encounter a situation where women are not treated as equals?
- Frustration and anger at the injustice.
- A desire to challenge the situation and advocate for equality.
- Sadness and disappointment that these inequalities still exist.
- A sense of responsibility to make a difference and be part of the solution.
What affects you the most when learning about the history of women’s fight for equality?
- The resilience and courage of those who fought for change.
- The injustices and obstacles they faced in their pursuit of equality.
- The progress that has been made, inspiring hope for the future.
- The work that still needs to be done to achieve true gender justice.
What’s your idea of a truly feminist society?
- A society free from gender-based oppression and discrimination.
- A society where everyone has equal opportunities, regardless of gender.
- A society that values diversity, inclusion, and the contributions of all.
- A society that challenges traditional gender roles and embraces individuality.
What is your strongest belief when it comes to achieving true equality for women?
- It requires a collective effort, with everyone playing their part.
- It necessitates dismantling systemic barriers and challenging societal norms.
- It demands unwavering commitment, even in the face of adversity.
- It starts with each of us, examining our own biases and taking action.