How often do you find yourself questioning societal norms and expectations?
- I question them constantly and actively challenge them.
- I acknowledge them, but I prioritize my own values and beliefs.
- I generally conform to societal norms, but I’m open to different perspectives.
- I firmly believe in upholding traditional values and societal structures.
What is your absolute favorite aspect of Stephen and Harold’s relationship?
- Their shared experiences and deep understanding of each other.
- The unwavering loyalty and devotion they have for one another.
- The way their differences challenge and complement each other.
- The romantic tension and unspoken feelings between them.
What is your current biggest challenge in your relationships?
- Balancing my need for independence with my desire for connection.
- Communicating my feelings effectively and resolving conflict constructively.
- Letting go of past hurts and allowing myself to be vulnerable again.
- Trusting my intuition and making decisions that align with my values.
What makes you most frustrated about the complexities of human relationships as depicted in The Man?
- The way societal expectations and gender roles can stifle genuine connection.
- The destructive nature of pride, ambition, and the pursuit of wealth over love.
- The painful reality of miscommunication and the missed opportunities for happiness.
- The challenge of balancing personal desires with the needs of those we love.
You have a choice of inheriting a grand estate like Normanstand, but with the responsibility of upholding tradition, or pursuing a life of adventure and self-discovery, which do you choose?
- I embrace the challenge of honoring tradition while also forging my own path.
- I choose adventure and self-discovery, even if it means leaving behind familiarity and comfort.
- I seek a balance between the two, honoring my roots while exploring new horizons.
- I prioritize tradition and responsibility, finding fulfillment in continuing my family legacy.
How well do you think you balance your desire for independence with your responsibilities to others?
- I struggle to find a balance, often feeling torn between my needs and the needs of others.
- I tend to prioritize my own independence, but I’m learning to consider the perspectives of others.
- I’m comfortable balancing my own needs with my responsibilities, but it requires effort and compromise.
- I naturally prioritize my responsibilities to others, often putting their needs before my own.
What is the trickiest part about navigating social expectations in your own life?
- Feeling pressured to conform to societal norms that don’t align with my values.
- Balancing my desire for authenticity with the fear of judgment or rejection.
- Understanding the unspoken rules and navigating social dynamics in different settings.
- Recognizing and challenging my own biases and prejudices to be more inclusive.
What do you dream about when it comes to finding your purpose in life?
- Making a meaningful contribution to the world and leaving a positive legacy.
- Finding a career path that aligns with my passions and allows me to make a difference.
- Building strong, loving relationships and creating a happy and fulfilling family life.
- Pursuing my personal growth and striving to become the best version of myself.
If you could waive a magic wand, what would the perfect outcome for Stephen and Harold be at the end of The Man?
- They find happiness and fulfillment together, their love transcending past hurts and societal barriers.
- They each embark on their own paths of self-discovery, eventually finding love and happiness on their own terms.
- They remain close friends and confidants, their bond unbreakable despite their romantic differences.
- They find a way to reconcile their differences and build a life together based on mutual respect and understanding.
What’s your favorite memory of a time when you faced a significant personal challenge and emerged stronger and wiser?
- A time when I overcame a fear, proving to myself that I am capable of more than I thought.
- A time when I had to make a difficult decision, trusting my intuition and learning from the outcome.
- A time when I experienced a loss, but found strength and resilience in the face of adversity.
- A time when I forgave someone (or myself), experiencing the healing power of compassion and understanding.
If you could choose any character from The Man to be your mentor, who would you choose and why?
- Stephen, for her independent spirit, her compassion, and her willingness to challenge societal norms.
- Harold, for his loyalty, his bravery, and his unwavering devotion to those he loves.
- The Silver Lady, for her wisdom, her understanding of human nature, and her connection to something greater than herself.
- Andrew Stonehouse, for his kindness, his generosity, and his ability to find success while remaining grounded and compassionate.
How do you handle situations where your personal beliefs clash with societal expectations?
- I stand firm in my convictions, even if it means going against the grain.
- I try to find a compromise, balancing my beliefs with the need for social harmony.
- I often adapt to social situations, even if it means suppressing my true feelings.
- I seek out like-minded individuals and communities that support my values.
What happened in the past when you had to make a difficult decision that challenged your personal values?
- I listened to my intuition and made the choice that felt most aligned with my integrity, even if it was difficult.
- I sought advice from trusted mentors or friends, weighing different perspectives before making a decision.
- I allowed my emotions to guide my decision-making, which sometimes led to both positive and negative outcomes.
- I prioritized the needs of others over my own, even if it meant compromising my own values in the process.
Which of these themes from The Man is most likely to be a struggle for you to reconcile in your own life: love and loss, independence and duty, self-discovery, or redemption and forgiveness?
- Love and loss, as I find it difficult to balance the joy of love with the fear of potential heartbreak.
- Independence and duty, as I struggle to balance my desire for personal freedom with my responsibilities to others.
- Self-discovery, as I sometimes feel lost or uncertain about my true purpose in life.
- Redemption and forgiveness, as I can hold onto grudges or feel guilty about past mistakes.
Someone asks, “How’s your heart feeling today?” What’s the actual answer, not just “I’m fine?”
- My heart feels open and hopeful, filled with a sense of possibility and connection.
- My heart feels a bit guarded today, protecting itself from potential hurt or disappointment.
- My heart feels heavy with unspoken emotions, longing for a deeper sense of understanding and connection.
- My heart feels content and grateful, appreciating the simple joys and the love in my life.
What’s your go-to activity to reconnect with yourself and find peace when you’re feeling lost or uncertain?
- Spending time in nature, grounding myself in the beauty and serenity of the natural world.
- Engaging in creative pursuits, such as writing, painting, or playing music, allowing my emotions to flow freely.
- Connecting with loved ones, sharing my thoughts and feelings in a safe and supportive space.
- Reflecting on my values and priorities, reminding myself of what truly matters in life.
What place, concept, idea, or topic within the themes of The Man do you most want to explore, learn about, or dive deep on?
- The complexities of Victorian society and the limitations placed upon women during that era.
- The psychology of love, loss, and the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships.
- The process of self-discovery and the courage it takes to forge one’s own path in life.
- The concept of redemption and the transformative power of forgiveness, both for oneself and others.
What keeps you up at night about the state of the world today?
- The widening gap between the wealthy and the poor, and the lack of opportunities for many.
- The persistence of social injustices and inequalities based on race, gender, religion, or sexual orientation.
- The environmental crisis and the urgent need for collective action to protect our planet.
- The rise of division and conflict in the world, and the erosion of empathy and compassion.
What is your idea of a truly fulfilling and meaningful life?
- A life filled with purpose, passion, and a deep sense of connection to something greater than myself.
- A life rich in experiences, both challenging and rewarding, that allow me to grow and evolve as a person.
- A life surrounded by love, laughter, and the support of a strong and loving community.
- A life that leaves a positive impact on the world, inspiring others to be kind, compassionate, and courageous.
How comfortable are you with embracing unconventional paths in life and challenging societal expectations?
- I’m very comfortable with it and actively seek out experiences that push boundaries and challenge the status quo.
- I’m open to it, but I consider the potential consequences and weigh my options carefully.
- I’m somewhat hesitant, as I value stability and social acceptance, but I’m willing to step outside my comfort zone occasionally.
- I’m not comfortable with it at all, as I find comfort in tradition and predictability.
What’s the first thing that comes to mind when you think about the impact of societal expectations on personal happiness?
- How societal pressures can stifle individuality and prevent people from living authentically.
- The importance of finding a balance between honoring tradition and pursuing one’s own path.
- The need for greater empathy and understanding, recognizing that everyone’s journey is unique.
- The challenge of challenging societal norms without creating unnecessary conflict or division.
You are at a party and overhear someone making a judgmental comment about another person’s life choices. What do you do?
- I politely challenge their perspective, offering a different point of view based on empathy and understanding.
- I subtly steer the conversation in a more positive direction, highlighting the importance of kindness and acceptance.
- I feel uncomfortable, but I remain silent, not wanting to cause a scene or make waves.
- I agree with their assessment, as I tend to hold traditional values and judge others based on those standards.
How do you feel about the role of fate and free will in shaping our lives as explored in The Man?
- I believe we have the power to make our own choices, but that external factors and unforeseen circumstances also play a role.
- I believe everything happens for a reason and that our lives are guided by a greater force or destiny.
- I believe in the power of manifestation and that our thoughts and beliefs create our reality.
- I believe in taking control of my life and shaping my own destiny through hard work and determination.
What’s your favorite portrayal of love in literature, film, or television?
- A love story that defies convention, celebrating the unique bond between two individuals, regardless of societal norms.
- A love story that highlights the importance of loyalty, sacrifice, and unwavering devotion, even in the face of adversity.
- A love story that emphasizes the power of communication, understanding, and the ability to grow together over time.
- A love story that embodies passion, romance, and the intoxicating feeling of falling head over heels.
How prepared are you to face the unknown and embrace the uncertainties of life, just like Harold’s journey to Alaska?
- I’m fully prepared and even excited to face the unknown, embracing challenges as opportunities for growth.
- I’m cautiously optimistic, acknowledging the risks while remaining open to new experiences and possibilities.
- I prefer to have a plan and feel prepared, but I understand that life is full of surprises.
- I avoid uncertainty as much as possible, finding comfort in routine and predictability.
What do you think you need most in your life right now to achieve a greater sense of happiness and fulfillment?
- Deeper connections with others and a greater sense of belonging within a loving and supportive community.
- The courage to pursue my passions and embrace new challenges that excite and inspire me.
- A renewed sense of purpose and direction, identifying my values and aligning my actions with my aspirations.
- Greater self-love and acceptance, letting go of self-doubt and embracing my authentic self.
What happens if you find yourself in a situation where you’re tempted to prioritize your own desires over the needs of someone you love?
- I carefully consider the potential consequences of my actions and strive to find a compromise that honors both our needs.
- I prioritize the needs of the other person, even if it means sacrificing my own desires in the process.
- I follow my heart, even if it leads to conflict or difficult conversations, believing that honesty is essential in relationships.
- I withdraw from the situation, avoiding confrontation and hoping that the issue resolves itself on its own.
How often do you take the time to reflect on your personal growth and acknowledge how far you’ve come?
- I regularly engage in self-reflection, celebrating my accomplishments and identifying areas for continued growth.
- I reflect on my growth during significant milestones or transitions in my life.
- I tend to focus on the present moment, not dwelling too much on the past or future.
- I rarely take the time for self-reflection, as I’m constantly striving for the next goal or accomplishment.
How confident are you in your ability to overcome challenges and achieve your goals, even when faced with setbacks or obstacles?
- I’m very confident in my resilience and determination, viewing challenges as opportunities for growth and learning.
- My confidence fluctuates depending on the situation, but I generally believe in my ability to overcome obstacles.
- I often doubt myself and my abilities, allowing fear and self-sabotage to hinder my progress.
- I rely on external validation and support from others to boost my confidence and motivate me to succeed.
How do you handle feelings of guilt or regret related to past mistakes or missed opportunities in your life?
- I acknowledge my mistakes, learn from them, and practice self-forgiveness, allowing myself to move forward.
- I try to make amends for my past actions, seeking to right any wrongs and find closure.
- I dwell on my regrets, allowing guilt and shame to hold me back from fully embracing the present moment.
- I suppress my feelings of guilt, burying them deep down and avoiding situations that trigger those emotions.
Do you have a strong support system—friends, family, or mentors—to provide guidance and encouragement on your journey?
- Yes, I have a close-knit circle of loved ones who offer unwavering support and guidance.
- I have a few trusted individuals I can confide in, but I value my independence and often navigate challenges on my own.
- I struggle to connect with others on a deeper level and often feel isolated or alone in my struggles.
- I rely heavily on my support system, seeking their approval and validation in most areas of my life.
Which of the following is most accurate when it comes to your approach to personal growth and self-improvement?
- I’m committed to continuous learning and growth, embracing new experiences and actively seeking out opportunities for self-improvement.
- I’m open to personal growth, but I prefer to learn at my own pace and focus on areas that truly resonate with me.
- I’m content with who I am and don’t feel the need for significant personal growth or self-improvement.
- I’m intimidated by the idea of personal growth, fearing failure or judgment, so I often avoid taking risks or stepping outside my comfort zone.
What do you think is missing in your life right now that would help you feel more connected to yourself and your purpose?
- A deeper sense of belonging and connection within a community of like-minded individuals.
- The time and space to explore my creative passions and express myself more authentically.
- The courage to let go of limiting beliefs and embrace my full potential.
- A greater sense of peace and contentment, appreciating the present moment and trusting in the journey.
What is your personal philosophy on love and relationships?
- I believe in finding a love that is both passionate and compassionate, a partnership built on mutual respect, trust, and shared values.
- I believe that love is a journey, not a destination, and that relationships require effort, understanding, and a willingness to grow together.
- I believe in following my heart, even if it leads me down unconventional paths, trusting that the right love will find me.
- I’m cautious about love, having been hurt in the past, and I tend to protect my heart by keeping people at a distance.