How do you feel about the idea of restoring an old, forgotten place to its former glory?
- I find it incredibly romantic and inspiring! Bringing history back to life is a beautiful thing.
- It’s a lot of work, but the results can be incredibly rewarding.
- It’s important to preserve the past, but I’m not sure I’d have the patience for a full restoration.
- I’d rather focus on creating something new than dwelling on the past.
What’s your favorite aspect of small-town life as depicted in The Old Peabody Pew?
- The strong sense of community and shared history.
- The slower pace of life and the chance to connect with nature.
- The quirky characters and their unique stories.
- To be honest, I find small towns a bit stifling. I prefer the anonymity of the city.
What makes you nervous about the idea of someone waiting for you for years, like Nancy did for Justin?
- The pressure of living up to their expectations after all that time.
- The fear that they might have moved on or built a life without you.
- The idea of being tied to someone from your past when you’ve both changed so much.
- I don’t believe in waiting around for anyone. Life is too short!
What makes you most frustrated about Justin’s initial reluctance to pursue a future with Nancy?
- His lack of self-belief and his tendency to dwell on past failures.
- His fear of hurting Nancy again if he doesn’t succeed.
- His inability to see how much Nancy truly loves and believes in him.
- He should just get over himself and grab happiness while he can!
What are you most excited about when you think about Nancy and Justin’s future together?
- The chance for them to finally build a happy life together after years of waiting.
- Their shared commitment to their community and the church.
- The possibility of them starting a family and creating new memories in Edgewood.
- I’m a bit skeptical about their chances, to be honest.
What do you dream about when it comes to finding love later in life?
- Finding someone who accepts me for who I am, flaws and all.
- Sharing a deep connection and a sense of companionship.
- Rekindling a lost love and getting a second chance at happiness.
- I’m perfectly content with my life as it is, with or without a romantic partner.
What happened in the past when you last helped someone in need?
- It brought me a great sense of satisfaction and strengthened our bond.
- It was challenging but ultimately rewarding to make a positive difference in their life.
- I try to help whenever I can, but sometimes it’s hard to know what to do.
- I prefer to focus on my own problems and let others deal with theirs.
What comes to mind when you think about the old Peabody pew sitting empty in the church for all those years?
- A sense of longing and the passage of time.
- The enduring power of hope and the possibility of return.
- The weight of unspoken words and unfulfilled dreams.
- It’s just an old pew. People move on, things change.
What’s your favorite memory of a time when a community came together to achieve a common goal?
- The feeling of unity and shared purpose was truly special.
- It was inspiring to see what we could accomplish when we worked together.
- I have fond memories of community events from my childhood.
- I’m not particularly involved in my community. I prefer to keep to myself.
When you were a kid, how did you experience the magic of Christmas?
- Through the eyes of wonder and the excitement of receiving gifts.
- As a time for family traditions and creating cherished memories.
- By embracing the spirit of giving and helping those in need.
- Christmas was always a bit chaotic and overwhelming for me.
You have a choice of spending a cozy Christmas Eve surrounded by loved ones or embarking on a spontaneous adventure to a snowy destination. Which do you choose?
- I’m a homebody at heart. Give me warmth, laughter, and good company.
- I crave adventure and new experiences, even (or especially) during the holidays.
- Ideally, a bit of both! A cozy Christmas Eve followed by a fun outing on Christmas Day.
- I don’t have strong preferences when it comes to holidays.
A specific situation arises: You discover an old love letter addressed to you. How do you react?
- A flood of emotions washes over me as I eagerly read every word, lost in memories.
- Curiosity piqued, I carefully open the letter, intrigued by the secrets it might hold.
- I hesitate, feeling a mix of apprehension and excitement before deciding to read it.
- I toss it aside without a second thought. The past is the past.
What keeps you up at night about finding your own happy ending in life?
- The fear of making the wrong choices and ending up alone.
- The uncertainty of the future and the possibility of things not working out as planned.
- The weight of past regrets and missed opportunities.
- I don’t dwell on those things. I focus on living in the present.
Which of these activities would you enjoy the most on a snowy winter day?
- Curling up by the fire with a good book and a cup of hot chocolate.
- Going for a walk in the woods, enjoying the peacefulness of nature.
- Baking delicious treats and sharing them with loved ones.
- Catching up on work or hobbies, making the most of the quiet time.
When you think about your own romantic relationships, what are you most concerned about?
- Maintaining a strong connection and avoiding falling into a rut.
- Finding a balance between independence and togetherness.
- Overcoming past hurts and allowing myself to be vulnerable again.
- I’m not overly concerned about romance. It’s just one aspect of life.
What aspect of Nancy and Justin’s love story makes you the most happy?
- Their unwavering faith in each other and their ability to forgive past mistakes.
- The way their love story is intertwined with the heart of their community.
- The heartwarming ending and the promise of a brighter future together.
- I’m not particularly invested in their story, but I’m glad it worked out for them.
What is most likely to make you feel down about the prospect of finding lasting love?
- The fear of rejection or the pain of heartbreak.
- The societal pressure to find a partner and conform to certain expectations.
- The challenges of modern dating and the difficulty of finding someone who shares my values.
- I don’t let the pursuit of romantic love define my happiness.
In a perfect world, what would your ideal romantic relationship look like?
- A partnership built on mutual respect, trust, and shared dreams.
- A deep connection characterized by passion, laughter, and unwavering support.
- A love that challenges me to grow while providing a safe haven from the world’s storms.
- My ideal relationship wouldn’t necessarily involve romance.
If you could wave a magic wand, what would the perfect Christmas look like for you this year?
- Surrounded by loved ones, feeling a sense of peace, joy, and gratitude.
- Experiencing the magic of Christmas through the eyes of a child.
- Giving back to my community and making a difference in the lives of others.
- A stress-free holiday season where I can relax and recharge.
How often do you find yourself daydreaming about a second chance with a lost love?
- Occasionally, when a specific memory is triggered or I hear a particular song.
- Rarely, as I prefer to focus on the present and the possibilities that lie ahead.
- I believe that some things are better left in the past.
- I don’t dwell on the “what ifs” of life.
You are at a party, and someone strikes up a conversation about small-town life. What do you do?
- I eagerly share my thoughts and experiences, painting a vivid picture of my own hometown.
- I listen politely, offering occasional comments or questions to keep the conversation flowing.
- I try to steer the conversation toward a topic I’m more comfortable with.
- I excuse myself as soon as possible. I find small talk tedious.
How comfortable are you with the idea of your romantic life being the subject of local gossip?
- It wouldn’t bother me in the slightest. I have nothing to hide.
- I’d prefer to keep my private life private, but I understand that it comes with the territory.
- I’d find it incredibly intrusive and would do my best to avoid becoming the center of attention.
- I can’t imagine living somewhere where everyone knows everyone else’s business.
You have a free weekend in a charming New England town. What do you do?
- Explore the historical sites, browse the quaint shops, and savor the local cuisine.
- Immerse myself in nature, hiking through the forests and enjoying the fresh air.
- Visit the local museums and art galleries, soaking up the local culture.
- Find a cozy café, curl up with a good book, and enjoy the peace and quiet.
Which of these is most likely to be a struggle for you in your own relationships?
- Expressing my feelings openly and allowing myself to be vulnerable.
- Setting healthy boundaries and maintaining my sense of independence.
- Letting go of past hurts and learning to trust again.
- I’m not sure any of these would be major struggles for me.
Which member of the Dorcas Society are you most like?
- Nancy Wentworth, the kind and patient romantic.
- Mrs. Burbank, the energetic and resourceful leader.
- Maria Sharp, the sharp-tongued but well-meaning observer.
- Lobelia Brewster, the cynical and independent voice of reason.
News comes out that a long-lost family heirloom has been found. What is your first response?
- Excitement and a surge of curiosity about its history and significance.
- A sense of connection to the past and the generations that came before me.
- I’d be curious to learn more, but I wouldn’t get overly emotional about it.
- Material possessions don’t hold much sentimental value for me.
Someone asks, “How’s your love life?” What’s the actual answer, not just “I’m good?”
- It’s complicated.
- I’m working on it.
- I’m happy being single.
- I’d rather not say.
What’s your go-to comfort watch when you need a dose of heartwarming romance?
- A classic romantic comedy that never fails to make me laugh and feel good.
- A period drama with sweeping landscapes and a touch of historical intrigue.
- A feel-good movie about second chances and the enduring power of love.
- I prefer documentaries or true crime shows.
What historical period do you most want to learn about or experience through books, movies, or time travel (if it were possible)?
- The Victorian era, with its elegance, social customs, and romantic ideals.
- The American Civil War, a time of great upheaval and change.
- Ancient Greece, with its mythology, philosophy, and contributions to Western civilization.
- I’m more interested in the present and the future than the past.
What’s your favorite memory of a time when you witnessed the true meaning of Christmas?
- A moment of generosity or kindness that touched my heart and restored my faith in humanity.
- A shared experience with loved ones that created a lasting memory and strengthened our bond.
- A time when I was able to let go of material desires and focus on the simple joys of the season.
- I don’t have strong feelings about Christmas one way or the other.
What social causes or charitable organizations are you most passionate about supporting?
- Organizations that combat poverty, hunger, and homelessness.
- Groups that promote education, literacy, and access to healthcare.
- Environmental organizations working to protect our planet for future generations.
- I prefer to focus on my own personal growth and let others fight for their causes.
What is your absolute favorite comfort food that evokes warm memories of childhood or special occasions?
- My grandmother’s famous apple pie, made with love and passed down through generations.
- A simple grilled cheese sandwich and tomato soup, reminding me of cozy snow days spent indoors.
- A big bowl of pasta, bringing back memories of family gatherings and laughter around the table.
- I don’t tend to attach emotions to food.
How would your friends and family describe your approach to love and relationships?
- A hopeless romantic who believes in true love and happy endings.
- A loyal and supportive partner who values commitment and communication.
- A bit guarded and cautious, but capable of deep love and affection.
- Independent and self-sufficient, content with or without a romantic partner.
Tell us a little about your ideal first date. What kind of atmosphere, activity, and conversation would make it memorable for you?
- A cozy café with a warm ambiance, stimulating conversation, and shared laughter.
- An outdoor adventure that allows us to connect through shared interests and challenges.
- A visit to a museum or art gallery, sparking thoughtful discussions and revealing our perspectives.
- I don’t have a specific ideal; it’s more about the connection and chemistry.
If you could choose any superpower to have in your relationships, which one would you choose and why?
- The ability to communicate telepathically, ensuring effortless understanding and empathy.
- The power to heal emotional wounds, fostering trust and forgiveness.
- The gift of foresight, allowing me to navigate challenges with wisdom and grace.
- I’d rather work through relationship issues with my own strengths and abilities.
What’s the first thing that comes to mind when you hear the phrase “second chances” in the context of love?
- Hope, forgiveness, and the possibility of a brighter future.
- The risk of getting hurt again and the fear of repeating past mistakes.
- A chance to learn from past experiences and build a stronger foundation.
- Sometimes, it’s better to move on and create new beginnings.
What affects you the most: words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, or physical touch?
- Words of affirmation, as hearing positive feedback and expressions of love make me feel valued.
- Acts of service, as actions speak louder than words and demonstrate care and consideration.
- Quality time, as spending dedicated time together strengthens our bond and creates lasting memories.
- Physical touch, as hugs, cuddles, and hand-holding foster a sense of closeness and intimacy.
- Receiving gifts, as thoughtful gestures show that you’re thinking of me.
What’s your idea of the perfect proposal?
- A grand romantic gesture planned to perfection, creating a moment I’ll never forget.
- An intimate and heartfelt proposal, expressing your love in a way that feels authentic and true.
- A proposal that reflects our shared interests and creates a lasting memory tied to a special place.
- I don’t have strong opinions about proposals. It’s the commitment that matters most.
What is your strongest quality that you bring to your relationships (romantic or platonic)?
- My empathy and ability to understand and connect with others on a deep level.
- My loyalty and unwavering support for those I care about.
- My sense of humor and ability to find joy even in challenging times.
- My independence and ability to be happy and fulfilled on my own.
How prepared are you to handle the challenges that come with rekindling a relationship after a long separation, like Nancy and Justin’s?
- I’m a firm believer in second chances and willing to put in the work to overcome obstacles.
- I’m open to the possibility, but I acknowledge it would require patience, understanding, and communication.
- I’m not sure I’d be cut out for that kind of emotional heavy lifting.
- I’d rather focus on building a future with someone who hasn’t hurt me in the past.
What happens if you pour your heart and soul into restoring something only to find that it’s not what you expected?
- It would be disappointing, but I’d find solace in knowing I gave it my all.
- I’d try to learn from the experience and adjust my expectations for future endeavors.
- It might make me question my judgment and ability to make sound decisions.
- I’m not one to dwell on disappointments. I’d move on to the next project.
What do you think you need in your life right now to create the kind of lasting love that Nancy and Justin found?
- The courage to be vulnerable and open myself up to the possibility of love.
- The patience to wait for the right person and not settle for less than I deserve.
- The willingness to work through challenges and grow together.
- I believe I already have everything I need to find happiness, with or without a partner.
How often do you prioritize acts of service or gestures of love for the important people in your life?
- Regularly. I believe that actions speak louder than words.
- Occasionally, when the inspiration strikes or there’s a special occasion.
- I struggle to find the time and energy, but I appreciate those who go out of their way for me.
- I believe that everyone should be responsible for their own happiness.
How confident are you in your ability to create a warm and welcoming atmosphere in your home?
- I excel at creating a cozy and inviting space that reflects my personality.
- I’m comfortable hosting, but I don’t always go all out with decorations or elaborate meals.
- I prefer to socialize outside of my home, where I feel less pressure to entertain.
- My home is my sanctuary, and I prefer to keep it private.
How do you handle disagreements or conflicts in your relationships?
- I try to approach the situation with empathy, seeking to understand the other person’s perspective.
- I’m a direct communicator and believe in addressing issues head-on, even if it leads to uncomfortable conversations.
- I tend to avoid conflict, which can sometimes lead to unresolved issues festering beneath the surface.
- I don’t tolerate drama. If a relationship is consistently fraught with conflict, I’d rather walk away.
Do you have a strong support system of friends and family, like the community in The Old Peabody Pew?
- Yes, I’m incredibly close to my loved ones, and they’re always there for me, no matter what.
- I have a small circle of trusted friends and family members whom I can rely on.
- I’m quite independent and prefer to navigate challenges on my own.
- I believe that true strength comes from within, not from relying on others.
How well do you stick to your convictions, even when faced with societal expectations or pressure to conform?
- I’m true to myself and my values, even if it means going against the grain.
- I try to find a balance between honoring my own beliefs and respecting the opinions of others.
- I sometimes struggle to stand up for myself, especially when faced with confrontation.
- I’m adaptable and willing to compromise, as long as it doesn’t compromise my integrity.
Which of the following is most accurate when it comes to your view on love and relationships?
- Love is a journey, not a destination, and it requires effort, compromise, and forgiveness.
- Love should be easy and effortless. If it’s meant to be, it will be.
- I’m cynical about love. I’ve seen too many relationships fail to believe in fairy tales.
- I’m open to love, but I’m not actively seeking it. If it happens, it happens.
To what degree do you experience the “fear of missing out” (FOMO) in your social life or romantic relationships?
- I rarely experience FOMO. I’m content with my own life and choices.
- I sometimes feel a twinge of envy when I see others’ seemingly perfect lives on social media.
- I often feel like I’m missing out on something better, which can make it hard to appreciate what I have.
- I’m too busy living my own life to worry about what everyone else is doing.
Which of these best describes your current approach to dating and relationships?
- Actively searching, hopeful, and open to finding a meaningful connection.
- Casually dating, enjoying the process, and not putting too much pressure on finding “the one.”
- Taking a break from dating to focus on myself and my personal growth.
- Content being single, with no immediate plans to change my relationship status.
What is your current biggest challenge when it comes to personal growth and self-discovery?
- Overcoming self-doubt and believing in my own worthiness.
- Letting go of past hurts and moving forward with a positive outlook on life.
- Identifying my passions and figuring out what truly brings me joy.
- I’m constantly learning and evolving, but I don’t see any major challenges right now.
What’s the first thing that comes to mind when you encounter a seemingly insurmountable obstacle in your life?
- Determination to overcome the challenge and find a solution.
- Fear and self-doubt, questioning my ability to handle the situation.
- A sense of resignation, accepting that some things are beyond my control.
- I’m a resourceful problem-solver and confident in my ability to handle whatever life throws my way.
How do you handle unexpected changes or disruptions to your carefully laid plans?
- I adapt as best I can, embracing the unexpected twists and turns of life.
- I get frustrated easily and struggle to adjust when things don’t go my way.
- I try to find a silver lining and maintain a positive attitude, even amidst chaos.
- I’m a planner by nature, so I always have a backup plan in place.
How would you describe your relationship to your local community?
- Deeply rooted, actively involved, and invested in its well-being.
- Friendly and social, but not overly involved in community events or organizations.
- I keep to myself and prefer to maintain a sense of anonymity.
- I’m considering moving to a new city or town to explore new surroundings and experiences.
Are you stuck in a cycle of dating the same type of person or repeating unhealthy relationship patterns?
- Yes, I’m aware of the pattern, but I’m not sure how to break free.
- I’ve noticed some recurring themes, but I’m working on making healthier choices.
- I learn from my past experiences and strive to make conscious decisions in my relationships.
- I haven’t been in enough relationships to establish a discernible pattern.
What would you say are your top struggles right now in finding a fulfilling romantic partnership?
- Meeting people who share my values and are looking for a serious relationship.
- Overcoming past heartbreak and allowing myself to be vulnerable again.
- Managing the demands of work, social life, and dating without feeling overwhelmed.
- I’m not actively looking for a relationship, so I don’t see it as a struggle.
What is your ultimate relationship goal? What kind of partnership are you hoping to build?
- A loving and supportive partnership built on mutual respect, trust, and shared dreams.
- A passionate and adventurous relationship filled with excitement, travel, and new experiences.
- A comfortable and stable partnership with someone who shares my values and life goals.
- I’m open to different possibilities and don’t have a fixed idea of what my ideal relationship should look like.
What do you think is missing in your life that could be preventing you from experiencing the kind of deep connection that Nancy and Justin share?
- The courage to be vulnerable and open my heart to someone new.
- The opportunity to connect with people who share my interests and values.
- The belief that true love is possible and that I deserve to find it.
- I believe I’m capable of deep connection, but it’s about finding the right person.
What is your current level of expertise in the art of forgiveness, both towards yourself and others who have hurt you?
- I’m a work in progress, but I’m actively trying to let go of resentment and practice forgiveness.
- I believe in second chances and strive to approach situations with empathy and understanding.
- I struggle to forgive, especially when someone has deeply betrayed my trust.
- Forgiveness is a sign of weakness. I prefer to cut ties with those who have wronged me.
A scenario arises where you have the opportunity to reconnect with a lost love. However, pursuing this reconnection could jeopardize your current relationship or friendship with someone else. How do you respond?
- I carefully consider the potential consequences and prioritize the relationship that truly matters most.
- I follow my heart, even if it leads to difficult choices or potential heartache.
- I avoid the situation altogether, choosing to maintain the status quo rather than risk hurting anyone.
- I believe in honesty and transparency. I would discuss the situation with all parties involved before making a decision.
What word best describes your current emotional state: content, restless, hopeful, or uncertain?
- Content, as I’m generally happy with my life and grateful for what I have.
- Restless, as I crave new experiences and challenges and feel a sense of wanderlust.
- Hopeful, as I’m optimistic about the future and believe that good things are on the horizon.
- Uncertain, as I’m navigating a period of transition and figuring out my next steps.
Which of the following do you notice yourself worrying about on a day-to-day basis?
- Finding a romantic partner and achieving my relationship goals.
- Succeeding in my career and achieving financial stability.
- Maintaining strong relationships with my loved ones and nurturing those connections.
- My health, well-being, and finding a sense of purpose and fulfillment in life.
How happy and fulfilled do you feel in your current relationship with yourself?
- I’m deeply content with who I am and embrace my strengths and flaws.
- I’m a work in progress, but I’m actively practicing self-love and acceptance.
- I struggle with self-doubt and often compare myself to others, leading to feelings of inadequacy.
- I’m focusing on my own personal growth and haven’t given much thought to my relationship with myself.
How well do you balance your personal needs with the needs of those around you?
- I strive for a healthy balance, setting boundaries while being supportive and present for my loved ones.
- I tend to prioritize the needs of others above my own, often putting myself last.
- I’m fiercely independent and value my own time and space.
- I believe in reciprocity in relationships. Everyone’s needs are equally important.
How connected do you feel to your emotions and your intuition?
- I’m deeply in tune with my feelings and trust my gut instincts.
- I’m working on becoming more emotionally aware and understanding my own patterns.
- I tend to suppress my emotions and find it challenging to articulate how I feel.
- I’m a logical thinker and prefer to make decisions based on reason rather than emotions.
Which of the following is most likely to frustrate you in a romantic relationship?
- Lack of communication and emotional unavailability.
- Broken promises and a pattern of dishonesty.
- Feeling unappreciated or taken for granted.
- Different life goals and a lack of shared values.
What is the trickiest part about maintaining a sense of community in today’s fast-paced and increasingly digital world?
- Finding the time and energy to participate in community events and nurture relationships.
- Combating the sense of isolation that can come from social media and online interactions.
- Bridging generational divides and finding common ground with people from diverse backgrounds.
- I don’t find it particularly tricky. There are plenty of opportunities to connect with others, both online and offline.
Do you struggle more with setting healthy boundaries or with asserting your needs in your relationships?
- I have difficulty setting boundaries and often end up feeling resentful or taken advantage of.
- I’m comfortable asserting my needs, but I sometimes come across as aggressive or insensitive.
- I find a balance between the two, communicating my needs clearly while respecting the boundaries of others.
- I’m still figuring out what healthy boundaries look like in my relationships.
Do you have a self-care routine in place, such as regular exercise, meditation, or spending time in nature?
- Yes, I prioritize self-care and make time for activities that nourish my mind, body, and spirit.
- I try to incorporate self-care practices into my routine when I can, but I often prioritize other obligations.
- I know I should prioritize self-care, but I struggle to make it a habit.
- I don’t believe in self-care. It’s important to be strong and push through challenges.
How do you determine your personal goals and priorities each year?
- I reflect on my values, passions, and aspirations, setting realistic and meaningful goals.
- I go with the flow, letting life unfold organically and adapting to whatever comes my way.
- I focus on my career ambitions and strive for success in my chosen field.
- I prioritize my relationships and invest my time and energy in the people I care about most.
Are you consistently achieving your goals and living in alignment with your values?
- Yes, I’m living a purposeful and fulfilling life that aligns with my core beliefs.
- I’m making progress, but there’s always room for improvement and growth.
- I struggle to stay motivated and often get sidetracked by distractions or self-doubt.
- I’m still figuring out what I want out of life and what truly matters to me.
How do you manage the emotional ups and downs of life? What helps you stay grounded and resilient during challenging times?
- I rely on my support system, seeking comfort and guidance from loved ones.
- I engage in self-care practices that nourish my soul, such as meditation, journaling, or spending time in nature.
- I focus on my strengths and accomplishments, reminding myself of my resilience and ability to overcome obstacles.
- I try to avoid dwelling on negative emotions and maintain a positive outlook, even when faced with adversity.