What is your self-love language?

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Self-love is not selfish; you cannot truly love another until you know how to love yourself.

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  I prefer to spend my time alone by:

  • A.
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    Cooking for myself

    (Correlates to: Acts of service)
  • B.
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    Applying soothing products in my skin

    (Correlates to: Physical Touch)
  • C.
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    Treating myself to small gifts like a donut

    (Correlates to: Receiving Gifts)
  • D.
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    Reminding myself how awesome I am

    (Correlates to: Words of Affirmation)
  • E.
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    Indulging in my personal hobby

    (Correlates to: Quality Time)
• 2.
  Before a presentation, I prepare myself by

  • A.
    Getting pretty and spotless

    (Correlates to: Physical Touch)
  • B.
    Reminding myself that I got this!

    (Correlates to: Words of Affirmation)
  • C.
    I get myself a safety token like a squishy nerves ball

    (Correlates to: Receiving Gifts)
  • D.
    I take time to review my knowledge

    (Correlates to: Quality Time)
  • E.
    I make sure all the techy things are up and running

    (Correlates to: Acts of service)
• 3.
  When I am feeling down, this cheers me up

  • A.
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    A soothing bath

    (Correlates to: Physical Touch)
  • B.
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    A gorgeous looking treat

    (Correlates to: Receiving Gifts)
  • C.
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    Writing down my thoughts and gratitudes

    (Correlates to: Words of Affirmation)
  • D.
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    Performing an activity like dancing or exercising

    (Correlates to: Quality Time)
  • E.
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    Making myself a cup of tea 

    (Correlates to: Acts of service)
• 4.
  When I have a date

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    I bring my make up game one, baby

    (Correlates to: Physical Touch)
  • B.
    I tell myself how lucky that guy/girl is

    (Correlates to: Words of Affirmation)
  • C.
    I get myself a new item for the night

    (Correlates to: Receiving Gifts)
  • D.
    I make sure the reservation is done and ready to go

    (Correlates to: Acts of service)
  • E.
    I spend a long time getting ready, I love it!

    (Correlates to: Quality Time)
• 5.
  The perfect solo-trip

  • A.
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    I keep telling myself how awesome this is!

    (Correlates to: Words of Affirmation)
  • B.
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    I made sure all is planned and booked so I have no worries

    (Correlates to: Acts of service)
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    I spend my time shopping and at markets

    (Correlates to: Receiving Gifts)
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    I get all the massages I can get!

    (Correlates to: Physical Touch)
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    I visit all the museums and places of interest

    (Correlates to: Quality Time)
• 6.
  When I have worked/studied hard, I reward myself by

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  • A.
    I get a little present for myself

    (Correlates to: Receiving Gifts)
  • B.
    I treat myself to the movies or theatre

    (Correlates to: Quality Time)
  • C.
    I take myself to the spa

    (Correlates to: Physical Touch)
  • D.
    I give myself time to clean my house

    (Correlates to: Acts of service)
  • E.
    I keep telling myself and others what a great job I did

    (Correlates to: Words of Affirmation)
• 7.
  I feel most loved when I

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    Buy flowers for myself

    (Correlates to: Receiving Gifts)
  • B.
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    Tick something important off from my to do list

    (Correlates to: Acts of service)
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    Spend time working on my hobbies

    (Correlates to: Quality Time)
  • D.
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    Have a kind and compassionate talk with myself

    (Correlates to: Words of Affirmation)
  • E.
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    Get passionate with myself

    (Correlates to: Physical Touch)
• 8.
  The most important self-care routine for me is

  • A.
    My skin routine

    (Correlates to: Physical Touch)
  • B.
    Tidying up my space

    (Correlates to: Acts of service)
  • C.
    Getting the items I need

    (Correlates to: Receiving Gifts)
  • D.
    Exercising

    (Correlates to: Quality Time)
  • E.
    Journaling

    (Correlates to: Words of Affirmation)
• 9.
  When I get home from a busy day the first thing I do is

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  • A.
    Change my clothes and feel comfy in fresh ones

    (Correlates to: Physical Touch)
  • B.
    Start planing the meal for the night

    (Correlates to: Acts of service)
  • C.
    Reflect on what went well during the day

    (Correlates to: Words of Affirmation)
  • D.
    Spend time reading or doing a fulfilling activity

    (Correlates to: Quality Time)
  • E.
    Look in the mailbox to see what is there for me

    (Correlates to: Receiving Gifts)
• 10.
  If I unexpectedly received a large amount of money

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    I would buy my dream car

    (Correlates to: Receiving Gifts)
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    I would plan the trip of a lifetime

    (Correlates to: Quality Time)
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    I would put money aside for my early retiring

    (Correlates to: Acts of service)
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    I would write a book about it

    (Correlates to: Words of Affirmation)
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    I would visit all my loved ones and hug them

    (Correlates to: Physical Touch)

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  Words of Affirmation

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  The best way to show yourself love is through the usage of words. Affirmations, Journaling, Letters to yourself are the best way to practice self-love for you. Hot Tip: It is also the best way for others to get to you and find your love. Share this finding with your loved ones so they understand how to show you love more accurately.
• 2.
  Physical Touch

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  Touching yourself is an amazing way to tell yourself that you love you. Caressing your hair, using beauty products, wearing nice textured clothes, treating yourself to a massage, and other intimate touches ;) are the best ways to feel loved by your own person. Also, it is the best way for you to receive love from others, so encourage your LOVED ones to use it more with you.
• 3.
  Acts of service

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  You are a service person. You love serving others and for that reason, the best way to show love to yourself is to serve yourself. Acts like cooking for you, taking yourself to a medical check-up, washing your clothes with delicate love, washing your car, or organising your space are ways to do acts of service to yourself.
• 4.
  Quality Time

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  You love spending time with yourself, wether it is spending time with your thoughts, practising your hobbies or giving yourself the attention that you need. Spending quality time with yourself is your self-love language: Taking yourself to the movies, reading your favourite book, practising your dancing or unravelling the creativity through painting are your best options!
• 5.
  Receiving Gifts

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  Receiving gifts is the biggest way of receiving love for you. You are excited about things with meaning and can connect objects with very strong emotions and memories. To show yourself love you can treat yourself to a clothing item, or a little cute snack. Make sure it is something you truly need and is aligned with who you are and your values.