Do you keep your love on?

Quiz Questions

1.
Would you consider yourself a powerful person?
- A.
  Absolutely – I am usually the most influential & aggressive person in the room. In one way or another, I end up getting my way and can usually get people on board with my ideas.
- B.
  I’m not the loudest person in the room but feel like I can contribute to any situation and even though there might be disagreement I can walk away knowing I shared my ideas.
- C.
  I really don’t know how to answer this.
- D.
  Not really – I prefer staying quiet & don’t have too many preferences in the way things should go.
2.
What do you think is a key factor in being a “powerful” person?
- A.
  Resilient and determined
- B.
  Aggressive & willful
- C.
  Assertive & truthful
3.
Do you know how to send the message “I love you very much” to the most important people in your life?
- A.
  That’s a good question, I’ve never thought about it.
- B.
  Absolutely, though the way they receive love is often far different than how I receive it.
- C.
  My loved ones feel my love, regardless if i express it or not.
4.
Are you aware of your love language and the love languages of the important people in your life?
- A.
  I‘m not entirely sure what the love languages are.
- B.
  I love knowing what my love languages are, and I make a point to find out other peoples as well.
- C.
  I know the love languages of those I love most, but I don’t know anyone else’s beyond that.
- D.
  I’ve never thought about using that tool outside of my immediate family.
5.
How often would you say you consciously express love to the important people in your life?
- A.
  I’m really not sure.
- B.
  The only person I make an effort to express my love to is to the one I love most.
- C.
  Often. I love to make sure the people most important to me feel loved.
6.
In relation to pain or the fear of getting hurt, which one of these feels the most true?
- A.
  I am afraid of getting hurt or rejected by others, and tend to avoid sharing my thoughts & feelings.
- B.
  I try to be mindful of the ways I’ve been hurt in the past and move toward people even if I feel scared.
- C.
  I have never felt fear or hurt in relationships.
- D.
  I often wait until I’m really upset to say anything.
7.
How do you tend to handle disagreements with people in your life?
- A.
  I tend to just avoid people I feel conflict with. Life’s too short!
- B.
  Agreeing to disagree has proven to be the best practice for me. Some topics are just best untouched.
- C.
  I have changed my thoughts on certain issues in fear of losing a relationship with someone important.
- D.
  After voicing what I think in a disagreement, I can choose to love and circle back to the conversation later.
8.
How do you find yourself reacting when someone you love makes a mistake?
- A.
  I try to keep bringing it up so the person can be sure to make it right.
- B.
  I don’t worry about what others say or do.
- C.
  I don’t really know how to answer this. What kind of mistakes are we talking about?
- D.
  If this mistake affected me in some way, I make sure we talk about it to get it behind us more quickly. How we move forward has a lot to do with whether they are sorry or not.
9.
Do you stay mindful of how your actions and words can affect those around you?
- A.
  I try but people shouldn’t be so sensitive around me all the time.
- B.
  I never really think about that
- C.
  I hope so!
- D.
  Yes! I stay pretty aware of those I’m around.
10.
In your opinion, what would you say is the most important aspect of healthy communication?
- A.
  Agreement
- B.
  Peace
- C.
  Understanding
- D.
  Lots of talking and words exchanged
11.
What type of role do you play when the unexpected happens (things don’t go the way you want them to)?
- A.
  If the situation is a negative one, I do my best to fix what I can and move forward.
- B.
  It tends to stress me out and I feel like I can’t focus on the task at hand when things are not in order.
- C.
  I feel like I can roll with the punches and go with whatever comes at me. I try not to think about it
- D.
  I honestly don’t know.
12.
When you’re involved in any type of conflict or disconnect, how do you react to things that are hurtful or scare you?
- A.
  I have to be honest and admit that I often use anger. I usually end up regretting my actions after the fact.
- B.
  I’m pretty level headed most of the time. I believe there is always a resolution.
- C.
  I usually play it cool in the moment, but feel hurt or angry inside later.
13.
Do you constantly find yourself over committed, maybe saying, “yes” too often?
- A.
  I’m really bad about over committing...
- B.
  Sometimes. People close to me are hard to say no to!
- C.
  I don’t think so. I give myself permission to set limits...

Quiz Outcomes

1.
Your love is there, turn it on!
Thanks for taking the KYLO quiz! Unfortunately, your score reflected that it may benefit you to learn more about how to turn & keep your love on. No need to fear, however. It is NEVER too late to learn! Keeping your love on. It is a hard thing to do. Sometimes it is the hardest thing to do. But if you want to build healthy relationships with God and others, learning to keep your love on is non–negotiable. Adults and children alike thrive in healthy relationships where it is safe to love and be loved, to know and be known. Yet for many, relationships are anything but safe, loving, or intimate. They are defined by anxiety, manipulation, control, and conflict. The reason is that most people have never been trained to be powerful enough to keep their love on in the face of mistakes, pain, and fear. Often times, the difference between living a life trapped by fear or one empowered by love is simply us setting our intention on developing the skill of keeping our love on. Now... Check your email for three ways you can keep your love on with those around you at home or at work! If interested in learning more, I've put together an online school of resources to help you understand & internalize these practices for relationships, home & work! (learn more here) PPS) If you've already a student with us at The Life Academy, be sure to join the Culture & Conversations Track where we release new content, conversations & Q&A's every month to resource you on your journey!
2.
Your Love is on, but it can burn brighter!
Thanks for taking the KYLO quiz! Well done! Your score shows that you know how to turn your love on. However, it also shows that you may not always know how to keep it on! No need to fear, however. It's NEVER too late to learn and grow! Keeping your love on. It is a hard thing to do. Sometimes it is the hardest thing to do. But if you want to build healthy relationships with God and others, learning to keep your love on is non–negotiable. Adults and children alike thrive in healthy relationships where it is safe to love and be loved, to know and be known. Yet for many, relationships are anything but safe, loving, or intimate. They are defined by anxiety, manipulation, control, and conflict. The reason is that most people have never been trained to be powerful enough to keep their love on in the face of mistakes, pain, and fear. Often times, the difference between living a life trapped by fear or one empowered by love is simply us setting our intention on developing the skill of keeping our love on. Now... Check your email for three ways you can keep your love on with those around you at home or at work! PS) These should get you started. But in the end, to consistently turn your love on, the practices of intentional communication, connection-first & boundaries are paramount. If interested in learning more, I've put together an online school of resources to help you understand & internalize these practices for relationships, home & work! (learn more here) PPS) If you've already a student with us at The Life Academy, be sure to join the Culture & Conversations Track where we release new content, conversations & Q&A's every month to resource you on your journey!
3.
Your love is definitely ON! Let's make it brighter!
Thanks for taking the KYLO quiz! Congratulations! Your score reflected that you know how to keep your love on! But what if it could burn even brighter? Keeping your love on. It is a hard thing to do. Sometimes it is the hardest thing to do. But if you want to build healthy relationships with God and others, learning to keep your love on is non–negotiable. Adults and children alike thrive in healthy relationships where it is safe to love and be loved, to know and be known. Yet for many, relationships are anything but safe, loving, or intimate. They are defined by anxiety, manipulation, control, and conflict. The reason is that most people have never been trained to be powerful enough to keep their love on in the face of mistakes, pain, and fear. Often times, the difference between living a life trapped by fear or one empowered by love is simply us setting our intention on developing the skill of keeping our love on. Now... Check your email for three ways you can keep your love on with those around you at home or at work! PS) These should get you started. But in the end, to consistently turn your love on, the practices of intentional communication, connection-first & boundaries are paramount. If interested in learning more, I've put together an online school of resources to help you understand & internalize these practices for relationships, home & work! (learn more here) PPS) If you've already a student with us at The Life Academy, be sure to join the Culture & Conversations Track where we release new content, conversations & Q&A's every month to resource you on your journey!