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Sexually Blocked
You feel closed about sex, it is pretty taboo and feelings like awkward, uncomfortable and anxious are what you associate with sex. It all feels unfamiliar and you’ve never really connected with it. It could be causing conflict in your relationship and you feel completely blocked about it all. It’s all too hard and you wish your sex problems would go away (and you don’t care if you never had it again). Usually, these sorts of feelings arise from negative (or no) education about sex growing up, trauma, shame, physical conditions that cause pain and discomfort and body image issues.
The really good news is that if you choose to get to know and explore your sexuality then you are positioned to shift and dissolve these blocks. The remedy? Good quality information about female sexuality and an open mind will permit you to open up, feel pleasure (not just pain or numbness) and create intimacy in sex.
In the meantime, don't give up hope and stay tuned because I have plenty in store to help you move from feeling closed and stuck to liberated and confident.
Lauren xo