Should You Sleep With Him?

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Quiz Questions

1.
How old are you?
- A.
  Under 18
- B.
  19-21
- C.
  Over 21
2.
How long have you been dating?
- A.
  A couple days
- B.
  A couple weeks
- C.
  A couple months
- D.
  A couple years
3.
Have you been out on a real date with him?
- A.
  We've got out on dates where he's paid multiple times
- B.
  We've been out for drinks or coffee
- C.
  Does pizza and a movie at my place count?
- D.
  We've been out on a mix of real dates and low pressure dates
4.
Have you talked about having sex?
- A.
  A little bit, we are starting to talk about it more
- B.
  No, it's hard to talk about that stuff
- C.
  Yeah, we talk about it openly
- D.
  Kinda, we haven't been out on too many dates yet
5.
Do you even want to sleep with him?
- A.
  Yes
- B.
  No, not really
- C.
  Kinda, not really sure yet
- D.
  I do but I'm nervous
6.
How do you feel about your relationship?
- A.
  I'm hoping he'll commit to me
- B.
  We have a lot in common and I enjoy learning more about him
- C.
  It's still new but I'm having fun
- D.
  We've known each other a while and things are going well
7.
Has he asked you to have sex with him?
- A.
  He asked for it once and got upset when I said no
- B.
  Kinda, he hinted at it but didn't ask
- C.
  We've had sex already
- D.
  We haven't gotten that far
8.
Have far have you gone with him?
- A.
  Just lots of kissing
- B.
  We've had sex before
- C.
  It's gotten pretty heavy but not all the way
- D.
  We only hugged or kissed on the cheek
9.
What benefit do you think sex will have on your relationship?
- A.
  I think he'll want to commit to me
- B.
  It will help us get to know each other
- C.
  It's something we both have wanted to do for a while
- D.
  It will bring us closer together
10.
Are you both looking for the same things relationship wise?
- A.
  No, I want a relationship, he wants sex
- B.
  No, I want sex, he wants a relationship
- C.
  Yes, we have talked about wanting the same things
- D.
  I don't know, we haven't really talked about it
- E.
  We've talked about it a little but we've mostly been getting to know each other
11.
Do you trust them?
- A.
  Yes
- B.
  No
- C.
  Not really
- D.
  Getting there
12.
Are you in love with each other?
- A.
  Yes, we've said to to each other multiple times
- B.
  We like each other a lot
- C.
  No, things are still new
- D.
  Not even close
- E.
  I'm not looking for love right now
13.
Do you want to marry this person?
- A.
  Yes, I'd love to spend my life with them
- B.
  It's a possibility
- C.
  I'm not sure yet
- D.
  No, definitely not
14.
What does your religion say about sex?
- A.
  No sex before marriage
- B.
  I'm not religious
- C.
  I have a relationship with God and I think he'd be okay if I had sex
- D.
  I'm not sure what I believe
15.
What are you views on safety?
- A.
  No glove no love!
- B.
  I feel very comfortable and safe with my partner
- C.
  I will use protection since I don't know him all that well
- D.
  It's not a big deal, I'm clean and I'm sure he is too
16.
How would you feel if he never called you again after sleeping with you?
- A.
  Crushed and heart broken
- B.
  It would really suck but I'd move on
- C.
  Like I did something wrong or he got what he wanted
- D.
  I'd be really confused

Quiz Outcomes

1.
Don't do it!
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There are too many red flags going on here. Do you even really want to sleep with this guy or are you feeling pressured? Don't do anything you're not fully comfortable with and it sounds like you have some reservations. Why don't you spend more time getting to know this guy better? See how he really feels about you and what his intentions are. If he doesn't stick around then he was only in it for one thing anyway and you have spared yourself heartbreak.
2.
It's too soon to tell
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Sounds like either you're relationship is fairly new or you two are taking things slow. It's good not to rush things and to spend time getting to know one another before making any big decisions. Enjoy this stage of your relationship by going on dates, having meaningful conversation and seeing if you click with one another. Allow things to progress naturally. If the time and person are right then it will happen.
3.
Maybe
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You two are connecting well and sex might be a good way to take things to the next level.... However, the key word is might be. Sex is tricky. It can bring you closer together or it can complicate things. Plus if you have religious or moral beliefs those can come into play and make you feel bad about your decision if things don't work out long term. At the end of the day it is your choice. If you decide to have sex, be smart and protect both your body and your heart. Don't do it to get anything like commitment or to make him like you more. Don't do it because you're being pressured. Sex is an act of love; do it when you are ready and with someone you love.
4.
Go for it!
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It seems all the signs are there and it could be the right time to move things to the next level, if you haven't already. From your answers it sounds like you are very comfortable with your man. That will make it easier for you to communicate your needs and wants in your relationship. Sex can change things and it's best to be open with your partner. Make sure you want the same things and have a mutual understanding. And don't feel like you have to call him right now and tell him; these things typically happen naturally. Just have fun with him and it will happen when the time is right.

Should You Sleep With Him?

Have you been wondering if the time is right to sleep with your new man? Take this quiz to help you figure out if the time is right or if you should hold off a little while longer. DISCLAIMER: Sex is a big deal. Trust your gut feelings and be smart. This quiz is just for fun.

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