What's your Love Personality?

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Quiz Questions

1.
When you are chatting with your partner about something serious, what do you want to hear about?
- A.
  You like to listen for their dreams, passions and what they are aspiring to do.
- B.
  You just like to listen, your attention is the best thing you can give to them.
- C.
  You want the facts, no time for the fluff or minor details.
- D.
  You listen, but really you just want to tell them how amazing they are.
2.
What excites you most when meeting someone new?
- A.
  Hearing about their relationships, romantic and otherwise
- B.
  Learning their goals and dreams, who do they want to be?
- C.
  Facts about them. What’s their favorite dog breed? What did they eat for breakfast?
- D.
  Learning about their passions.
3.
Which of the following describes you on a date:
- A.
  You love to ask questions. What is their mom like? Who did they take to senior prom?
- B.
  You love to listen first and then share about yourself when asked.
- C.
  You love to chat and let the conversation flow freely. The less structure to the conversation, the better.
- D.
  You love to understand and support their feelings
4.
What types of interactions do you enjoy when hanging out with your partner?
- A.
  To get into debates or discussions about current events.
- B.
  Understanding the details of a situation. You need to know the plan, even if it’s a fun social outing or a relaxing weekend trip
- C.
  You are just there to hang with them, who cares what you are doing?
- D.
  You love to just sit on the couch and hear everything about them and just chat it up.
5.
What best describes you?
- A.
  Fast paced. The more going on in your life, the better.
- B.
  Relaxed pace. You are the definition of Netflix and Chill, but actually chilling.
6.
How do you handle conflict with your partner?
- A.
  I like to get to the bottom line, let’s just say you give the punchline first.
- B.
  I like to zoom out and look at the greater picture
- C.
  I like to focus on the facts within a conflict. You disregard emotion and get to the logical side of the issue.
- D.
  I like to listen to their side first and then give your calculated opinion.
7.
When presenting your ideas about your next vacation to your partner; which best describes you?
- A.
  Focus on the goals and use facts about where you will go and when you be at the pool or on the beach.
- B.
  Share ideas about what it will be like to just hang out on the beach, how will it feel to go on vacation?
- C.
  You make a detailed agenda and send a gcal invite
- D.
  You focus on how this vacation will bring you closer to your partner.
8.
When you speak and share about something you are passionate about you tend to:
- A.
  Speak at a relatively fast pace
- B.
  Not rush the discussion, get feedback from others as you go
- C.
  Give lots of details. The color of your office chair is important.
- D.
  Relax and take your time
9.
When do you feel most loved by your partner?
- A.
  When they tell me why they love me
- B.
  When they cuddle with me
- C.
  Helps me without having to ask
10.
What do you feel like the best thing you could get from your partner is?
- A.
  A long meaningful hug. You want to feel like you’re in a romcom when you see your partner at the end of the day.
- B.
  A love letter. The gushier, the better.
- C.
  When my partner brings me breakfast in bed. Nothing quite like waking up to the smell of bacon or pancakes!
11.
What makes you feel special?
- A.
  When my partner tells me how great I am in front of friends
- B.
  When my partner puts their arm around me in public. I love PDA!
- C.
  A home-cooked meal, the way to my heart is through my stomach, duh!
12.
What means more to you?
- A.
  Tells me about their day and asks about mine!
- B.
  When my partner kisses me in public. More kisses always, please!
- C.
  When my partner takes care of the dishes or chores, it sucks no matter how old you are!
13.
What makes you feel cherished and special?
- A.
  When my partner tells me why they think I’m amazing
- B.
  Being greeted with a big hug and kiss
- C.
  When they help me with errands
14.
What makes your heart throb?
- A.
  Hearing why people appreciate and love me
- B.
  When my partner takes care of a chore or task I was supposed to do
- C.
  Spending a lil extra time to cuddle before getting out of bed
15.
What would make you melt a little?
- A.
  A massage
- B.
  A sweet hand-written card or letter hidden in your lunch
- C.
  My least favorite chore or something I was avoiding done for me
16.
Which statement is most true?
- A.
  Historically, when I am not in a relationship, I feel somewhat anxious and incomplete.
- B.
  I find it difficult to emotionally support my partner when they are feeling emotional or down.
- C.
  I feel confident sharing with my partner. giving my partner the space they need, and taking space I need.
17.
Which statement is most true?
- A.
  During a conflict, I tend to impulsively do or say things I later regret, rather than being able to reason about things in the moment.
- B.
  An argument with my partner doesn’t usually cause me to question our entire relationship.
- C.
  Sometimes I get angry or annoyed with my partner without knowing why.
18.
Which statement is most true?
- A.
  When my partner is away, I’m afraid that they might become interested in someone else.
- B.
  I find it easy to be affectionate with my partner.
- C.
  I miss my partner when we’re apart but when we’re together I feel the need to escape.
19.
Which statement is most true?
- A.
  I often worry about that my partner will leave me.
- B.
  I believe most people are essentially honest and dependable.
- C.
  I find that I bounce back quickly after a break up. It’s weird how I can just put someone out of my mind.
20.
Which statement is most true?
- A.
  I fear that once someone gets to know the real me, he or she won’t like who I am.
- B.
  I’m comfortable sharing my personal thoughts and feelings with my partner.
- C.
  My partner often wants me to be more intimate or vulnerable than I am comfortable being.
21.
Which statement is most true?
- A.
  If I notice someone I’m interested in is checking out other people, it makes me feel depressed.
- B.
  If I notice someone I’m interested is checking out other people, I feel relieved- it means they are not looking to make things exclusive.
- C.
  If I notice someone I’m interested in is checking out other people, I don’t let it faze me. I might feel a pang of jealousy, but it’s fleeting.
22.
What statement is most true?
- A.
  I tend to get quickly attached to a romantic partner.
- B.
  I’m comfortable depending on my romantic partners.
- C.
  I hate feeling like other people depend on me

Quiz Outcomes

1.
You are a Helper!
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You're a huge team player in your relationships! Taking these first steps shows that you're willing to work to create a thriving relationship. You understand you're loved best when your partner helps you out by shouldering some of your responsibilities. Laziness and broken commitments make you feel like your feelings or efforts don't matter. You probably already know this, but you are very detail oriented and precise. You focus on facts and are an excellent communicator. You may fear lovey-dovey conversations, because you usually keep it brief when talking about your own emotions or personal thoughts. You speak without a lot of emphasis because you value the facts more than you value persuading someone to see your side. You have a secure attachment style meaning you're generally comfortable with intimacy; not worried about rejection or preoccupied with the relationship. It is easy for you to get close to others, and you are comfortable depending on them and having them depend on you. You don’t worry about being abandoned or about someone getting too close to you. You respect your partner's need for their own time without feeling rejected or threatened and have a good perspective on being close while being independent.
2.
You are a Teacher!
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It's beautiful how you embrace people with open arms. Being physically close to your partner is important to you. You love being touched, hugged, and embraced. We don’t just mean sexual touch but the small gestures that show concern, care, and understanding.You find comfort in being physically close and neglect in physical affection can make you hurt more than most. You crave closeness and intimacy and can feel very insecure about relationships. You have an anxious attachment style. Due to previous wounds, you worry that your partner doesn’t love you or will abandon you. You tend to be argumentative and desire to be extremely emotionally close with others, but feel as if others are reluctant to get as close as you would like. You often worry that your partner doesn’t love or value you and will abandon you. Your inordinate need for closeness can scare people away. You seek security and safety through your partner. You get to the bottom line. You have no time for fluff or rambling, when you speak it’s usually with meaning, and while maintaining eye contact. Because you are intentional with your goal, you are great at presenting ideas, but sometimes a poor listener and impatient. Remember not all advice is bad advice and its important to remember that relationships are not a business.
3.
You are an Examiner!
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It's beautiful how you embrace people with open arms. Being physically close to your partner is important to you. You love being touched, hugged, and embraced. We don’t just mean sexual touch but the small gestures that show concern, care, and understanding.You find comfort in being physically close and neglect in physical affection can make you hurt more than most. You crave closeness and intimacy and can feel very insecure about relationships. You have an anxious attachment style. Due to previous wounds, you worry that your partner doesn’t love you or will abandon you. You tend to be argumentative and desire to be extremely emotionally close with others, but feel as if others are reluctant to get as close as you would like. You often worry that your partner doesn’t love or value you and will abandon you. Your inordinate need for closeness can scare people away. You seek security and safety through your partner. You probably already know this, but you are very detail oriented and precise. You focus on facts and are an excellent communicator. You may fear lovey-dovey conversations, because you usually keep it brief when talking about your own emotions or personal thoughts. You speak without a lot of emphasis because you value the facts more than you value persuading someone to see your side.
4.
You are an Embracer!
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It's beautiful how you embrace people with open arms. Being physically close to your partner is important to you. You love being touched, hugged, and embraced. We don’t just mean sexual touch but the small gestures that show concern, care, and understanding.You find comfort in being physically close and neglect in physical affection can make you hurt more than most. You crave closeness and intimacy and can feel very insecure about relationships. You have an anxious attachment style. Due to previous wounds, you worry that your partner doesn’t love you or will abandon you. You tend to be argumentative and desire to be extremely emotionally close with others, but feel as if others are reluctant to get as close as you would like. You often worry that your partner doesn’t love or value you and will abandon you. Your inordinate need for closeness can scare people away. You seek security and safety through your partner. You’re the free spirit who tells the best stories! You are motivational and see everything from a big picture perspective. You may miss details, but you have a good time doing it! Your partner may call you dramatic, but we all know you are truly just trying to inspire those around you. Your partner’s support and love through conversations and actions mean the world to you. It means the world to you when your partner appreciates your ideas and how freely you share them.
5.
You are a Companion!
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It's beautiful how you embrace people with open arms. Being physically close to your partner is important to you. You love being touched, hugged, and embraced. We don’t just mean sexual touch but the small gestures that show concern, care, and understanding.You find comfort in being physically close and neglect in physical affection can make you hurt more than most. You are a great listener and communicator. You are the person people come to for advice because you build trust naturally through being very supportive and overall encouraging. You hate conflict and usually give into others wants and desires, keeping your opinion to yourself. You focus on relationships, being supportive and attentive to others feelings. Just make sure you take time to rest and speak up when you feel strongly about something. You have a secure attachment style meaning you're generally comfortable with intimacy; not worried about rejection or preoccupied with the relationship. It is easy for you to get close to others, and you are comfortable depending on them and having them depend on you. You don’t worry about being abandoned or about someone getting too close to you. You respect your partner's need for their own time without feeling rejected or threatened and have a good perspective on being close while being independent.
6.
You are a Noblest!
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It's beautiful how you embrace people with open arms. Being physically close to your partner is important to you. You love being touched, hugged, and embraced. We don’t just mean sexual touch but the small gestures that show concern, care, and understanding.You find comfort in being physically close and neglect in physical affection can make you hurt more than most. You get to the bottom line. You have no time for fluff or rambling, when you speak it’s usually with meaning, and while maintaining eye contact. Because you are intentional with your goal, you are great at presenting ideas, but sometimes a poor listener and impatient. Remember not all advice is bad advice and its important to remember that relationships are not a business. You have a secure attachment style meaning you're generally comfortable with intimacy; not worried about rejection or preoccupied with the relationship. It is easy for you to get close to others, and you are comfortable depending on them and having them depend on you. You don’t worry about being abandoned or about someone getting too close to you. You respect your partner's need for their own time without feeling rejected or threatened and have a good perspective on being close while being independent.
7.
You are a Researcher!
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It's beautiful how you embrace people with open arms. Being physically close to your partner is important to you. You love being touched, hugged, and embraced. We don’t just mean sexual touch but the small gestures that show concern, care, and understanding.You find comfort in being physically close and neglect in physical affection can make you hurt more than most. You probably already know this, but you are very detail oriented and precise. You focus on facts and are an excellent communicator. You may fear lovey-dovey conversations, because you usually keep it brief when talking about your own emotions or personal thoughts. You speak without a lot of emphasis because you value the facts more than you value persuading someone to see your side. You have a secure attachment style meaning you're generally comfortable with intimacy; not worried about rejection or preoccupied with the relationship. It is easy for you to get close to others, and you are comfortable depending on them and having them depend on you. You don’t worry about being abandoned or about someone getting too close to you. You respect your partner's need for their own time without feeling rejected or threatened and have a good perspective on being close while being independent.
8.
You are a Maker!
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It's beautiful how you embrace people with open arms. Being physically close to your partner is important to you. You love being touched, hugged, and embraced. We don’t just mean sexual touch but the small gestures that show concern, care, and understanding.You find comfort in being physically close and neglect in physical affection can make you hurt more than most. You’re the free spirit who tells the best stories! You are motivational and see everything from a big picture perspective. You may miss details, but you have a good time doing it! Your partner may call you dramatic, but we all know you are truly just trying to inspire those around you. Your partner’s support and love through conversations and actions mean the world to you. It means the world to you when your partner appreciates your ideas and how freely you share them. You have a secure attachment style meaning you're generally comfortable with intimacy; not worried about rejection or preoccupied with the relationship. It is easy for you to get close to others, and you are comfortable depending on them and having them depend on you. You don’t worry about being abandoned or about someone getting too close to you. You respect your partner's need for their own time without feeling rejected or threatened and have a good perspective on being close while being independent.
9.
You are a Collaborator!
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It's beautiful how you embrace people with open arms. Being physically close to your partner is important to you. You love being touched, hugged, and embraced. We don’t just mean sexual touch but the small gestures that show concern, care, and understanding.You find comfort in being physically close and neglect in physical affection can make you hurt more than most. You are a great listener and communicator. You are the person people come to for advice because you build trust naturally through being very supportive and overall encouraging. You hate conflict and usually give into others wants and desires, keeping your opinion to yourself. You focus on relationships, being supportive and attentive to others feelings. Just make sure you take time to rest and speak up when you feel strongly about something. Closeness can make you feel uncomfortable as you really value independence and freedom. You have an avoidant attachment style. It is very important that you feel independent and self-sufficient. Your partner often wants you to be more intimate than you are comfortable being. Intimacy often feels like a loss of independence and you'd prefer autonomy to togetherness. Your communication tends to be intellectual and you are not comfortable talking about emotions. When it comes to conflict you can be known to avoid it until it leads to an explosion. You handle crisis in a non-emotional way and are able to take charge.
10.
You are a Thinker!
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It's beautiful how you embrace people with open arms. Being physically close to your partner is important to you. You love being touched, hugged, and embraced. We don’t just mean sexual touch but the small gestures that show concern, care, and understanding.You find comfort in being physically close and neglect in physical affection can make you hurt more than most. You get to the bottom line. You have no time for fluff or rambling, when you speak it’s usually with meaning, and while maintaining eye contact. Because you are intentional with your goal, you are great at presenting ideas, but sometimes a poor listener and impatient. Remember not all advice is bad advice and its important to remember that relationships are not a business. Closeness can make you feel uncomfortable as you really value independence and freedom. You have an avoidant attachment style. It is very important that you feel independent and self-sufficient. Your partner often wants you to be more intimate than you are comfortable being. Intimacy often feels like a loss of independence and you'd prefer autonomy to togetherness. Your communication tends to be intellectual and you are not comfortable talking about emotions. When it comes to conflict you can be known to avoid it until it leads to an explosion. You handle crisis in a non-emotional way and are able to take charge.
11.
You are an Investigator!
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It's beautiful how you embrace people with open arms. Being physically close to your partner is important to you. You love being touched, hugged, and embraced. We don’t just mean sexual touch but the small gestures that show concern, care, and understanding.You find comfort in being physically close and neglect in physical affection can make you hurt more than most. You probably already know this, but you are very detail oriented and precise. You focus on facts and are an excellent communicator. You may fear lovey-dovey conversations, because you usually keep it brief when talking about your own emotions or personal thoughts. You speak without a lot of emphasis because you value the facts more than you value persuading someone to see your side. Closeness can make you feel uncomfortable as you really value independence and freedom. You have an avoidant attachment style. It is very important that you feel independent and self-sufficient. Your partner often wants you to be more intimate than you are comfortable being. Intimacy often feels like a loss of independence and you'd prefer autonomy to togetherness. Your communication tends to be intellectual and you are not comfortable talking about emotions. When it comes to conflict you can be known to avoid it until it leads to an explosion. You handle crisis in a non-emotional way and are able to take charge.
12.
You are an Inventor!
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It's beautiful how you embrace people with open arms. Being physically close to your partner is important to you. You love being touched, hugged, and embraced. We don’t just mean sexual touch but the small gestures that show concern, care, and understanding.You find comfort in being physically close and neglect in physical affection can make you hurt more than most. You’re the free spirit who tells the best stories! You are motivational and see everything from a big picture perspective. You may miss details, but you have a good time doing it! Your partner may call you dramatic, but we all know you are truly just trying to inspire those around you. Your partner’s support and love through conversations and actions mean the world to you. It means the world to you when your partner appreciates your ideas and how freely you share them. Closeness can make you feel uncomfortable as you really value independence and freedom. You have an avoidant attachment style. It is very important that you feel independent and self-sufficient. Your partner often wants you to be more intimate than you are comfortable being. Intimacy often feels like a loss of independence and you'd prefer autonomy to togetherness. Your communication tends to be intellectual and you are not comfortable talking about emotions. When it comes to conflict you can be known to avoid it until it leads to an explosion. You handle crisis in a non-emotional way and are able to take charge.
13.
You are a Champion!
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You're a huge team player in your relationships! Taking these first steps shows that you're willing to work to create a thriving relationship. You understand you're loved best when your partner helps you out by shouldering some of your responsibilities. Laziness and broken commitments make you feel like your feelings or efforts don't matter. You are a great listener and communicator. You are the person people come to for advice because you build trust naturally through being very supportive and overall encouraging. You hate conflict and usually give into others wants and desires, keeping your opinion to yourself. You focus on relationships, being supportive and attentive to others feelings. Just make sure you take time to rest and speak up when you feel strongly about something. You have a secure attachment style meaning you're generally comfortable with intimacy; not worried about rejection or preoccupied with the relationship. It is easy for you to get close to others, and you are comfortable depending on them and having them depend on you. You don’t worry about being abandoned or about someone getting too close to you. You respect your partner's need for their own time without feeling rejected or threatened and have a good perspective on being close while being independent.
14.
You are a Prompter!
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You're a huge team player in your relationships! Taking these first steps shows that you're willing to work to create a thriving relationship. You understand you're loved best when your partner helps you out by shouldering some of your responsibilities. Laziness and broken commitments make you feel like your feelings or efforts don't matter. You get to the bottom line. You have no time for fluff or rambling, when you speak it’s usually with meaning, and while maintaining eye contact. Because you are intentional with your goal, you are great at presenting ideas, but sometimes a poor listener and impatient. Remember not all advice is bad advice and its important to remember that relationships are not a business. You have a secure attachment style meaning you're generally comfortable with intimacy; not worried about rejection or preoccupied with the relationship. It is easy for you to get close to others, and you are comfortable depending on them and having them depend on you. You don’t worry about being abandoned or about someone getting too close to you. You respect your partner's need for their own time without feeling rejected or threatened and have a good perspective on being close while being independent.
15.
You are an Upholder!
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It's beautiful how you embrace people with open arms. Being physically close to your partner is important to you. You love being touched, hugged, and embraced. We don’t just mean sexual touch but the small gestures that show concern, care, and understanding.You find comfort in being physically close and neglect in physical affection can make you hurt more than most. You crave closeness and intimacy and can feel very insecure about relationships. You have an anxious attachment style. Due to previous wounds, you worry that your partner doesn’t love you or will abandon you. You tend to be argumentative and desire to be extremely emotionally close with others, but feel as if others are reluctant to get as close as you would like. You often worry that your partner doesn’t love or value you and will abandon you. Your inordinate need for closeness can scare people away. You seek security and safety through your partner. You are a great listener and communicator. You are the person people come to for advice because you build trust naturally through being very supportive and overall encouraging. You hate conflict and usually give into others wants and desires, keeping your opinion to yourself. You focus on relationships, being supportive and attentive to others feelings. Just make sure you take time to rest and speak up when you feel strongly about something.
16.
You are a Pioneer!
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You're a huge team player in your relationships! Taking these first steps shows that you're willing to work to create a thriving relationship. You understand you're loved best when your partner helps you out by shouldering some of your responsibilities. Laziness and broken commitments make you feel like your feelings or efforts don't matter. You’re the free spirit who tells the best stories! You are motivational and see everything from a big picture perspective. You may miss details, but you have a good time doing it! Your partner may call you dramatic, but we all know you are truly just trying to inspire those around you. Your partner’s support and love through conversations and actions mean the world to you. It means the world to you when your partner appreciates your ideas and how freely you share them. You have a secure attachment style meaning you're generally comfortable with intimacy; not worried about rejection or preoccupied with the relationship. It is easy for you to get close to others, and you are comfortable depending on them and having them depend on you. You don’t worry about being abandoned or about someone getting too close to you. You respect your partner's need for their own time without feeling rejected or threatened and have a good perspective on being close while being independent.
17.
You are a Supporter!
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You're a huge team player in your relationships! Taking these first steps shows that you're willing to work to create a thriving relationship. You understand you're loved best when your partner helps you out by shouldering some of your responsibilities. Laziness and broken commitments make you feel like your feelings or efforts don't matter. You crave closeness and intimacy and can feel very insecure about relationships. You have an anxious attachment style. Due to previous wounds, you worry that your partner doesn’t love you or will abandon you. You tend to be argumentative and desire to be extremely emotionally close with others, but feel as if others are reluctant to get as close as you would like. You often worry that your partner doesn’t love or value you and will abandon you. Your inordinate need for closeness can scare people away. You seek security and safety through your partner. You are a great listener and communicator. You are the person people come to for advice because you build trust naturally through being very supportive and overall encouraging. You hate conflict and usually give into others wants and desires, keeping your opinion to yourself. You focus on relationships, being supportive and attentive to others feelings. Just make sure you take time to rest and speak up when you feel strongly about something.
18.
You are a Caretaker!
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You're a huge team player in your relationships! Taking these first steps shows that you're willing to work to create a thriving relationship. You understand you're loved best when your partner helps you out by shouldering some of your responsibilities. Laziness and broken commitments make you feel like your feelings or efforts don't matter. You crave closeness and intimacy and can feel very insecure about relationships. You have an anxious attachment style. Due to previous wounds, you worry that your partner doesn’t love you or will abandon you. You tend to be argumentative and desire to be extremely emotionally close with others, but feel as if others are reluctant to get as close as you would like. You often worry that your partner doesn’t love or value you and will abandon you. Your inordinate need for closeness can scare people away. You seek security and safety through your partner. You get to the bottom line. You have no time for fluff or rambling, when you speak it’s usually with meaning, and while maintaining eye contact. Because you are intentional with your goal, you are great at presenting ideas, but sometimes a poor listener and impatient. Remember not all advice is bad advice and its important to remember that relationships are not a business.
19.
You are a Coach!
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You're a huge team player in your relationships! Taking these first steps shows that you're willing to work to create a thriving relationship. You understand you're loved best when your partner helps you out by shouldering some of your responsibilities. Laziness and broken commitments make you feel like your feelings or efforts don't matter. You crave closeness and intimacy and can feel very insecure about relationships. You have an anxious attachment style. Due to previous wounds, you worry that your partner doesn’t love you or will abandon you. You tend to be argumentative and desire to be extremely emotionally close with others, but feel as if others are reluctant to get as close as you would like. You often worry that your partner doesn’t love or value you and will abandon you. Your inordinate need for closeness can scare people away. You seek security and safety through your partner. You probably already know this, but you are very detail oriented and precise. You focus on facts and are an excellent communicator. You may fear lovey-dovey conversations, because you usually keep it brief when talking about your own emotions or personal thoughts. You speak without a lot of emphasis because you value the facts more than you value persuading someone to see your side.
20.
You are a Originator!
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You're a huge team player in your relationships! Taking these first steps shows that you're willing to work to create a thriving relationship. You understand you're loved best when your partner helps you out by shouldering some of your responsibilities. Laziness and broken commitments make you feel like your feelings or efforts don't matter. You crave closeness and intimacy and can feel very insecure about relationships. You have an anxious attachment style. Due to previous wounds, you worry that your partner doesn’t love you or will abandon you. You tend to be argumentative and desire to be extremely emotionally close with others, but feel as if others are reluctant to get as close as you would like.You often worry that your partner doesn’t love or value you and will abandon you. Your inordinate need for closeness can scare people away. You seek security and safety through your partner. You’re the free spirit who tells the best stories! You are motivational and see everything from a big picture perspective. You may miss details, but you have a good time doing it! Your partner may call you dramatic, but we all know you are truly just trying to inspire those around you. Your partner’s support and love through conversations and actions mean the world to you. It means the world to you when your partner appreciates your ideas and how freely you share them.
21.
You are a Motivator!
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You're a huge team player in your relationships! Taking these first steps shows that you're willing to work to create a thriving relationship. You understand you're loved best when your partner helps you out by shouldering some of your responsibilities. Laziness and broken commitments make you feel like your feelings or efforts don't matter. You are a great listener and communicator. You are the person people come to for advice because you build trust naturally through being very supportive and overall encouraging. You hate conflict and usually give into others wants and desires, keeping your opinion to yourself. You focus on relationships, being supportive and attentive to others feelings. Just make sure you take time to rest and speak up when you feel strongly about something. Closeness can make you feel uncomfortable as you really value independence and freedom. You have an avoidant attachment style. It is very important that you feel independent and self-sufficient. Your partner often wants you to be more intimate than you are comfortable being. Intimacy often feels like a loss of independence and you'd prefer autonomy to togetherness. Your communication tends to be intellectual and you are not comfortable talking about emotions. When it comes to conflict you can be known to avoid it until it leads to an explosion. You handle crisis in a non-emotional way and are able to take charge.
22.
You are a Architect!
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You're a huge team player in your relationships! Taking these first steps shows that you're willing to work to create a thriving relationship. You understand you're loved best when your partner helps you out by shouldering some of your responsibilities. Laziness and broken commitments make you feel like your feelings or efforts don't matter. You get to the bottom line. You have no time for fluff or rambling, when you speak it’s usually with meaning, and while maintaining eye contact. Because you are intentional with your goal, you are great at presenting ideas, but sometimes a poor listener and impatient. Remember not all advice is bad advice and its important to remember that relationships are not a business. Closeness can make you feel uncomfortable as you really value independence and freedom. You have an avoidant attachment style. It is very important that you feel independent and self-sufficient. Your partner often wants you to be more intimate than you are comfortable being. Intimacy often feels like a loss of independence and you'd prefer autonomy to togetherness. Your communication tends to be intellectual and you are not comfortable talking about emotions. When it comes to conflict you can be known to avoid it until it leads to an explosion. You handle crisis in a non-emotional way and are able to take charge.
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You are a Builder!
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You're a huge team player in your relationships! Taking these first steps shows that you're willing to work to create a thriving relationship. You understand you're loved best when your partner helps you out by shouldering some of your responsibilities. Laziness and broken commitments make you feel like your feelings or efforts don't matter. You probably already know this, but you are very detail oriented and precise. You focus on facts and are an excellent communicator. You may fear lovey-dovey conversations, because you usually keep it brief when talking about your own emotions or personal thoughts. You speak without a lot of emphasis because you value the facts more than you value persuading someone to see your side. Closeness can make you feel uncomfortable as you really value independence and freedom. You have an avoidant attachment style. It is very important that you feel independent and self-sufficient. Your partner often wants you to be more intimate than you are comfortable being. Intimacy often feels like a loss of independence and you'd prefer autonomy to togetherness. Your communication tends to be intellectual and you are not comfortable talking about emotions. When it comes to conflict you can be known to avoid it until it leads to an explosion. You handle crisis in a non-emotional way and are able to take charge.
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You are a Framer!
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You're a huge team player in your relationships! Taking these first steps shows that you're willing to work to create a thriving relationship. You understand you're loved best when your partner helps you out by shouldering some of your responsibilities. Laziness and broken commitments make you feel like your feelings or efforts don't matter. You’re the free spirit who tells the best stories! You are motivational and see everything from a big picture perspective. You may miss details, but you have a good time doing it! Your partner may call you dramatic, but we all know you are truly just trying to inspire those around you. Your partner’s support and love through conversations and actions mean the world to you. It means the world to you when your partner appreciates your ideas and how freely you share them. Closeness can make you feel uncomfortable as you really value independence and freedom. You have an avoidant attachment style. It is very important that you feel independent and self-sufficient. Your partner often wants you to be more intimate than you are comfortable being. Intimacy often feels like a loss of independence and you'd prefer autonomy to togetherness. Your communication tends to be intellectual and you are not comfortable talking about emotions. When it comes to conflict you can be known to avoid it until it leads to an explosion. You handle crisis in a non-emotional way and are able to take charge.
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You are a Dreamer!
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Way to be incredible and proactive about building a thriving relationship! We get to tell you how awesome you are for taking steps to strengthen your relationship. For you, words speak just as loud as actions. You understand you're loved best through kind and encouraging affirmations. Unsolicited compliments and “I love you’s” mean the world to you. You are a great listener and communicator. You are the person people come to for advice because you build trust naturally through being very supportive and overall encouraging. You hate conflict and usually give into others wants and desires, keeping your opinion to yourself. You focus on relationships, being supportive and attentive to others feelings. Just make sure you take time to rest and speak up when you feel strongly about something. Closeness can make you feel uncomfortable as you really value independence and freedom. You have an avoidant attachment style. It is very important that you feel independent and self-sufficient. Your partner often wants you to be more intimate than you are comfortable being. Intimacy often feels like a loss of independence and you'd prefer autonomy to togetherness. Your communication tends to be intellectual and you are not comfortable talking about emotions. When it comes to conflict you can be known to avoid it until it leads to an explosion. You handle crisis in a non-emotional way and are able to take charge.
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You are a Informer!
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Way to be incredible and proactive about building a thriving relationship! We get to tell you how awesome you are for taking steps to strengthen your relationship. For you, words speak just as loud as actions. You understand you're loved best through kind and encouraging affirmations. Unsolicited compliments and “I love you’s” mean the world to you. You get to the bottom line. You have no time for fluff or rambling, when you speak it’s usually with meaning, and while maintaining eye contact. Because you are intentional with your goal, you are great at presenting ideas, but sometimes a poor listener and impatient. Remember not all advice is bad advice and its important to remember that relationships are not a business. Closeness can make you feel uncomfortable as you really value independence and freedom. You have an avoidant attachment style. It is very important that you feel independent and self-sufficient. Your partner often wants you to be more intimate than you are comfortable being. Intimacy often feels like a loss of independence and you'd prefer autonomy to togetherness. Your communication tends to be intellectual and you are not comfortable talking about emotions. When it comes to conflict you can be known to avoid it until it leads to an explosion. You handle crisis in a non-emotional way and are able to take charge.
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You are a Ambassador!
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Way to be incredible and proactive about building a thriving relationship! We get to tell you how awesome you are for taking steps to strengthen your relationship. For you, words speak just as loud as actions. You understand you're loved best through kind and encouraging affirmations. Unsolicited compliments and “I love you’s” mean the world to you. You probably already know this, but you are very detail oriented and precise. You focus on facts and are an excellent communicator. You may fear lovey-dovey conversations, because you usually keep it brief when talking about your own emotions or personal thoughts. You speak without a lot of emphasis because you value the facts more than you value persuading someone to see your side. Closeness can make you feel uncomfortable as you really value independence and freedom. You have an avoidant attachment style. It is very important that you feel independent and self-sufficient. Your partner often wants you to be more intimate than you are comfortable being. Intimacy often feels like a loss of independence and you'd prefer autonomy to togetherness. Your communication tends to be intellectual and you are not comfortable talking about emotions. When it comes to conflict you can be known to avoid it until it leads to an explosion. You handle crisis in a non-emotional way and are able to take charge.
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You are a Strategist!
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Way to be incredible and proactive about building a thriving relationship! We get to tell you how awesome you are for taking steps to strengthen your relationship. For you, words speak just as loud as actions. You understand you're loved best through kind and encouraging affirmations. Unsolicited compliments and “I love you’s” mean the world to you. You’re the free spirit who tells the best stories! You are motivational and see everything from a big picture perspective. You may miss details, but you have a good time doing it! Your partner may call you dramatic, but we all know you are truly just trying to inspire those around you. Your partner’s support and love through conversations and actions mean the world to you. It means the world to you when your partner appreciates your ideas and how freely you share them. Closeness can make you feel uncomfortable as you really value independence and freedom. You have an avoidant attachment style. It is very important that you feel independent and self-sufficient. Your partner often wants you to be more intimate than you are comfortable being. Intimacy often feels like a loss of independence and you'd prefer autonomy to togetherness. Your communication tends to be intellectual and you are not comfortable talking about emotions. When it comes to conflict you can be known to avoid it until it leads to an explosion. You handle crisis in a non-emotional way and are able to take charge.
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You are a Counselor!
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Way to be incredible and proactive about building a thriving relationship! We get to tell you how awesome you are for taking steps to strengthen your relationship. For you, words speak just as loud as actions. You understand you're loved best through kind and encouraging affirmations. Unsolicited compliments and “I love you’s” mean the world to you. You are a great listener and communicator. You are the person people come to for advice because you build trust naturally through being very supportive and overall encouraging. You hate conflict and usually give into others wants and desires, keeping your opinion to yourself. You focus on relationships, being supportive and attentive to others feelings. Just make sure you take time to rest and speak up when you feel strongly about something. You have a secure attachment style meaning you're generally comfortable with intimacy; not worried about rejection or preoccupied with the relationship. It is easy for you to get close to others, and you are comfortable depending on them and having them depend on you. You don’t worry about being abandoned or about someone getting too close to you. You respect your partner's need for their own time without feeling rejected or threatened and have a good perspective on being close while being independent.
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You are a Negotiator!
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Way to be incredible and proactive about building a thriving relationship! We get to tell you how awesome you are for taking steps to strengthen your relationship. For you, words speak just as loud as actions. You understand you're loved best through kind and encouraging affirmations. Unsolicited compliments and “I love you’s” mean the world to you. You get to the bottom line. You have no time for fluff or rambling, when you speak it’s usually with meaning, and while maintaining eye contact. Because you are intentional with your goal, you are great at presenting ideas, but sometimes a poor listener and impatient. Remember not all advice is bad advice and its important to remember that relationships are not a business. You have a secure attachment style meaning you're generally comfortable with intimacy; not worried about rejection or preoccupied with the relationship. It is easy for you to get close to others, and you are comfortable depending on them and having them depend on you. You don’t worry about being abandoned or about someone getting too close to you. You respect your partner's need for their own time without feeling rejected or threatened and have a good perspective on being close while being independent.
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You are a Listener!
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Way to be incredible and proactive about building a thriving relationship! We get to tell you how awesome you are for taking steps to strengthen your relationship. For you, words speak just as loud as actions. You understand you're loved best through kind and encouraging affirmations. Unsolicited compliments and “I love you’s” mean the world to you. You probably already know this, but you are very detail oriented and precise. You focus on facts and are an excellent communicator. You may fear lovey-dovey conversations, because you usually keep it brief when talking about your own emotions or personal thoughts. You speak without a lot of emphasis because you value the facts more than you value persuading someone to see your side. You have a secure attachment style meaning you're generally comfortable with intimacy; not worried about rejection or preoccupied with the relationship. It is easy for you to get close to others, and you are comfortable depending on them and having them depend on you. You don’t worry about being abandoned or about someone getting too close to you. You respect your partner's need for their own time without feeling rejected or threatened and have a good perspective on being close while being independent.
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You are a Guru!
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Way to be incredible and proactive about building a thriving relationship! We get to tell you how awesome you are for taking steps to strengthen your relationship. For you, words speak just as loud as actions. You understand you're loved best through kind and encouraging affirmations. Unsolicited compliments and “I love you’s” mean the world to you. You’re the free spirit who tells the best stories! You are motivational and see everything from a big picture perspective. You may miss details, but you have a good time doing it! Your partner may call you dramatic, but we all know you are truly just trying to inspire those around you. Your partner’s support and love through conversations and actions mean the world to you. It means the world to you when your partner appreciates your ideas and how freely you share them. You have a secure attachment style meaning you're generally comfortable with intimacy; not worried about rejection or preoccupied with the relationship. It is easy for you to get close to others, and you are comfortable depending on them and having them depend on you. You don’t worry about being abandoned or about someone getting too close to you. You respect your partner's need for their own time without feeling rejected or threatened and have a good perspective on being close while being independent.
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You are a Therapist!
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Way to be incredible and proactive about building a thriving relationship! We get to tell you how awesome you are for taking steps to strengthen your relationship. For you, words speak just as loud as actions. You understand you're loved best through kind and encouraging affirmations. Unsolicited compliments and “I love you’s” mean the world to you. You crave closeness and intimacy and can feel very insecure about relationships. You have an anxious attachment style. Due to previous wounds, you worry that your partner doesn’t love you or will abandon you. You tend to be argumentative and desire to be extremely emotionally close with others, but feel as if others are reluctant to get as close as you would like. You often worry that your partner doesn’t love or value you and will abandon you. Your inordinate need for closeness can scare people away. You seek security and safety through your partner. You are a great listener and communicator. You are the person people come to for advice because you build trust naturally through being very supportive and overall encouraging. You hate conflict and usually give into others wants and desires, keeping your opinion to yourself. You focus on relationships, being supportive and attentive to others feelings. Just make sure you take time to rest and speak up when you feel strongly about something.
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You are a Composer!
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Way to be incredible and proactive about building a thriving relationship! We get to tell you how awesome you are for taking steps to strengthen your relationship. For you, words speak just as loud as actions. You understand you're loved best through kind and encouraging affirmations. Unsolicited compliments and “I love you’s” mean the world to you. You crave closeness and intimacy and can feel very insecure about relationships. You have an anxious attachment style. Due to previous wounds, you worry that your partner doesn’t love you or will abandon you. You tend to be argumentative and desire to be extremely emotionally close with others, but feel as if others are reluctant to get as close as you would like. You often worry that your partner doesn’t love or value you and will abandon you. Your inordinate need for closeness can scare people away. You seek security and safety through your partner. You get to the bottom line. You have no time for fluff or rambling, when you speak it’s usually with meaning, and while maintaining eye contact. Because you are intentional with your goal, you are great at presenting ideas, but sometimes a poor listener and impatient. Remember not all advice is bad advice and its important to remember that relationships are not a business.
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You are a Questioner!
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Way to be incredible and proactive about building a thriving relationship! We get to tell you how awesome you are for taking steps to strengthen your relationship. For you, words speak just as loud as actions. You understand you're loved best through kind and encouraging affirmations. Unsolicited compliments and “I love you’s” mean the world to you. You crave closeness and intimacy and can feel very insecure about relationships. You have an anxious attachment style. Due to previous wounds, you worry that your partner doesn’t love you or will abandon you. You tend to be argumentative and desire to be extremely emotionally close with others, but feel as if others are reluctant to get as close as you would like. You often worry that your partner doesn’t love or value you and will abandon you. Your inordinate need for closeness can scare people away. You seek security and safety through your partner. You probably already know this, but you are very detail oriented and precise. You focus on facts and are an excellent communicator. You may fear lovey-dovey conversations, because you usually keep it brief when talking about your own emotions or personal thoughts. You speak without a lot of emphasis because you value the facts more than you value persuading someone to see your side.
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You are a Creator!
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Way to be incredible and proactive about building a thriving relationship! We get to tell you how awesome you are for taking steps to strengthen your relationship. For you, words speak just as loud as actions. You understand you're loved best through kind and encouraging affirmations. Unsolicited compliments and “I love you’s” mean the world to you. You crave closeness and intimacy and can feel very insecure about relationships. You have an anxious attachment style. Due to previous wounds, you worry that your partner doesn’t love you or will abandon you. You tend to be argumentative and desire to be extremely emotionally close with others, but feel as if others are reluctant to get as close as you would like. You often worry that your partner doesn’t love or value you and will abandon you. Your inordinate need for closeness can scare people away. You seek security and safety through your partner. You’re the free spirit who tells the best stories! You are motivational and see everything from a big picture perspective. You may miss details, but you have a good time doing it! Your partner may call you dramatic, but we all know you are truly just trying to inspire those around you. Your partner’s support and love through conversations and actions mean the world to you. It means the world to you when your partner appreciates your ideas and how freely you share them.

What's your Love Personality?

We all give, receive, and communicate love differently. This is an introductory quiz to help identify the beginnings of your Love Personality™ and personalized LoveTips to empower a thriving relationship.

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