What can I do for my service to be a no-brainer when she will receive my proposal?
You sent your proposal and you're waiting a response from her. What do you do?
You start to wonder: "and if she doesn't like it? If she changed her mind? What do I do?" You prefer to wait.
You wait, sure that she will say yes, for you, it's a done deal.
You anticipate and follow-up. If she says no what is your next goldmine to change her mind?
You've got her response. She showers you with compliments, thank you massively for all your help but says no to go any further AKA working with you. How do you feel?
You feel crushed, down and like the world is against you. Deep down, you knew about it, you shouldn't have taken this risk.
You're shocked, upset, angry, you don't understand her decision. You feel used and you decide to cut off any relationship with her.
You're disappointed but you cannot stop yourself to be curious. What can I learn from it? You decide to learn from this experience and revamp your services. You use her feedback to include her words in your copy.
You're still struggling to move on and needs to speak about it. Who is coming to your mind?
Your partner in crime aka your best friend.
Your mentor or coach.
Your tribe aka your close girlfriends.
Your last blog went viral and you received an invite to be the guest of a podcast that you LOVE. What do you do?
You're trying to guess the kind of questions the host is going to ask you.
You feel so lucky and prepare yourself to bring your best but, before, you celebrate this opportunity with your close friends!
You ask for further information as to know the date, the topic of the podcast and how your business can be promoted.
Your business is buzzing like a happy bee and you start to generate a consistent revenue with your services. You want to hire a VA. What is your first action?
You look at your systems, your structures aka your entire business and try to visualize if you can really trust a VA to do this work for you.
You talk about it with your peers and ask then their experience to hire a VA.
You think of the level of expertise you would like your VA to have.
You found your VA and she is awesome! You feel relieved and have more time to focus on new creative projects. What do you do?
You're taking the time to speak to her, to know if she's happy about her work or eager to take more responsibilities.
You compliment your VA and thank her for her fabulous work!
You invite her for drinks to chill out and get to know her better.
What is the main quality of a feminine leader for you?
You are like Mrs Ego
You're here, despite of your fears, you stand up for yourself and THIS my friend means that you can manage your Ego.
You can have the last word, stay in peace and keep your drive to go after your goals. Yes, you can, Gorgeous, because you're reading my words right now, willing to learn about yourself and THIS is awesome.
You go for it, take the risk but you're still controlled by Mrs Ego. She has the talent to derail you and crush your self esteem to keep you in a comfort zone or use your fears, doubt, self-sabotage to convince you that you're not up for it.
The downside is:
the chance to be the captain of your ship, the driver of your life.
to think outside of the box
to change your perceptions
to see opportunities to learn and reach your goals
The good news are:
I'm sending you a big virtual hug because you're not alone! Mrs Ego used to play a salsa party in my mind as well
I have a lot of tools right now to help you develop your own voice and develop a healthy relationship with Mrs Ego.
If you do that you'll be able to reach your goals faster and become the boss lady you desire to be. Once you understand how your mind works, how Mrs Ego act, you can deal, discuss with Mrs Ego and create also the life you want.
Are you up for it?
You are like Mrs Happy
You're a sunshine, you go for it, you keep going and you know how to celebrate yourself. You know that celebrate any success is a success strategy and you work in partnership with the Law of Attraction to bring more goodness in your life.
Being positive is part of your DNA. You know how to change the narrative in your mind to focus on the good things. You know that life is short and you want to enjoy the most of it.
The downside is:
When something wrong is happening, you don't get it. You just wondered" "what's happened? and you start to be angry, upset and you're taking time to bounce back from very negative, challenging situations.You don't see or anticipate any setback or failures.
The good news is:
Because you're the queen of positivity, you know that there is a way to keep your good vibes.
You can learn and develop your awareness and intuition. Cultivate both qualities will expand your consciousness and this is where your intuition is going to be your ally. It's time to develop your internal GPS aka your intuition (and awareness) to achieve your goals by taking inspired actions and to know how to embrace all your feelings.
You want to know how to do that?
You are like Mrs Resilient
You're ambitious, perseverant, you know what you want and you're driven.
You're always think ahead, anticipate, and prepare something better. You're a badass planner.
You're an action taker, a go-getter, when you got it, you go for the GOLD.
The downside of being so ambitious:
You're missing the essence of your life journey: appreciate, celebrate your victories and develop your happiness.
You don't appreciate the rewards of what you're doing everyday.
Because you're always thinking ahead of the next action, step, challenge, you may think that what you're doing is never enough and being in this masculine energy to do more, hustle more, think more is not what your mind is going to love !
Your mindset can lead to burnout or exhaustion and you don't want that, right?
The good news is:
You can be ambitious and have a healthy resilience by building a healthy and happy mindset where there is space for reflection, rest and celebration.
Where slowing down and action can be combined to take inspired actions to achieve your goals without working for hours.
You want to know more about it?