The Dating Quiz

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  What would you do after a successful first date?

  • A.
    You’re already starting to come up with reasons why you shouldn’t like him. You don't want to get too attached. 
  • B.
    You'd wait for him to text you. You love to play "hard to get!"
  • C.
    You call five of your closest friends to tell them every detail of the date.
  • D.
    You text him to let him know you had a great time and would be concerned if he didn’t text back within 5 minutes.
  • E.
    You send him a long text telling him how much fun you had and thanking him for dinner. You always want to make sure they know you're interested. 
  • F.
    Although the date went well, you’ll mentally prepare yourself for it not to work out.
• 2.
  What’s your dating history?

  • A.
    You’ve dated quite a bit. You easily fall in and out of love.
  • B.
    You’ve haven’t dated a lot and you’re proud of that reputation. 
  • C.
    You’ve had a lot of “flings” but you’ve rarely committed. 
  • D.
    You’ve been in several long term serious relationships. 
  • E.
    You’ve had your heart broken pretty severely by an ex. 
  • F.
    Although you’ve had a few crushes, you’ve never had a boyfriend. 
• 3.
  When do you think you’ll be ready to meet your future husband?

  • A.
    You want to be married but there's a part of you that thinks it easier to be single. 
  • B.
    When you meet a guy who finally meets all of your expectations.
  • C.
    You were born ready. 
  • D.
    You’re ready when he’s ready.
  • E.
    It’s hard for you to picture yourself married. You don’t typically date marriage material. 
  • F.
    I think I’m ready now, it’s just a matter of meeting the right person. 
• 4.
  What are your thoughts about marriage?

  • A.
    You’ve been planning your wedding day since you were 5 years old!
  • B.
    You think being committed to one person doesn’t seem very exciting right now. 
  • C.
    You love the idea of getting to take care of someone.
  • D.
    You’d never let anybody know but deep down you really desire to be married.
  • E.
    It seems like a dream come true but probably won’t happen anytime soon. 
  • F.
    You would love to be a wife and start a family.
• 5.
  When you like a guy, what do you tell your friends?

  • A.
    “It was good!” (You wouldn’t tell your friends much until the relationship is solidified) 
  • B.
    “I think I could be really good for him!”
  • C.
    “He’s super nice but these things never really work out.” 
  • D.
    “He’s really sweet! I felt super comfortable around him.”
  • E.
    “I think I might be in love…”
  • F.
    “I think he’s really into me!”
• 6.
  What was your high school boyfriend like?

  • A.
    You can’t believe you fell for him. You got swept up in the moment!
  • B.
    Honestly, nobody seemed to be good enough for you in high school.
  • C.
    Boyfriend? Does a "fling" count?
  • D.
    You had a super serious boyfriend in high school.
  • E.
    You dated the classic bad boy. Your dad hated him! 
  • F.
    You had some crushes but you focused more on your girl friends. 
• 7.
  How often do you go on dates?

  • A.
    The guys you typically like aren’t big on taking you on dates.
  • B.
    Not very often, because everybody thinks you’re too busy. 
  • C.
    You think dating is fun, so as often as you can!
  • D.
    Not a lot because you’re more the relationship type. 
  • E.
    You wish you went on more but actually not that often. 
  • F.
    First dates are your specialty! 
• 8.
  You’re four months into a relationship, what’s your biggest struggle? 

  • A.
    You’re having difficulty expressing your feelings for him because you’re still a little bit unsure. 
  • B.
    You're having a hard time expressing your insecurities to him.
  • C.
    You’re trying not to rush ahead and plan for the future. 
  • D.
    He’s starting to truly get to know you and that feels unnatural. 
  • E.
    Some of the sparkle has started to wear off.
  • F.
    Your relationship is taking up all of your time and your other relationships are suffering.

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  The Romantic

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  WHO IS THE ROMANTIC? The Romantic is most likely to spend her Saturday nights watching romcoms, pinning wedding dresses, and stalking her current crush on all social media channels. She’s probably still reminiscing about her boyfriend from six years ago and brings him up on a fairly regular basis. The Romantic wants the storybook romance that her mom and dad shared, that she saw in the movies and read about in the books, and she’ll stop at nothing to get it. To put it simply, the Romantic is the girl who loves LOVE! She loves to talk about boys. She wants on all the deets on her friend’s latest crush and will ask a stranger about their dating history within the first five minutes of meeting. Most likely, she has been in quite a few relationships herself and falls for guys fairly easily. She’s typically far more caught up in the love story than the actual relationship itself. The reality of the Romantic’s heart is that her constant need for affirmation from guys often keeps her from stepping into the fullness of God’s plan for her. She wants to create a love story for herself, so she struggles giving up the control. When she looks at the love stories around her, she often doubts God’s plan for her own.
• 2.
  The Independent

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  WHO IS THE INDEPENDENT? The Independent is the girl who is too busy to date. She has chosen to devote her precious time toward anything except a potential relationship, focusing firsthand on her passions. She has big dreams and doesn’t let anybody stand in her way of accomplishing them. She’s the class president, was voted “Most Likely to Succeed”, earned Valedictorian, and was chosen as captain of her sports team—she’s anything but a girlfriend. Her mom has probably admitted to losing sleep over her daughter’s lack of dating experience and worries she will never truly open up to anyone. To put it simply, the Independent feels more comfortable pursuing her dreams than pursuing a relationship. She takes pride in the fact that she doesn’t need a guy to make her happy. But don’t let her exterior coolness fool you; deep down, the Independent desires to be loved. However, she fears that it might mean opening herself up to potential rejection. She tends to build walls instead of investing in relationships because it’s difficult for her to let someone in to see the truth of who she is—flaws and all. Even in her walk with the Lord, she’s used to self-sufficiency, but relying on her own ability makes it difficult to feel close to Him. Intimacy and vulnerability are just as intimidating in her relationship with Jesus as they are in a relationship with the potential for love—or heartbreak.
• 3.
  The Flirt

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  WHO IS THE FLIRT? The Flirt probably had her first kiss in the second grade on the playground and has been chasing boys ever since. If you were to look at her phone, you’d probably see messages from at least three of the six guys she is currently leading on. Two of them have already confessed their unrequited love for her and that was precisely the moment she started ghosting them. The Flirt is the life of the party, full of personality, and isn’t afraid to lay all her cards on the table. She lives for the thrill of the chase and is the number one player of the game. To put it simply, the Flirt loves attention without commitment. She feels most valued when she is getting attention from guys and has placed a large part of her identity in the way that she looks. The Flirt is so accustomed to receiving attention that the thrill of one person’s love doesn’t seem to be enough. This mentality has built unreachable expectations which keep her from ever experiencing real love. This never-ending chase has distracted her from finding true contentment in the Lord. Instead of relying on God to feel valued, she’s relied on everyone else, which predictably always leaves her feeling empty.
• 4.
  The Committed

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  WHO IS THE COMMITTED? The Committed has always had a deep desire to be a wife and a mom to four cute kids. She probably is an avid fan of HGTV and loves dreaming of her early thirties when she’s finally settled in that dream house she’s always imagined. She’s already known as the “mom” type in most of her friends’ lives, and the majority of her time is spent caring for others. She might be dating her high school sweetheart, or maybe the guy she met during freshman orientation. Either way, she’s already imagining a lifelong future with somebody whom she can love, honor, and serve well. To put it simply, the Committed loves the security and comfort of a relationship. She feels most herself when she’s beside somebody else. She doesn’t mind sharing the spotlight, so much so that sometimes she lets go of her own dreams for the sake of a relationship. The Committed often conforms to someone else's lifestyle without acknowledging her own ambitions or desires. Her relationship can sometimes become the idol in her life, and take the place of God’s love and plan for her. She tends to place more focus on the pursuit of her future relationship, rather than a future designed to honor God.
• 5.
  The Rescuer

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  WHO IS THE RESCUER? The Rescuer is the girl who falls for the bad boy every single time. Not once has a guy she’s brought home received the stamp of approval from her dad. Her dream guy is emotional, brooding, mysterious, and either rides motorcycles, is in a band, or writes poems in his spare time. She sees the potential in almost anyone, but is especially drawn to guys with good looks, attractive personalities, and a little damage on the inside. With her help, any bad boy can grow a heart of gold. To put it simply, the Rescuer chooses relationships that make her feel needed. She wants to be the exception to the rule, the girl who finally gets the guy on the right path. The Rescuer is typically the girl who would date a non-believer hoping that she can be a part of his transformational story. She falls in love with the potential in people rather than the reality of who they are. Because of this pattern, she finds herself constantly defending her relationships to her friends and family, and isolating herself from the people who love her most. Not only does she isolate herself from community, but also she begins to hold God at arm’s length. She fears Him convicting her about her relationship and would rather keep it under her control than surrender to the Lord.
• 6.
  The Cautious

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  WHO IS THE CAUTIOUS? The Cautious is your quintessential good girl. She didn’t go to parties in high school, she was active in her youth group, and probably didn’t have her first kiss until college (or quite possibly, she’s still waiting.) She is a total girly girl and loses her cool around any form of the male species. She’s sweet, kind, and you don’t have to worry about her stealing your man. Of course the Cautious will end up with Mr. Amazing, it just might take her a little longer to get there. To put it simply, the Cautious is scared of romantic relationships. She has let her fear get the best of her. She probably didn’t date in high school, didn’t date in college, and now her history of inexperience has convinced her she that may never find anyone at all. She’s timid around guys because believes the lie that guys must not like her. She hides herself, her best qualities, and her entire personality to avoid being rejected or embarrassed. When everyone else is talking about their relationships, she clams up and hopes that nobody notices that she has nothing to add. Exposing her inexperience is one of her most dreaded moments. The Cautious has a really intimate relationship with Jesus but also avoids sharing her true desire for a relationship. She fears God doesn’t have that in His plans for her and doesn’t want that to get in the way of her trust in Him.