The “Release” Stage
You are finding value in yourself again, releasing control over what happened, closing the wound, finding forgiveness for your own healing.
I know this is not where you ever thought that you would find yourself. Going through such pain and anguish, feeling like your whole world had been turned upside down and not understanding what happened. You just want to release the pain and get on with your life. I distinctly remember thinking the same way but felt like I had no hope of finding my way through it. I didn’t think I was ever going to find myself again. I was ready to close the wound, yet l only saw the bandages which didn’t diminish the hurt and anguish I was still experiencing. But I did find a way through, I did see hope and I do feel like a new woman again.
I came to a point where I realized that I was not in control of my partners behavior. I finally saw that even though he was the one that cheated on me and did so many things to deceive me, I remembered that I was not the one who did anything wrong. I was the one that was in control of my own destiny, I had the best shot at being happy because I was the one who was free of guilt. I felt my wound was healing, and my heart was being filled with love for the woman I was becoming; stronger, smarter, hopeful, and regaining control.
Becoming stronger, smarter, hopeful, and regaining control is a journey that leads to healing and growth. There can be a day where you can stand before yourself in the mirror and see a woman who has seen her open wounds heal and her closed arms opened. You can go from hurting to happiness and from pain to peace.
When you view my webinar on The Stages of Healing and Growth, you will start feeling like you have hope again. You will begin to see that it is possible to completely close the wound, find forgiveness in your own healing, and feel worthy of happiness and joy in your life. You will understand that you can make decisions to take steps toward a future that you can be in control of.
But let's start with having a conversation so I can get to know you and together we determine where you need to focus your energy for healing. Click the link below to schedule a time that is convenient for you. You are on your way to a happier more fulfilled life!