Quiz: How Strong is Communication in Your Relationship?

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  Question 1: When we have a conversation, we both listen to each other and try to understand each other’s point of view before responding.

  • A.
    Yes, all the time.
  • B.
    Most of the times we do. 
  • C.
    Sometimes. We try to do that but we could both improve in that area.
  • D.
    Never. We always interrupt each other and try to respond before the other person finishes their thought.
• 2.
  Question 2: When we are together, we spend less time on our phones and texting and more time enjoying each other’s company.  

  • A.
    Yes, all of the time.
  • B.
    Most of the times we do.
  • C.
    Sometimes we tend to let our phones distract us, so we could both improve.
  • D.
    Never. We are always on our phone and distracted from each other.
• 3.
  Question 3: How do we tend to deal with issues?

  • A.
    We talk about it openly and honestly and try to resolve the issue.
  • B.
    It depends. Sometimes we’re open and honest and sometimes we deal with it in a petty manner.
  • C.
    We tend to be passive aggressive with our approach.
  • D.
    A lot of times we stay silent and hope the issue resolves itself.
• 4.
  Question 4: When either of us does something the other doesn’t like we use absolute phrases like “you never” and “you always.”

  • A.
    Never. We stay away from those phrases.
  • B.
    Sometimes we’ll use those phrases in discussions but we try not to.
  • C.
    Most of the times we say things like that.
  • D.
     Always. We always use those phrases.
• 5.
  Question 5: We both feel 100% safe telling each other everything without the fear of judgment or them using it against us later.

  • A.
    Yes, all of the time.
  • B.
    Most of the times we do.
  • C.
    Sometimes we do but sometimes we don’t.
  • D.
    Never. One or both of us fear being 100% honest with the other.
• 6.
  Question 6: We are receptive to what each other says and we make changes to fix what the other tells us needs improvement.

  • A.
    Yes, all of the time.
  • B.
    Most of the times we do.
  • C.
    Sometimes we do but sometimes we don’t.
  • D.
    Never. One or both of us is not receptive and does not act on fixing the issue.
• 7.
  Question 7: We are aware of which emotions each other feels by non-verbal cues.

  • A.
    Yes, all of the time.
  • B.
    Most of the times we can.
  • C.
    Sometimes we can tell but sometimes it’s hard to interpret their emotions.
  • D.
    Never. It’s hard for us to know what the other one feels without them saying it.
• 8.
  Question 8: Do we know a substantial amount about each other’s past?

  • A.
     Yes, we know everything about each other.
  • B.
    We know a lot, but I wouldn’t say “substantial.”
  • C.
    Not really. We’ve talked about it a little but not much.
  • D.
    Never. We don’t like talking about the past.

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  Critically Weak Communication

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• 2.
  Weak Communication

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• 3.
  Above Average Communication

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• 4.
  Strong Communicative Couple

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