What is your breakup IQ?

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  I led someone on and then never called back.

  • A.
    I did that
  • B.
    It happened to me
  • C.
    I always communicate how I am feeling with my partners.
• 2.
  I stood someone up that I wasn’t that interested in. 

  • A.
    I did that.
  • B.
    This happened to me. 
  • C.
    I always do what I say I am going to do. 
• 3.
  I have had sex with a person I was broke up with.

  • A.
    Yes, and I initiated it. 
  • B.
    Yes, and my partner initiated it.
  • C.
    No, when the relationship is over it is over. 
• 4.
  I mistreated a person so that they would break up with me instead of me doing it.

  • A.
    I did that
  • B.
    I have had this happen to me
  • C.
    I can end a relationship myself when the time comes.
• 5.
  I let a relationship go on long after I knew it was over.

  • A.
    I did that.
  • B.
    I have had this happen to me. 
  • C.
    I can end a relationship myself when the time comes.
• 6.
  I lied to get out of a relationship.

  • A.
    I did that. 
  • B.
    This happened to me.
  • C.
    I am always honest about why I no longer want to be in a relationship. 
• 7.
  I have cheated in a relationship.

  • A.
    I did that. 
  • B.
    This has happened to me. 
  • C.
    I never start a new relationship before the last one is over. 
• 8.
  I stayed in a relationship that I was mistreated in.

  • A.
    I did that.
  • B.
    Someone I dated let me mistreat them. 
  • C.
    I mistreat anyone or let myself be mistreated. 
• 9.
  I took a vacation with a lover that I planned on breaking up with. 

  • A.
    I did that.
  • B.
    This happened to me. 
  • C.
    I never prolong the inevitable. 
• 10.
  I have let a person assume that we were exclusive and used the excuse that we never agreed on this when caught cheating.

  • A.
    I did that
  • B.
    This happened to me
  • C.
    I always let a person know when I am exclusive and when I'm not. 
• 11.
  I have broken up with someone on a whim and regretted it later. 

  • A.
    I did that.
  • B.
    I have this happen to me. 
  • C.
    I am always clear with how I feel in a relationship. 
• 12.
  I have broken up with someone in a text or email. 

  • A.
    I have done this. 
  • B.
    I have had it happen to me. 
  • C.
    I always meet with a person, if I feel that it is safe to do so. 
• 13.
  I have gone back to a past lover at least once because I didn’t want to be alone.

  • A.
    I did that
  • B.
    This has happened to me.
  • C.
    I am fine being alone and I am fine being by myself. 
• 14.
  I have made unreasonable demands of someone, knowing that they wouldn’t/couldn’t follow through. 

  • A.
    I did that. 
  • B.
    This has happened to me. 
  • C.
    I never try to push someone away with my demands. 
• 15.
    I have stayed with someone because of their looks or money without real attachment. 

  • A.
    I did that
  • B.
    I have had this happen to me. 
  • C.
    I only stay with people I know that I am compatible with. 
• 16.
  I have said that I wanted to be friends in a breakup, but never intended on following through. 

  • A.
    I did that.
  • B.
    This has happened to me.
  • C.
    I always follow through with what I say is going to happen. 
• 17.
  I have criticized a partner for everything they did to push them away. 

  • A.
    I did that
  • B.
    I have had this happen to me
  • C.
    I am never overly critical and I address it when someone is that way with me. 
• 18.
  I have intentionally flirted with others in front of my partner to make them jealous and then accused them of being possessive

  • A.
    I did that
  • B.
    I have had this happen to me. 
  • C.
    I am always mindful of my partner's feelings. 
• 19.
  I have said I wanted a temporary separation, knowing that the relationship was over. 

  • A.
    I did that.
  • B.
    I have had this happen to me. 
  • C.
    I call break-ups what they are, either temporary or permanent. 
• 20.
  I have invented some reason to make a partner stay with me longer. 

  • A.
    I did that. 
  • B.
    I have had this happen to me. 
  • C.
    I believe in letting a person go when they ask for it and don't manipulate. 

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  Player/Temptress

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  You are someone who is not very good with breakups and you manipulate others to break up with you instead. You may lack some empathy for your partners. You may be leaving partners with unresolved baggage that are having trouble getting into other relationships.
• 2.
  Victim

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  You are the victim. You have had very dramatic relationships that have probably left you wondering if you want to be in relationships at all. You may have a fear of getting into the next relationship because you don't know what will happen.
• 3.
  Successful Single

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  Congratulation! You are a successful single. You are authentic in your relationships. You stay as long as you want. You get out when you are ready. You say what you want to say without regrets. You have no problems picking partners who treat you with respect.