This relationship seems to have many red flags and may not be the best one to go forward with without much help. If you need help with ending this relationship seek the help of a family member, friend, therapist or a coach.
There a many things about this relationship that are working and just a few that are not. This might be the time to communicate and negotiate around what is not working. If you need help with this seek out the help of a family member, friend, therapist or a coach.