3.
The Fighter
Control is a big part of your life.
You believe your worth is based on what you achieve and there are winners and there are losers. All in all, there's just not enough to go around and you need to always be "on" in order to take advantage of opportunities before someone else takes them from you. You heavily strategize and do what is necessary to protect your interests and come out on top.
In Corporate America this style can work...but, only for so long.
This approach, long-term, can become draining. Satisfaction in the "measurable" areas of your life may not bring you the happiness you once thought they would. That title, salary, type of home or net worth may seem like an achievement at first, but leave you feeling empty. And, so, a new goal to achieve comes around. It's a never ending cycle of looking for success (outside of yourself).
Consider looking at the role your health plays in your long-term goals. There's also power and value of forgiveness of self and others. Think about what you are trying to prove to someone with your accomplishments. You are worthy of happiness and don't need to "earn" it.
For a deeper dive into your personal leadership style and to learn more about creating a life (career, relationships, health and wealth) that feels aligned and fulfilled, reach out to me by Email or check out my website. Sign up via my site to receive my monthly emails ~ I'd love to help you with your Personal Leadership!
Thanks,
Deb Seymour