WOW! You should feel pretty darn good about your friendship abilities to attract any friends you want! Whatever you've learned to do by trial and error is obviously working for you. Everyone should know that joy, right? But truthfully, few do. And as we age, we find making friends even harder. What may have worked 20 years ago to meet people probably isn't the same "small talk" needed for new friends nowadays. Let's discuss what you can be doing to keep stacking the odds in your favor to keep attracting the right kinds of friends that suit who you are now.
As you grow and change, we rely on our friends even more. Your friends need to be able to adapt, too, but most can't do that. Half of your close friends will change every 7 years. So, you must constantly refill your friend pipeline with current friends that align with you to avoid ever feeling lonely. Reach out to me...let's chat on a free call so that pipeline never runs dry.
You're kinda on track, but you still have mostly questionable friends
The good news is you're kind of on track. Most likely you've had a few real friends so you know what they're like, but you're still attracting those not-so-good kind. And there is simply more of 'them" out there these days. They're the ones that talk behind your back, disregard your time, expect you to listen, but never listen to you. It's always all about them. Every visit happens at their convenience. That's not how good friends behave.
The main thing is you know that you need to polish up a few areas in yourself first so you can attract better quality friends. Life transitions are a perfect time to reinvent the new "you." To have a real solid friend means you must learn to be one in return. That's exactly what we work on together when we coach. You probably just need to break some old sabotaging habits that you don't even know you're doing. But that's ok, because that's the stuff we uncover so you can let it go. Friendship should never be a struggle. Your new friendships need to get off the ground and become meaningful so you don't keep investing your time on fake friends. No one's getting any younger, right?
Click the link and tell me what you see going on in your circle of friends, and what you'd rather have instead. Take me up on that free call and we'll solve that puzzle together in no time!
Well, your results show you're being a doormat...so it's time to change that!
Don't worry...you're hardly alone in this. Over two billion folks ask Google how to be a real friend because truthfully, very few women have any clue what that means. It makes sense for most people to fall into this group since we're not taught how to be a good friend. It's a learned skill. We often settle into thinking, "this is how it is, I guess." That's why you don't feel like you attract good friends that are kind and respect you. Sadly, they'll take advantage you as long as you let them.
Transitions are the perfect time to step it up! Good friends raise the bar for what you can expect from all of your other friendships. I'm here to help you shatter any urban myths you've had before from having bad examples of friendship. When you're ready to stop attracting those undesirable folks, I'll guide you while you create your best vision of friendship by actually living it. This means who you chose to let into your life. You want them to inspire and make you happy, right? Up the quality of your friends and you automatically upgrade everything in your life!
Click the link for your free 30-min call with me and let's chat about how to start finding you much better buddies. Now is the best time. I'm ready when you are...just reach out to me!