Your Score 0-18
Life feels difficult and it’s hard for you to trust people. You can learn how to open your heart to a man by learning who can make you happy and feel safe.
Your Score 19-23
You are low on the optimism scale. You don’t’ trust others and may not trust yourself. You often expect things will go wrong and have lots of evidence that proves you are right. If something does go right you often question the validity or it’s value. You have difficulty accepting compliments or going with the flow. You like to manage all the details before you step into something new …..especially with romantic relationships.
Your Score 24-29
You are moderately optimistic. You trust yourself and others but keep an eye open just in case. You have experienced difficulties and losses that have taught you that life can sometimes throw you a curve ball but sometimes you question whether you have what it takes to deal with it. You enter dating or romantic relationships questioning whether what you see is real and wonder if you can let down your guard to create intimacy and connection.
Your Score 30-38
Bravo!! You are an optimist and trust that either life will work out well and that you will be able to handle anything that comes your way. You trust yourself and others. You trust yourself to assess reality and know when to let down your guard and connect deeply emotionally when dating and in a relationship. You trust your partner but remain open to look for any flags that need to be addressed and trust that you can resolve conflict in a win-win manner.
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