Could your marriage use a Tune-Up?

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  How do you treat your spouse 90% of the time? 

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  • A.
    With Kindness
  • B.
    With familiarity
  • C.
    Like an co-worker
• 2.
  When you think about your spouse during the day, what is your usually thought?

  • A.
    I'm the luckiest.
  • B.
    If they could just change.....
  • C.
    I wish I could make them happier.
• 3.
  How would you rate your time between the sheets?

  • A.
    Just keeps getting better.
  • B.
    Not frequent, but when it happens its amazing.
  • C.
    Feels like we are checking a box but it happens.
  • D.
    The fire has gone out.
• 4.
  Do you both consider each other in decision making?

  • A.
    Yes, definitely
  • B.
    Not always
  • C.
    Either I or my partner makes all the decisions.
• 5.
  After a fight, you..

  • A.
    Try to resolve the conflict by having the heart to heart conversations with 24 hours.
  • B.
    One of us will try to talk but usually, the other person is not receptive.
  • C.
    No point in talking, we just move on.
  • D.
    Silent Treatment until we are forced to talk but don't resolve the issue
• 6.
  When you are in the same room you are most doing, what?

  • A.
    We are both on our phones
  • B.
    Sitting next to each other, usually touching
  • C.
    Dealing with kids and life issues.
• 7.
  When my partner comes home you....

  • A.
    Stop what you are doing and immediately give them and kiss and hug
  • B.
    Say Hi!
  • C.
    Give them a nod
  • D.
    Have a feeling of dread when I see them walking thru the door
• 8.
  How often do you talk about your future?

  • A.
    Never
  • B.
    Often
  • C.
    Sometimes
• 9.
  Do you feel like if your spouse isn't happy than either can you be.

  • A.
    Yes
  • B.
    No
• 10.
  Who is the first person you want to call with good or bad news?

  • A.
    My mom/sister
  • B.
    My Spouse
  • C.
    My bestfriend

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  Your Marriage is pretty Great!

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  You and your spouse love each other and share a great bond together. Your relationship has all the takings of a nurturing and loving companionship that will last. You are connected well with your thoughts and realize that you are in charge of your own emotional needs and they are in charge of theirs. You communicate healthy and when conflicts arise you are able to resolve them well.
• 2.
  Your Marriage is Good but with a few tweaks it would be Great!

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  Though you both are in a solid relationship, but after some years your life together might become somewhat mundane . You need to add more spark in your marriage and try doing things together and for each other more often. Learning some tools to help with communication and conflict could be helpful. But mostly acquiring the skill of being more mindful on how you want to think about your spouse and yourself would be a complete game changer.
• 3.
  Focusing on changing some habits could get you the marriage that you've dreamt about

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  Call it as the quintessential 7-year itch, but your marriage could really improve with some small shifts. Learning some tools on how to make that shift can be a complete game changer. The good news is that your spouse doesn't even need to change. Just YOU learning some skills on how to create the marriage experience you want will completely tune-up your marriage!