YOUR PARENTING AVATAR

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Quiz Questions

1.
What is the number one struggle you have when it comes to parenting?
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- A.
  I want to do this respectful parenting thing, but I don't want my kids to walk all over me
- B.
  I correct behaviors ALL day long. The day hasn't started yet, and I'm already tired.
- C.
  I usually end up giving in to avoid big tantrums
2.
Imagine one day you wake up, and everything looks how you hope it will be. What would that look like?
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- A.
  All the time invested in my parenting education is finally paying off because I am responding with what my children exactly need.
- B.
  There is finally peace in my house. I am a collected mom raising happy, confident children.
- C.
  I am in charge of everything
3.
What role does "frustration" play in your life ?
- A.
  I don't think "frustration" is the word to describe what I am feeling. I feel somewhat overwhelmed trying to figure out how to parent my children with understanding.
- B.
  I feel beyond frustrated. Everything is a battle in my house. I feel I am becoming that mean mom that I absolutely hate.
- C.
  I usually run away from frustration by giving in. However, once I do it, I regret it.
4.
When it comes to parenting, what is that one thing you wish you had?
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- A.
  An effective strategy designed for my family to parent my children with understanding.
- B.
  I wish I had the secret sauce to get my children to listen without yelling.
- C.
  I wish I had support from other parents or experts to guide me every step of the way in my parenting journey.
5.
What does Parenting With Understanding look like for you?
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- A.
  Responding with what my children exactly need from me.
- B.
  Knowing how to set clear expectations and boundaries that my children actually follow without me losing my temper.
- C.
  Having the perfect balance of firm, yet warm
6.
If you were able to spend less time correcting and more time connecting with your children, what would the relationship with your children look like?
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- A.
  I would feel more relaxed, and I'm sure that would benefit my relationship with my children.
- B.
  My children would have their mom back because my frustration would be out the window.
- C.
  My relationship with my children would be based on mutual respect.
7.
What could happen if all the challenges you're experiencing right now don't go away with time?
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- A.
  I'm very aware of that. I know if I don't set the foundation now, then it will be harder later
- B.
  I don't even want to imagine how it could get any worse
- C.
  I was hoping that everything would get easier with time, otherwise my kids might end up taking over the house
8.
What is currently stopping you from seeking the help you need to accomplish the relationship you want to have with your children?
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- A.
  I'm constantly researching and educating myself to be a better parent.
- B.
  I don't have time to add something else on my plate.
- C.
  I think I can figure it out on my own.

Quiz Outcomes

1.
THE STUDENT
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Thank you so much for taking the quiz ‘Your Parenting Avatar’! The questions were designed to help you reflect on the way you parent so that you gain awareness of your parenting strengths and needs. Your answers to the questions showed that you are‘THE STUDENT" Your STRENGTHS: You have it clear when it comes to the way you want to parent your children. You know that parenting your children from understanding and respect is the way to go to raise happy, confident children. You are open to learn and to explore new concepts, and you are constantly exploring how you can improve the connection and relationship with your children. Your NEEDS: At times you might feel confused of not knowing how you can really respond with what your children exactly need from you. Your relationship with your children has improved a lot, nevertheless you feel it could be better. Some days you feel you got it down, and some other days, you totally feel like your winging it at parenting. POINTS TO SOLUTIONS: It is great that you are the kind of parent that takes it seriously. You research and try to find the solution to everyday challenges. The reason why you sometimes might feel like winging it at parenting is because you might just be addressing the behavior and not what drives the behavior. Every single behavior is the communication of a need. Children communicate through behaviors all day, and parenting strategies are not effective unless we unveil what they are communicating and equip them with the coping skills they need to manage their own behavior and regulate their own emotions instead of you feeling like putting out fires all day. Yes! you can teach coping skills to your little one even if he/she is not verbal yet, you just have to know the steps to teach them in a way they are able to understand and follow at their developmental stage. The Coping Strategies Guide will take you Step by Step on how to equip your children with the coping skills they need to deal successfully with big emotions, instead of you trying to get them to stop crying or yelling. CLICK HERE TO ACCESS YOUR COPING STRATEGIES GUIDE. VALUE:$151 GET IT ALL TODAY FOR JUST $37!
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THE JUGGLER
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Thank you so much for taking the quiz ‘Your Parenting Avatar’! The questions were designed to help you reflect on the way you parent so you gain awareness of your parenting strengths and needs. Your answers to the questions showed that you are: ‘THE JUGGLER." Your STRENGTHS: You are pretty awesome! you are a busy mom who has to juggle multiple things at times and still try hard to make it on time for preschool. You are goal oriented, you have everything measured and planned. You are playful, and love making awesome memories with your children. Your NEEDS: You may struggle with daily routine with your children. You hate yelling, but sometimes you feel you don't have another option to get your children to listen. You might be feeling pretty exhausted right now, and you wish there were a better way to handle discipline. POINTS TO SOLUTION: I have good news for you!. There is a better way! The reason why you may feel as you do all day long is because you are reacting and not responding to your children's behaviors. Reactive parenting doesn't have a clear roadmap. The adult responds nicely at first, but because there is not a clear roadmap for the adult and the child, the cycle continues until the parent ends up yelling or punishing their children. Responsive parenting comes from having a proactive plan on how to prevent future behaviors so parents plan ahead their responses and avoid tantrums, defiance, aggression... Responsive parenting knows in advance which are the consequences that actually correct behavior without making their children feel shameful. Responsive parenting knows how to apply positive discipline. GOOD NEWS! you can go from reacting to responsive TODAY! The Guide On Child Discipline will lay out the blueprint of effective gentle discipline so you can move away from disciplinarian practices that hurt the relationship with your children CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR GUIDE ON CHILD DISCIPLINE (UP TO 7 YEARS OLD) VALUE:$151. GET IT ALL TODAY FOR JUST $37!
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THE PEACE KEEPER
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Thank you so much for taking the quiz ‘Your Parenting Avatar’! The questions were designed to help you reflect on the way you parent so you gain awareness of your parenting strengths and needs.Your answers to the questions showed that you are: ‘THE PEACE KEEPER." Your STRENGTHS: You are a love bug. You are a sweet, caring mom. You want your children to feel safe and happy. You love harmony and try to keep the good vibe in your home. You are playful, and love to create fun memories with your children. You want to raise your children from respect and understanding. Your NEEDS: You may struggle with communicating limits effectively in your house. You try to enforce rules, but many times find it difficult to be firm and end up repeating yourself all day long. Sometimes you may feel out of control, and you wish you had the way to have the perfect balance between firm, yet warm. POINTS TO SOLUTION: You are half way there to Parent your children With Understanding. You have the mindset to raise happy, confident children. The part that you are missing are the actual steps on how to create rules and effectively communicate with your children in a way that they are actually encouraged to cooperate without you having to repeat yourself all day long or bribe them to do anything. I designed The 3 Step Method to help you with communicate limits effectively in 3 simple to follow steps. You can literally go to it, look at the steps and material and start having smoother daily routine transitions, less bargaining with your kids and more time to connect and enjoy your time with them. CLICK HERE TO ACCESS THE 3 STEP METHOD GUIDE. VALUE: $151. GET IT TODAY FOR JUST $37!