Are You A Polite host?

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Quiz Questions

1.
your guest is in the way, what do you say
- A.
  move it!
- B.
  Excuse me, I'd like to go through
- C.
  excuse me!
2.
your guest draw on the wall with crayons
- A.
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  I'd rather not watch
- B.
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  you are in trouble
- C.
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  you are an artist
- D.
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  start to run
3.
your guest is in the way, again. will you push him away?
- A.
  Yes
- B.
  No
- C.
  only if there are no witnesses
4.
Do you often find yourself offering no explanations to your guests for the rules other than "Because I said so?"
- A.
  Yes
- B.
  No
- C.
  only when I'm right
5.
Do you sometimes ignore your guest when he/she speaks?
- A.
  Yes
- B.
  No
- C.
  only before my first coffee
6.
how often do you yell at your guests?
- A.
  never
- B.
  sometimes
- C.
  once a day
7.
you have an appointment and you are in a rush, your guest is taking ages to put on his shoes
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- A.
  you threaten to leave without him/her
- B.
  you keep asking him/her to hurry
- C.
  you explain to him that you don't like to be late and you'd appreciate for him to hurry up a bit
- D.
  you go around in circles, breathing heavily
8.
your guest got dressed by himself and the result is quite surprising
- A.
  you say nothing about it, it's his/her choice
- B.
  you ask him/her if he/she did look at himself/herself in a mirror
- C.
  you roll your eyes
- D.
  you cannot help bursting out laughing
9.
your guest comes out of the shower and walks all around making the floor a swimming pool
- A.
  you make him notice what he's doing
- B.
  you demand him to run back to the bathroom
- C.
  you start yelling about the floor, the possible dangers and the mopping
10.
you promised your guest you would wash his favorite piece of cloth but forgot
- A.
  you tell him/her you'll do it later so he/she leaves you alone
- B.
  you tell him/her to stop bothering you about it
- C.
  you apologize and do it right away
11.
your guest shows you his/her tenth Instagram shoot in a row
- A.
  you look at it and comment
- B.
  you have a quick look, a nod, and get back to your business
- C.
  you say "so nice" without looking
12.
your guest doesn't like the glass he got for dinner
- A.
  you tell him to stop complaining
- B.
  you tell him/her to go and get another one if he/she's not happy
- C.
  you explain that you didn't know and that he/she is free to change

Quiz Outcomes

1.
part-time polite host
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Looks like you could do better. You're not completely rude but you're not very respectful either... Part-time polite hosts usually try to be nice and polite but kind of forget about it when they are tired, stressed or busy. Guests tend to feel our feelings, so if you're stressed, there is a good chance he'll keep coming to you. this is not because he/she wants to make it worse, it's because they are worried for you and need to check on you. It's actually love, just not showed the way you expect it (or wish for).
2.
rude
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Uninvolved parenting is often a side effect of parents have too little time for their child and competing priorities, due to factors like health, divorce, or work. Neglectful parents are generally described as passive, absent, and busy with external obligations. If you identify with this parenting style, it's never too late to become more involved in your child's life!
3.
polite host
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Congratulations! You are a polite host. You realize that your guests have feelings just like you and that they deserve respect and consideration. Let's hope that your example will enlighten those around you. If you wanna feel even prouder of yourself, read the blog post and learn how your attitude is amazingly positive for your child's development! If you didn't get the same result when taking the test as a parent, start reflecting and take action!
4.
quite rude host
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You are quite rude indeed my dear! Maybe you think that guests, like children don't get offended like you? Or maybe you give all your communication energy away at work and have nothing left for home? Maybe you're not feeling good yourself at the moment? Or Maybe you never thought about it and just speak to your kids the way you were spoken to? No matter the reason, it's time to react! If you are rude even to your guests, you can start reflecting on how do you people that you respect them and that they mean something for you. Maybe you can ask them about it, do they feel your respect and love?

Are You A Polite host?

Are you a more polite host than a parent?

Quiz Questions

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