Your desire is to settle down with the love of your life and live happily ever after in an emotionally and sexually exclusive relationship. You are pretty clear about what works for you and what doesn't in your intimate life. Social norms around sex and relationships fit you just fine, which takes a lot of the guesswork and drama out of your intimate life. Your challenge for your sex & relationships is to keep the novelty alive by continuing to explore new things and committing to practices that help you and your partner deepen in emotional intimacy. Also, keep investing in yourself, your hobbies and your friendships just as much as you invest in your romantic relationship. This can prevent codependence and help maintain an element of "mystery" to keep desire alive.
You would rather create a life around your authentic needs, desires and boundaries than go along with social norms and "supposed to's" that don't really work for you. This applies to your relationships and sexuality, too. You are someone who probably has or is negotiating your own relationship "rules" with your partner. You want to thrive in a relationship that truly fits you.My passion as a coach is empowering Open-Minded people to create their own customized agreements for a deeply authentic relationship & sex life. If you are finding yourself in need of support in your intimate life, apply for private coaching with me. I look forward to connecting with you!