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You're a Three!
The Achiever (Enneagram Type Three) is an energetic and extremely driven “Type A” personality with the lifelong goal to continuously improve on every aspect of their life. Threes are energized by new plans, activities, and meetings to get things done and make things happen. Most at ease in the spotlight, they actively search for opportunities to push their name, talents, and credibility out into the world.
Sophisticated and image-conscious, high-flying Threes know exactly how to work hard and play hard. In the workplace, field, house, or air (for all the astronauts and pilots), they give each challenge their blood, sweat, and tears to successfully break through—with new heights and high scores. If this drive is paired with a healthy growth mindset, Threes can truly become a force to be reckoned with.
Throughout their life, Threes feel the need to keep improving and hustling (it’s arguable that the new-age #hustle culture has been single-handedly founded by Threes). They work extra hard to garner followers, credentials, and awards—while looking effortlessly stylish on top of it all. Underneath the surface, however, they may struggle with feeling like an imposter, along with intense self-esteem issues.
A Quick Overview of the Three:
Part of the Heart Triad (along with Enneatypes Two and Four)
Can have a Two or Four wing: 3w2 or 3w4
Nicknamed ‘The Achiever’
Ego Fixation: Vanity
Vice: Deceit
Virtue: Authenticity
Integrates into the Six (The Loyalist) under growth
Disintegrates to the Nine (The Peacemaker) under stress
Basic Fear: To be worthless or without value apart from their achievements.
Basic Desire: To be worthwhile, desirable, and accepted