What's Your Surrogate Score?

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  Momhood. Are we there yet?

  • A.
    Nope! I am not a mom yet. Maybe, in the future.
  • B.
    Not yet! I have a bun in the oven and I’m super excited about it!
  • C.
    Yes! I’m a proud mommy of my little bundle(s) of joy.
• 2.
  Do you like big bumps and you cannot lie? Your pregnancies could best be described as…

  • A.
    Some days were better than others, and the good days made up for the bad.
  • B.
    My pregnancies were some of the best days of my life – I’ve never felt better. I loved feeling the baby move and would love to experience it again.
  • C.
    I was miserable, and the 40 weeks couldn’t go by fast enough. I also had complications that it made it even worse.
• 3.
  When it comes to obligations, are you ride-or-die or commitment-phobic?

  • A.
    I do what I feel like doing. If it’s not what I expected or isn’t making me happy, I simply change direction.
  • B.
    I feel super excited in the beginning and then the excitement starts fading away, but I drag myself to the finish line nonetheless.
  • C.
    When I put my mind to something, I see it through no matter what. There’s no going back!
• 4.
  On pins and needles… How do you feel about taking shots?

  • A.
    They don’t bother me. It’s just part of going to the doctor.
  • B.
    They make me a little anxious, so just get it over with quickly. I don’t even know if I could give myself a shot!
  • C.
    I almost passed out reading the word needle. Absolutely not.
• 5.
  Money, money, mooooneeey! How would you best describe your financial situation?

  • A.
    There always seems to be more month than money. We receive government assistance, such as Food Stamps, Cash Aid, Medicaid, etc.
  • B.
    It’s a little tight. It would definitely help if I could contribute money to the family as a surrogate.
  • C.
    Great! We live comfortably, and have more than enough to cover our expenses.
• 6.
  Are you more Zumba and Salads or Netflix and Pizza?

  • A.
    I’ve got a ways to go to be at an “ideal” body weight.
  • B.
    Health and wellness is a priority to me. I hit the gym regularly, maintain a healthy diet, and am at a healthy weight
  • C.
    Meh. I’m not overweight, but I should probably start working out and drinking more water.
• 7.
  Meds – to take or not to take?

  • A.
    Life can be busy, but I’ve got everything under control. I do not take any anti-depressant or anti-anxiety medications.
  • B.
    My life goes through ups and downs – I’ve taken medication in the past to help cope with my emotions or am currently taking meds now.
  • C.
    I’m pretty stressed with everyday life. I take medication, such as an antidepressant or anti-anxiety medication, every day to regulate my moods.
• 8.
  Family – just the right mix of chaos and love. Which best fits your family’s reaction to surrogacy?

  • A.
    No one would understand, so I don’t plan on telling them until I have to.
  • B.
    Some family members support me, some are on the fence. They have questions but I’m sure they’ll come around once they learn more.
  • C.
    My family would be 100% behind my decision. My husband, children, and family support me and my dreams whole-heartedly.
• 9.
  How will you feel about carrying a baby, but not taking the baby home with you?

  • A.
    I understand that it was never my child. I am okay with being the “oven,” and knowing that I don’t get to keep the “bun.”
  • B.
    I’m not quite sure how I’ll feel. If I bond with the baby, it will be sad to let him or her go. But I understand that is the role I’m taking on
  • C.
    I’d be devastated. How can I not feel like it’s my baby after carrying him or her for nine months?
• 10.
  What drives your desire to be a surrogate?

  • A.
    I really want to help am individual or couple live their dream of being parents.
  • B.
    We really need the money right now, and this seems to be a good fit for us.
  • C.
    I think it would be interesting to do – and the money doesn’t hurt, either
• 11.
  Age ain't nothin' but a number... Except when it comes to surrogacy. Please select your age below.

  • A.
    23 or younger
  • B.
    24-30
  • C.
    31-40
  • D.
    41+

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  WOW! You have one of the higest scores we've seen! 

  Congratulations! Surrogacy may be a perfect fit for you! Only a small percentage of women pass our initial qualification quiz, and it looks like you could potentially be an excellent surrogate mother! Did you know that Family Inceptions is one of the most sought after agencies by surrogates in the US? Find out why by downloading our Surrogacy Program PDF, which includes the details of the Family Inceptions surrogacy program, including specifics on our generous benefits and compensation package. Your next step? We'd really love to partner with you in your surrogacy journey. At Family Inceptions, we walk our surrogates through the process step-by-step, offering 24-7 support. We also offer quick matching with local, US-based intended parents who share your values and expectations - once pre-screening is complete, you'll be matched within a few short weeks.
• 2.
  So close! Your score just missed the mark... but don't give up on your dreams!

  It takes a special someone to be willing to sacrifice a part of themselves to create a better life; for intended parents, for your family, and yourself. However, you need some time before becoming a surrogate. It’s been circling in your mind, but you need to dive deeper into what surrogacy is (and isn’t!) and make sure it’s a good fit for your life. Wondering why you might have received a lower score than you thought? Check out The Most Common Reasons Women Get Denied From Becoming a SurrogateYour next step? Read the Family Inceptions blog, follow us on Facebook and Instagram, and spend the next few months understanding the ins and outs of surrogacy. This is a HUGE decision – make sure you are 100% on-board before applying.
• 3.
  Unfortunately, your score shows it's not the right time for you.

  Surrogacy is not your calling at this time. You need to be physically, emotionally, financially, and spiritually healthy to take on the demands of surrogacy. Spend the next 12 months working on getting your mind and body in check, plus work to organize your life and finances, and then let’s try this again! However, please know that we really appreciate you taking the time to go through this quiz. It shows your desire to change things for the better – whether it’s someone else’s life or your own. We wish you the best! Your next step? Click below to learn more about the top reasons women are denied from becoming surrogates.