How good are your chances for getting back together with your ex?

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Quiz Questions

1.
How are you feeling?
- A.
  Absolutely devastated
- B.
  Quite sad and having trouble focusing
- C.
  I'm sad, but generally feeling ok
- D.
  I'm ok
2.
How long was your relationship?
- A.
  Less than 3 months
- B.
  Between 3 and 6 months
- C.
  Between 6 and 12 months
- D.
  A year or longer
3.
How long ago did the breakup happen?
- A.
  Within the week
- B.
  Recently, 2-3 weeks ago
- C.
  1-3 months ago
- D.
  More than 3 months ago
4.
Who broke up with whom?
- A.
  They broke up with me
- B.
  I broke up with them
- C.
  It was mutual, but mostly my decision
- D.
  It was mutual, but mostly their decision
5.
How do you think your partner currently feels about you?
- A.
  They still have strong feelings for me
- B.
  They say they've lost feelings, but I think they still have feelings for me
- C.
  They've lost feelings for me
- D.
  I'm not sure how they feel
6.
Do you think your ex trusts you?
- A.
  Yes, they completely do
- B.
  Yes, for the most part
- C.
  No, but I think I can regain their trust
- D.
  No, the trust has been broken
7.
How physically/sexually compatible were the two of you?
- A.
  Couldn't be better
- B.
  Very compatible
- C.
  Mildly compatible
- D.
  What sex life?
8.
Are you and your ex currently in communication?
- A.
  Yes, we still communicate on a consistent basis
- B.
  Yes, we still communicate but a lot less than we used to
- C.
  Not really
- D.
  My ex has blocked me
9.
How well did you and your ex handle arguments?
- A.
  We argued well and always with respect
- B.
  We handled arguments fairly well
- C.
  We never fought
- D.
  We had terrible fights
10.
How compatible do you think you and your ex were? Think about personality, life goals, values, etc.
- A.
  We are extremely compatible
- B.
  We are mostly compatible
- C.
  We disagree on some important areas
- D.
  We have a major incompatibility (age, spirituality, etc.)
11.
What is your gender identity?
- A.
  I'm a man
- B.
  I'm a woman
- C.
  I'm non-binary
- D.
  Other
12.
Last question! What's your age bracket?
- A.
  20 or under
- B.
  21-24
- C.
  25-29
- D.
  30s
- E.
  40s
- F.
  50s and up

Quiz Outcomes

1.
It's time to move on
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I'm sorry to tell you that things don't look good for your relationship situation. You and your ex have some significant issues to overcome. And sometimes, some issues are just too big or too unhealthy to be able to get your relationship back on track. I know it's not easy to hear, but it's better that you know the realistic truth about your situation. No amount of no contact, clever texts, or “get your ex back” gimmicks are going to change that. Not only will they not work for your situation, but it will only delay your heartbreak in the long-term for a relationship that likely shouldn’t be saved. So while I may not be able to help you reconcile with your ex, I can help you get over the desire to get back together with your ex, heal your heart, and eventually move on to find the love you want and deserve. If you’re interested, you can learn more about my Heartbreak Recovery services here.
2.
This could be difficult, but you may still have ONE more chance
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Is there a chance for you two to get back together? Yes. But there's probably just ONE last chance to make it right. There's a lot for you to overcome to get back together with your ex, and given that you're broken up, it's especially challenging to work through what needs to be worked through. Perhaps in trying to work through things, you found the situation only got worse. This means that something has to change. If you feel like you need to explore this very small chance before you can even think about moving on or seeking closure, I can help you make the most of this final opportunity. See how here.
3.
There’s some work to do, but there's a chance here
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It sounds like you two had a good relationship in general, but had some foundational issues that significantly stressed the relationship and couldn't be resolved on your own. Although there were legitimate reasons for the breakup, it appears that the issues you had are workable and can be overcome with the right help. Considering that the current situation may be delicate, it's best to take things slow and deliberately. I can help you figure out your next steps, and create a personalized plan to make the most of this opportunity. You can learn more about how I can do that for you here. Remember, for things to be different, you need to do something different.
4.
Yes, there’s a solid chance here (but it's still a delicate situation)
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Yes, I'm saying there's a chance! You're in a unique position to get your relationship back on track because it seems like you and your ex had a healthy, loving relationship in the first place. In general, it sounds like the reasons that you broke up are workable and can be overcome with the right help. Situations like yours often need some fine-tuning to get things on track. That said, the time after a breakup is very delicate. I can help you resolve your situation efficiently by identifying where things really went wrong and determining the right next steps. If you’re interested, you can learn more about my conscious recoupling services here. (Note: if you feel discouraged by the 20%, I want you to know that I never give anyone higher than a 20% chance when it comes to reconciliations. The reality is that there are simply too many factors at play, and I believe it highly dishonest and unethical to promise otherwise.)