Your kind of connections are unpredictable, fun and exciting. You two are hot and heavy most of the time but can also tend to go cold very fast. Your relationship is spontaneous and passionate. If your outside of the bedroom interests are too different, this type of relationship can fade fast. But there is something about him that you can get addicted to... and that desirable connection has to be maintained to keep the flame burning. Keeping up your connection will take you on many adventures.
Intimacy is very important to you and his consistent physical attention, stimulating your mind and maintaining the excitement between you two is what will keep your attention. Be careful that the lust doesn't dominates how you two deal with each other or the balance of domination can turn more physical and less like love. You set the standard, so maintain how you attracted him and he will follow your lead. If he truly cares for you, he will show you. So remind him to keep it your kind of sexy and you'll be happy too.
You want to feel safe, so this mental connection tends to be the "safe bet" with low risk. The man you want usually has a good job, a nice car and maybe even goes to church. He's home based, so he'll want you to meet his mom and will be excited to be close to your family. He won't pressure you to do things you're not comfortable with and takes things slow. He is sweet and kind. He will spend time listening to your feelings and will probably even share some of his own. Some might call him boring and predictable, but you enjoy knowing that he will always be there for you. He will follow your lead and jump through hoops to please you. He's truly a safe choice. You will love him because he shows you attention and affection.
Be careful that you don't get bored. Introduce him to your interests and he will follow you. Be aware that your relationship doesn't become one-sided, so take an conscious interest in what he likes so that he doesn't feel neglected. If this kind of man ever strays, it's usually because of a lack of emotional attachment, remember that he deserves to feel sexy and heart safe too.
You'll be attracted to your partner's charm and appearance but this connection is more mental in how you keep his interest. You will either find this guy working out, playing sports or watching sports. He enjoys the competition and sometimes gets a little too into it, but it's kinda hot. The athletic types usually want fit partners, so it may important that you want to join him in the gym and keep up your appearance.
If not, you will have to have an understanding that he might not spend as much time with you. It's nothing personal, it's really important to him. The men that faithfully watch spectator sports like the playoffs are a big deal and the events like the Superbowl is an occasion to throw a party. This may be a way to celebrate his interests if you're not necessarily into sports like him. The great thing about this guy is clear about his passion, so you will most likely be able to guess where he is. Hopefully you like sports too so you can enjoy the games with him or if not, learn to allow your man to have the space he needs to enjoy his hobby. Be careful that you don't lose you own identity in this kind of relationship, that man may prioritize their interests, leaving you lost in the shuffle and frustrated. Balance is important.
You want to feel financially safe and taken care of. The mental connection is with a man about his work and enjoying the fruits of his labor. He works hard so he can play hard and if you end up with him he will share those rewards with you. You like "the Good Life" so you'll be attracted to a man that will buy you nice gifts, good food and take you on luxurious trips. You'll probably live in a nice home and have nice things. He'll want the semblance of success so keeping up appearances are key to your connection.
But it may come at a price, he'll work long hours and probably be tired when he does come home. The balance of being a "kept woman" with creating a good home life may be exhausting, even if you're independent and make your own money. He still may expect a lot from you as well. Since he may feel like he works so hard, he may constantly be wondering what you're doing with your time if he's not satisfied or feels unbalanced. Or you might not see him very often, so it's important that you have your own mission, life and interests so that your feelings don't get lost in the shuffle. But at the end of the day, he is a good provider for you and your family and that's how he shows his love. Make sure that you keep the pulse in this relationship or he may seek outside connections.
You want to love and feel loved. You tend to fall in love fast, so be careful that you don't blindly follow your partner's lead. Remember that you set the standard, so be aware of how he treats you and watch the things that he says. You like to stay close to your partner, you may do what he likes instead listening to yourself. Make sure that you continue being yourself and not get lost in your feelings. Following them constantly may eventually make you change yourself, thinking that change will be what keeps that partner. Actually, in changing how you maintain your connection from how you attracted your partner in the first place, they may feel betrayed and lose interest. You have to make sure that your feelings are validated and that he makes his choices with you in mind.
Heart Dominant people feel everything so your feelings may get hurt easily. It's important to communicate clearly as well as seek understanding through comprehension with balance from both parties. You want a lasting connection so make a conscious effort to find out what makes your partner tick and make sure that he makes the same effort. Keep it fun, keep it sexy and keep your own mind. Make sure your needs are being met and you aren't losing your identity in pleasing him in his and you'll be fine.