What's Your Egoic Archetype™?

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Quiz Questions

1.
The money in your bank account is NOT the amount you want it to be, so you...
- A.
  feel really stressed about money and worried there isn’t going to be enough.
- B.
  find yourself irritable at everyone/everything.
- C.
  feel really disappointed in yourself and know you should be farther along than you are.
- D.
  start researching online “how to make more money fast."
2.
Your spouse/partner gets upset with you and you...
- A.
  start to worry about things, for example you might think “what if they don’t love me anymore” or “what if they leave."
- B.
  get frustrated with them and snap back.
- C.
  respond with “what do you want me to do about it?” Or “how do you want me to fix that?” Or “when you calm down, then we can talk about it."
- D.
  feel guilty about it and either apologize for making them upset, or get quiet and retreat.
3.
Your boss/big client confronts you about the timeline of a project and seems a bit impatient, so you...
- A.
  feel concerned that you won't complete it in time and work overtime to avoid another hard conversation.
- B.
  get a bit defensive and try to justify why it's taking more time.
- C.
  feel disappointed in yourself for not doing a better job and respond with "I'm so sorry about that. It's my fault. I will work on it right away."
- D.
  explain that when you receive some information and details from another team member, then you will be able to complete it.
4.
When you disagree with a person or persons, you...
- A.
  Are confused as to what to say or do so avoid the hard conversation.
- B.
  speak up quickly with a defensive tone and find all the reasons why your opinion is right and they are wrong.
- C.
  Say things like “the reality is _______________.”
- D.
  Say “I am sorry that...” or “Please don’t be upset”
5.
When things get stressful, your response is to...
- A.
  feel confused and/or procrastinate.
- B.
  get easily irritated or annoyed (and sometimes even angry).
- C.
  notice all the things you “should” be doing and can’t seem to keep up.
- D.
  look for ways to quickly fix the issues (problem solver).
6.
You're a business owner or leader in your organization and you’ve been asked to speak to a large group of people, so you….
- A.
  decline, because you are flat out terrified of public speaking OR of what other people will think about you.
- B.
  say "Sure and I have some great ideas about what I should talk about. I know what the audience will like."
- C.
  you recall how disappointed you were in yourself the last time you tried speaking and so hesitate to say yes!
- D.
  ask lots of questions and then offer this solution: “when I have all my talking points figured out, then I would be happy to speak!"
7.
When it comes to money, I tend to...
- A.
  Overwork, over-plan, and stress about responsibility.
- B.
  Feel annoyed how much people expect to be tipped or get frustrated when they overcharge you on a bill.
- C.
  Avoid looking at the numbers — it’s overwhelming.
- D.
  Undervalue myself or give away too much.

Quiz Outcomes

1.
THE ILLUSIONIST: My Primary Egoic Archetype
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My ego mind loves to explore the "what if's" and has a wild imagination! YOUR EGO IS THE ILLUSIONIST.You know how to shift energy, read a room, and adapt quickly. You’re brilliant at reframing, staying positive, and staying in motion. But your ego often uses this brilliance to avoid feeling the discomfort.It keeps you floating between indecision, spiritual bypassing, and future-tripping (the "what ifs") — so you don’t have to confront the messier layers of desire, loss, or unmet needs.The moment you start to feel uncomfortable or unsure… the ego kicks in with distraction, excuses, or escape.You don’t need to know all the answers. You just need to stay present long enough for the truth to land, not the fear and anxiety. Now we're at a critical "choice intersection"... 1. Stay in the illusion, procrastination and fear pattern OR2. I’ll walk you through the 3 specific Ego Tricks™ your ILLUSIONIST archetype uses to trap you in loops of avoidance, fear, anxiety and procrastination. 👇🏼👇🏼👇🏼 If you’re done floating above your life… click button below to anchor into your power.
2.
THE REBEL: My Primary Egoic Archetype
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My ego mind is a little "spicy" or "sassy" and likes to speak up! YOUR EGO IS THE REBEL ARCHETYPE.You thrive on autonomy, self-direction, and being unapologetically you. You’ve likely built a life or business that reflects that.But when things get tight — emotionally, financially, or relationally — your ego protects you by resisting structure, authority, and even the support you deeply desire. It convinces you that needing anything or anyone is weakness, and that fire is your only fuel.You may find yourself quick to anger, judgment, or addictive coping when pressure hits. Not because you’re out of control — but because your ego would rather burn the bridge than feel the vulnerability of building something lasting.Liberation begins when you stop pushing against and start leading from your true power. Now we're at a critical "choice intersection"...1. Stay in the reactive, resistant, exhaustive pattern and keep avoiding intimacy or consistency, OR 2. I’ll walk you through the 3 specific Ego Tricks™ your REBEL archetype uses to hijack your next level in money, success and relationship cohesiveness — PLUS I will spell out exactly how to catch that pesky ego before it kicks in! 👇🏼👇🏼👇🏼 Click below to get the full training. It’s time to stop ghosting your own greatness!
3.
THE MARTYR: My Primary Egoic Archetype
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My ego mind loves to think of other people first! YOUR EGO IS THE MARTYR.You lead with heart, loyalty, and deep emotional presence. You are the one who cares — often more than anyone else.But your ego equates sacrifice with safety. It tells you that love must be earned through over-giving, that your needs are second, and that disappointment is just part of the deal.You may notice patterns of guilt, comparison, and codependent attachments — especially when your own boundaries are unclear or constantly bent for others.Your evolution isn’t about giving less. It’s about finally including yourself in the love you so freely give. Now we're at a critical "choice intersection"...1. Stay in the give-to-receive spiral, self-doubt cycle and negative self-talk patterns OR 2. I’ll walk you through the 5 specific Ego Tricks™ your MARTYR archetype uses to hijack yours dreams and desires — PLUS I will spell out exactly how to catch that pesky ego before it kicks in! You’ve given enough. It’s time to receive. 👇🏼👇🏼👇🏼 Click below to get the full training.
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THE REALIST - Primary Egoic Archetype
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My ego mind likes to "keep it real"! YOUR EGO IS THE REALIST.You’re the planner, the doer, the one who figures it out when no one else will. You’re seen as capable, intelligent, and grounded — because you’ve had to be.But your ego has attached to control as safety. It runs loops of “must-do,” “need-to,” and “should” so fast that you rarely pause to ask: Do I even want this? You may obsess over timing, conditions, or needing to “get it right” before allowing yourself rest, joy, or softness. Your healing doesn’t come from doing more — it comes from releasing the belief that your value lives in what you hold together. You’re strong — but your ego shouldn’t be in charge.Your Realist pattern keeps things together. But it also keeps you waiting — for the timing, the plan, the perfect proof that it’s “safe enough” to receive. Now we're at a critical "choice intersection"...1. Stay in the give-to-receive spiral, self-doubt cycle and negative self-talk patterns OR2. I’ll walk you through the 3 specific Ego Tricks™ your REALIST archetype uses to trap you in loops of control, over-functioning, and emotional shutdown — PLUS I will spell out exactly how to catch that pesky ego before it kicks in! 👇🏼👇🏼👇🏼 Ready to shift from pressure and responsibility to true power? Click below for the full training.