Discover Your Relationship Personality!

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  I shut down and withdraw when another hurts me.

  • A.
    Never True 
  • B.
    Almost Never True 
  • C.
    Sometimes True 
  • D.
    Almost Always True 
  • E.
    Always True 
• 2.
  I struggle to say no when people ask me to do something.

  • A.
    Never True 
  • B.
    Almost Never True 
  • C.
    Sometimes True 
  • D.
    Almost Always True 
  • E.
    Always True 
• 3.
  I expect others to stop what they are doing to do something for me.

  • A.
    Never True 
  • B.
    Almost Never True 
  • C.
    Sometimes True 
  • D.
    Almost Always True 
  • E.
    Always True 
• 4.
  I figure out a way that I can line up things to make something happen that I want.

  • A.
    Never True 
  • B.
    Almost Never True 
  • C.
    Sometimes True 
  • D.
    Almost Always True 
  • E.
    Always True 
• 5.
  I don’t want to say what I’m really feeling because it might hurt another person's feelings.

  • A.
    Never True 
  • B.
    Almost Never True 
  • C.
    Sometimes True 
  • D.
    Almost Always True 
  • E.
    Always True 
• 6.
  I’m hardest on myself, not stopping to acknowledge that all tasks or activities don’t require the same standard.

  • A.
    Never True 
  • B.
    Almost Never True 
  • C.
    Sometimes True 
  • D.
    Almost Always True 
  • E.
    Always True 
• 7.
  I struggle to trust because I have been hurt.

  • A.
    Never True 
  • B.
    Almost Never True 
  • C.
    Sometimes True 
  • D.
    Almost Always True
  • E.
    Always True 
• 8.
  It works out better when I speak less often. I don’t have to feel anxious about it, and I don't have to have conflict.

  • A.
    Never True 
  • B.
    Almost Never True 
  • C.
    Sometimes True 
  • D.
    Almost Always True 
  • E.
    Always True 
• 9.
  I say yes to things I’d rather not do because I’m afraid of disappointing the other person.

  • A.
    Never True 
  • B.
    Almost Never True 
  • C.
    Sometimes True 
  • D.
    Almost Always True 
  • E.
    Always True 
• 10.
  I struggle to think about the needs of others. I think my needs are more important.

  • A.
    Never True 
  • B.
    Almost Never True 
  • C.
    Sometimes True 
  • D.
    Almost Always True 
  • E.
    Always True 
• 11.
  I can’t be happy until someone apologizes/comes to visit/ gives me a gift, and etc.

  • A.
    Never True 
  • B.
    Almost Never True 
  • C.
    Sometimes True 
  • D.
    Almost Always True 
  • E.
    Always True 
• 12.
  I tell him/her I’m working late because I don't want to go hang out. 

  • A.
    Never True 
  • B.
    Almost Never True 
  • C.
    Sometimes True 
  • D.
    Almost Always True 
  • E.
    Always True 
• 13.
  It’s easy for me to be disappointed in others.

  • A.
    Never True 
  • B.
    Almost Never True 
  • C.
    Sometimes True 
  • D.
    Almost Always True 
  • E.
    Always True 
• 14.
  I am not sure I have moved past old relationship wounds.

  • A.
    Never True 
  • B.
    Almost Never True 
  • C.
    Sometimes True 
  • D.
    Almost Always True 
  • E.
    Always True 
• 15.
  I listen to respond, rather than hearing what he/she is saying and telling me with his/her body language.

  • A.
    Never True 
  • B.
    Almost Never True 
  • C.
    Sometimes True 
  • D.
    Almost Always True 
  • E.
    Always True 
• 16.
  I respond to others’ needs, forgetting to care of myself.

  • A.
    Never True 
  • B.
    Almost Never True 
  • C.
    Sometimes True 
  • D.
    Almost Always True 
  • E.
    Always True 
• 17.
  I keep secrets from others who are trustworthy.

  • A.
    Never True 
  • B.
    Almost Never True 
  • C.
    Sometimes True 
  • D.
    Almost Always True 
  • E.
    Always True
• 18.
  I am not sure what my responsibilites are versus the responsibilites of another.

  • A.
    Never True 
  • B.
    Almost Never True 
  • C.
    Sometimes True 
  • D.
    Almost Always True 
  • E.
    Always True
• 19.
  I have high expectations of those I care about.

  • A.
    Never True
  • B.
    Almost Never True 
  • C.
    Sometimes True 
  • D.
    Almost Always True 
  • E.
    Always True
• 20.
  I feel like I should not have to ask or tell a person how I feel or what I need. They should already know.

  • A.
    Never True 
  • B.
    Almost Never True 
  • C.
    Sometimes True 
  • D.
    Almost Always True 
  • E.
    Always True 
• 21.
  I keep my anger and hurt inside until it explodes.

  • A.
    Never True 
  • B.
    Almost Never True 
  • C.
    Sometimes True 
  • D.
    Almost Always True 
  • E.
    Always True 
• 22.
  I am scared to speak up for myself.

  • A.
    Never True 
  • B.
    Almost Never True 
  • C.
    Sometimes True 
  • D.
    Almost Always True 
  • E.
    Always True 

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  The One who Struggles with Communication

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• 2.
  The One with Unhealthy Boundaries 

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• 3.
  The Selfish One 

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• 4.
  The Manipulative One 

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• 5.
  The One with Unrealistic Expectations

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• 6.
  The One with Unresolved Wounds 

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• 7.
  The Dishonest One 

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• 8.
  The Healthy One 

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