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Self-Love Activist
Congratulations! You’re a Self-Love Activist.
SUPER POWER: You bring out the best in people and people love you for it. You are a natural confidante, extending acceptance, compassion and a desire to help to everybody. People feel this innately and warm to you because they know that you can help them and that you will.
In the boardroom, this makes you a highly valued co-worker; whenever there’s trouble you can be trusted to go in and dispel it. Being empathetic, you are aware of everything that is going on, especially how other people are feeling. You can spot the slight raising of an eyebrow, the glance at a watch, the pursed lips. You act on it and this makes all the difference.
Drawback: you have a tendency to overcompensate, to do more than what is required, leaving you feeling drained and overworked. The overload of information can have you plummeting into overwhelm. Being sensitive and taking things to heart is a strength but you have to learn how to navigate the world of business to use it to your advantage.
In the bedroom, you know what pleases you, and your partner(s) find(s) this totally exciting! However, you sometimes find it easier to gift yourself what you require instead of asking for it. This independence can leave you feeling sometimes lonely and misunderstood, wondering when you’ll find Prince/Princess Charming.
TIPS:
To enhance your Femininity Formula, you must first let go of your desire to overcompensate: you don’t have to; you are ENOUGH. The more you extend unconditional love to yourself, the more others will take their cue from you, enabling you to create intimate relationships that satisfy you. As a Self-Love Activist, you must believe in your own values, nurture them and design your life around them so that they are reflected in your relationships.
In the boardroom, set healthy boundaries between you and colleagues. People sense your listening skills and your natural empathy and sometimes overload you, leaving you with less time and energy to pursue your own wellbeing, your own dreams, your own desires.
In the bedroom, expect others to pamper you. Tell them if they don’t come up to your standards. (You can tell them gently). Being a Self-Love Activist, you must cultivate the belief that you deserve only the best and take actions accordingly, lovingly. That means saying NO to second best.
To consolidate your Femininity Formula, you need to create awareness around just how lovable and desirable you are, without making an effort, without compensating. You have got formidable personal resources; use them for yourself and leave others to develop their own. This will allow you to create relationships between equals where you're not compensating, where you're not helping, where you're being imperfect but genuine.
To help you empower your Femininity Formula, I'm gifting you my 5 Daily Habits to Self-Love so that you can become a self-love expert. That means stopping to work for it and letting it become natural.
Nobody can love you more than you love yourself.