Dare Be Feminine

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  Sensuality exists at all ages. What is yours?

  • A.
    Under 30
  • B.
    Between 31 and 44
  • C.
    Between 45 and 59
  • D.
    Over 60
• 2.
  When you get up in the morning, you say to yourself:

  • A.
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    I'm already late!
  • B.
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    I wonder what's for breakfast...
  • C.
    I am gorgeous and today is the best day of my life
  • D.
    I am ready for whatever is available to me today
• 3.
  My morning beauty ritual consists of 

  • A.
    opening the door to my Philippe Starck bathroom, putting on my silk bathrobe and calling my manicurist 
  • B.
    looking at myself in the mirror and saying: I love you
  • C.
    showering while smelling and applying my favourite soaps and creams
  • D.
    what's that? Come again 
• 4.
  Self-care is 

  • A.
    essential so that I can be all of who I am
  • B.
    time consuming; I have a lot of obligations in my life
  • C.
    a delicious treat that I make sure to get enough of
  • D.
    self-evident; everything I do is to care for myself
• 5.
  Meals are meant to 

  • A.
    be a delicious moment where my taste buds come to life
  • B.
    be nutritious and support a healthy lifestyle
  • C.
    allow me to function, fill me up so that I can stay healthy
  • D.
    an opportunity for more fun and sensuality alone or with others 
• 6.
  My ideal home is

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    clean, organized and clutter free
  • B.
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    a space where I come alive
  • C.
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    full of meaningful objects that add beauty
  • D.
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    an expression of my unique personality
• 7.
  How do you have fun?

  • A.
    At Tiffany's. I know a diamond or two can highlight my looks
  • B.
    I enjoy creating or crafting, using my skills and imagination
  • C.
    Sharing good food and conversation with like-minded spirits
  • D.
    I make sure to infuse fun and pleasure into everything I do 

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  People Pleaser

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  Congratulations! You're a People Pleaser SUPER POWER: knowing/sensing EXACTLY what other people want and being able to deliver. In the boardroom, this has got the potential to make you immensely popular and highly respected. You are a phenomenal observer, nothing goes unnoticed by you. You even notice whether people take sugar or not in their tea and coffee, right? And you remember it for next time, something that leaves people amazed. As your sense of responsibility is highly developed, you're an excellent employee and your employer knows that he/she can count on you 100%. Drawback: you are not always paid according to your value. If you're self-employed or working at home, you have a hard time allowing yourself downtime. In the bedroom, your partner is king/queen. You have got the ability to predict all their desires; aren’t they lucky! This has them coming back for more, leaving them sometimes dependent, even needy. This can feel like a burden to you, making you stay with a partner for longer than is actually good for both of you. Drawback: You are a perfectionist. You enjoy making everything look so easy even though it’s costing you blood, sweat and tears. This can wear you out and have you spiralling into overwhelm. TIPS: To enhance your Femininity Formula, you must gift yourself permission to enjoy more and tap into the Power of Pleasure. Nothing more attractive than a woman who's pleased. The more pleasure you feel, the more energy, vibrancy and self-confidence you get to have. In the boardroom, set healthy boundaries for what you’re willing to accept. Practise saying NO. You have got a right to. People will respect you for it when they see that you bring all your qualities and abilities to the table when you say YES. Have you thought about asking for what you’re worth? Chances are that your boss/clients know this and are perfectly willing to pay what you ask. So go ahead, ask. In the bedroom, allow your partner to find out what brings YOU pleasure. Nothing as exciting as a woman being pleased! You might even want to challenge them to find out... by exploring. Consolidate your Femininity Formula by using your innate ability to up-level by gifting yourself valuable self-care. Take the time to pamper yourself and allow your natural beauty to unfold. Your first easy step to developing solid self-care and allowing yourself to be pampered without feeling guilty could be to download my free guide to Simple Morning & Evening Rituals. They only take 5 minutes but they make a world of difference to your confidence and your self-love. Everybody loves a woman who loves herself.
• 2.
  Self-Love Activist

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  Congratulations! You’re a Self-Love Activist. SUPER POWER: You bring out the best in people and people love you for it. You are a natural confidante, extending acceptance, compassion and a desire to help to everybody. People feel this innately and warm to you because they know that you can help them and that you will. In the boardroom, this makes you a highly valued co-worker; whenever there’s trouble you can be trusted to go in and dispel it. Being empathetic, you are aware of everything that is going on, especially how other people are feeling. You can spot the slight raising of an eyebrow, the glance at a watch, the pursed lips. You act on it and this makes all the difference. Drawback: you have a tendency to overcompensate, to do more than what is required, leaving you feeling drained and overworked. The overload of information can have you plummeting into overwhelm. Being sensitive and taking things to heart is a strength but you have to learn how to navigate the world of business to use it to your advantage. In the bedroom, you know what pleases you, and your partner(s) find(s) this totally exciting! However, you sometimes find it easier to gift yourself what you require instead of asking for it. This independence can leave you feeling sometimes lonely and misunderstood, wondering when you’ll find Prince/Princess Charming. TIPS: To enhance your Femininity Formula, you must first let go of your desire to overcompensate: you don’t have to; you are ENOUGH. The more you extend unconditional love to yourself, the more others will take their cue from you, enabling you to create intimate relationships that satisfy you. As a Self-Love Activist, you must believe in your own values, nurture them and design your life around them so that they are reflected in your relationships. In the boardroom, set healthy boundaries between you and colleagues. People sense your listening skills and your natural empathy and sometimes overload you, leaving you with less time and energy to pursue your own wellbeing, your own dreams, your own desires. In the bedroom, expect others to pamper you. Tell them if they don’t come up to your standards. (You can tell them gently). Being a Self-Love Activist, you must cultivate the belief that you deserve only the best and take actions accordingly, lovingly. That means saying NO to second best. To consolidate your Femininity Formula, you need to create awareness around just how lovable and desirable you are, without making an effort, without compensating. You have got formidable personal resources; use them for yourself and leave others to develop their own. This will allow you to create relationships between equals where you're not compensating, where you're not helping, where you're being imperfect but genuine. To help you empower your Femininity Formula, I'm gifting you my 5 Daily Habits to Self-Love so that you can become a self-love expert. That means stopping to work for it and letting it become natural. Nobody can love you more than you love yourself.
• 3.
  Pleasure Seeker

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  You are a pleasure seeker, congratulations! SUPER POWER: People are drawn to you; you charm them, effortlessly. In the boardroom, you diffuse a delightful atmosphere of contentedness, ease and good humour; people LOVE to work with you. They seek you out to help them solve their problems which you do, charmingly, making them come back for more. Drawback: this can sometimes take over, leaving you feeling a tiny bit resentful of other people’s dependency as you yourself take full responsibility for your own life. In the bedroom, you fascinate because of your ability to give freely, knowing that you can always come back for more. You receive compliments with a twinkle in your eye, you soak them up, leaving you even more alive and ready to engage fully in relationships, sex, intimacy and sensuality. Drawback: You can sometimes feel lonely or misunderstood in your relationships as your lovers do not necessarily match up with your mastery. They can appear hesitant, unskillful, even downright awkward and if you let this impression fester, you might be tempted to just leave them behind. TIPS: To enhance your Femininity Formula, you must keep in mind that unless you keep evolving, you will soon grow tired of your job, of your lover, of your home. You realize that there’s always more: more enjoyment, more pleasure, more sensuality, more prosperity. Deny this at your peril. In the boardroom, realize that not everybody has got as far as you on the personal development front. They might very well be doing their best which is very far from your best. This does not mean you have to compensate for them and their shortcomings; this means that you are responsible only for you and that you can allow them to fail and learn from it. In the bedroom, learn how to communicate your needs to your partners and associates instead of giving up on them: if you teach them, they can learn. They will be very willing to learn if you let them because the prize is you. You might not have to move on; people do evolve. If you want tools to stay in your feminine power zone, feel free to download my Tips & Tools on Self-Love: the more you love yourself, the more irresistible you become.
• 4.
  Desire Diva

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  You are a Desire Diva, congratulations! SUPER POWER: You know what you want, when you want it and how you want it. In the boardroom, you expect people to deliver and they do because nothing and nobody can resist a woman who’s lead by her desires. By always keeping your own enjoyment in mind, other people do too. You inspire them to do their best so that you as well as themselves can reap the maximum benefit of their efforts. Life is good. Drawback: some people don't get you and take you to be feeling entitled. As you have little patience, this can leave you feeling frustrated with other people's reactions and you might attempt to change them. This only brings misunderstandings and ill will. In the bedroom, you are a desire magnet. Being clear on what you want makes your lover(s) able to deliver. You love your body so others do too. You know what gives it pleasure and you can ask for this in an uncomplicated way that allows your lover(s) to respond. Your desires are fierce and you find yourself drawn to only the people who are a perfect match for you for one night, for 6 months or for a lifetime. TIPS: To enhance your Femininity Formula, you must be aware that there is always more. When you let yourself be lead by your desires, you’ll discover that life is generous, you can keep enjoying more pleasure, more money, more sensuality, more YOU. In the boardroom, open your eyes to opportunity: where could you do better? Where could you BE more (not DO more as you're already doing quite a lot). Set your sights on the BEST because you can handle it. Could you double your income? Triple it? Always ask yourself: What do I desire? In the bedroom, let down your guard, explore your desires. Is it possible to develop more intimacy? What would that look like? What would it feel like? Ask yourself: If I could have anything, what would it be? Because let's be clear, you can have anything. To continue exploring your uniqueness, feel free to download my Tips & Tools on Self-Love.