Relationship Readiness Assessment

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Quiz Questions

1.
I date regularly.
- A.
  Definitely me. (At least 1 date per week)
- B.
  Somewhat me. (appx 2 - 3 dates per month)
- C.
  Not exactly me. (2 - 3 dates per quarter)
- D.
  Not me at all. (2 or less dates per year)
2.
I am willing to disrupt my current patterns and daily routine to make space for healthy love.
- A.
  Definitely me.
- B.
  Somewhat me.
- C.
  Not exactly me.
- D.
  Not me at all.
3.
What I dread most about the process of finding love is...
- A.
  I don't know exactly what to do.
- B.
  I don't want to waste my time.
- C.
  I don't want to get hurt again.
- D.
  I don't have time to invest in the dating process.
4.
I can literally envision myself in a happy, healthy relationship with a good man.
- A.
  Definitely me.
- B.
  Somewhat me.
- C.
  Not quite me.
- D.
  Definitely not me.
5.
I am emotionally prepared to have a healthy relationship.
- A.
  Definitely me.
- B.
  Somewhat me.
- C.
  Not quite me.
- D.
  Definitely not me.
6.
I know my blindspots.
- A.
  Definitely me.
- B.
  Somewhat me.
- C.
  Not exactly me.
- D.
  Not me at all.
7.
I am comfortable addressing conflict with the person who has offended me.
- A.
  Definitely me. I arrange to speak with them and discuss the issue.
- B.
  Somewhat me. It may take me a while but I'll eventually get to it.
- C.
  Not quite me. I may remain cordial with that person but I'll create space between us.
- D.
  Not me at all. I just cancel them from my life.
8.
My current schedule has time for a relationship.
- A.
  Honestly, Yes! Absolutely.
- B.
  Not at all.
9.
I am not sure I can take another heartbreak.
- A.
  Definitely me.
- B.
  Somewhat me.
- C.
  Not exactly me.
- D.
  Definitely not me.
10.
I would invest time, energy and money to prepare myself for the type of love experience I want in my next relationship.
- A.
  Definitely me.
- B.
  Somewhat me.
- C.
  Somewhat not me.
- D.
  Definitely not me.
11.
My exes generally have similar characteristics.
- A.
  Definitely me.
- B.
  Somewhat me.
- C.
  Not exactly me.
- D.
  Not me at all.
12.
In meeting my next romantic partner, I'd prefer to...
- A.
  Date a lot of men and narrow down to "the one."
- B.
  Date 1 man at a time.
- C.
  Get set up by a trusted friend who knows both of us well.
- D.
  Skip the dating process and have an arranged marriage.
13.
I believe I have a specific soul mate who is my ideal match.
- A.
  Definitely me.
- B.
  Somewhat me.
- C.
  Not quite me.
- D.
  Definitely not me.
14.
I have a list of relationship non-negotiables.
- A.
  Definitely me...my list has 10 or more very specific items.
- B.
  Somewhat me...my list has less than 10 items.
- C.
  Sure...my list has less than 5 items.
- D.
  Definitely not me...I don't have a list of non negotiable.
15.
I would appreciate mentorship or accountability on my journey toward "the one."
- A.
  Definitely!
- B.
  Somewhat!
- C.
  Not really.
- D.
  Not at all.

Quiz Outcomes

1.
Readiness
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Are you fairly active on dating sites?Have you taken time to yourself to work on you?Are you optimistic that there's someone out there for you? If so, its likely that READINESS was one of your top scores. Your Readiness score is a measure of your genuine WILLINGNESS and DESIRE to date, find love, marry, etc. If Readiness was one of your top 2 scores, its likely that you anticipate welcoming love in your life. In other words, your "antennas" are up expecting it. (PRO-TIP): Now here's the catch: don't confuse your readiness with being prepared. You can genuinely want something (i.e. be ready to have it) and not be prepared to receive it. (Preparedness is another score on this assessment). On the flip side.... If you'll cut some one off for the slightest infraction ORYour dread of dating sites outweigh your usage of them ORFor any given reason, the thought of dating makes you exhausted, readiness is probably one of your lower scores. Sis, a low readiness score means you may lean toward having a little hopeless or apprehension about connecting with a partner who can reciprocate your efforts based on your past experiences. No worries this is totally fixable. We can infuse some hope back into your dating life. ======================================================== NEXT STEPS: Whether you agree with your scores or disagree, schedule your Complimentary Consultation with me, Tracy Ready, the creator of this assessment to get a deeper understanding of your results and help on improving your score and therefore increasing your chances of making your next relationship your best relationship. Click the button below.
2.
Preparedness
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Have you heard from multiple exes that you were the one who got away? Have your breakups mostly been because it was just time to part ways? Have you invested time in consuming life-giving relationship advice? If any of this is true for you, its probable that PREPAREDNESS was one of your higher scores. Your Preparedness score is a measure of your ability to thrive in dating and relationships. The higher your score the more equipped you likely are with the emotional, mental and relational tools to build a healthy relationship such as active listening, healthy communication, vulnerability, reciprocation, conflict resolution, etc. PRO TIP: Do not confuse PREPAREDNESS with READINESS (readiness is your desire for love - and that's a separate score on this assessment). You can be fully prepared and completely unready. Think of it as having your bags packed, plane booked, and hotel reserved for a trip with absolutely NO desire to go anywhere. If preparedness was one of your top 2 scores, you probably have a track record of fairly healthy relationships...not that they were perfect but they didn't leave you traumatized. Hurt? Yes. Disappointed? Maybe. Traumatized? No. On the flip side... Have your breakups been a trail of traumatizing or dramatic events? Have your relationships been full of unanswered questions, bickering, or regret? Do you not have any or many exes because you've been uncoupled or with one person most of your life? Do you look back at your past relationships and GENUINELY not fully understand what went wrong? In your quest to understand how to make relationships work, have you dabbled in or considered a number of other alternative approaches to love, even though it wasn't really your preference? If any of these are true for you, then its probable that PREPAREDNESS was one of your lower scores. PROCEED WITH CAUTION lol If preparedness was one of your lower scores or didn't appear on your assessment results at all, this means there's a lot opportunities for you to grow - to learn HOW to do relationships better, how to pick healthier partners, and how to create a relationship that you don't have to SURVIVE from if it ends. Its highly recommended that you engage in learning opportunities to learn healthier ways to navigate dating, courting and/or relationships etc before starting or continuing a relationship. Listen, not many people have been taught HOW to "relationship" in a healthy way. A low Preparedness score isn't a "bad" thing or a failure. It's simply an opportunity to grow in this area of your life. ============================================= NEXT STEPS: Whether you agree with your scores or disagree, schedule your Complimentary Consultation with me, Tracy Ready, the creator of this assessment to get a deeper understanding of your results and help on improving your score and therefore increasing your chances of making your next relationship your best relationship. Click the button below.
3.
Fear Factor
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NOTE: With FEAR FACTOR, scoring is different in that, the LOWER your score, the better!! With that, let's get into this description. Do you go out on dates fairly regularly? Do the ups and downs of dating not bother or frustrate you? Have you found a healthy balance and enjoyment in multi-dating? If any of these are true for you, its probable that FEAR FACTOR was one of your lowest scores. If your score was 10% or less or didn't appear at all in your results, EVEN BETTER!!!! Your FEAR FACTOR score measures your openness to the process of love; you don't dread the process or find every reason or annoyance to avoid it. Your delay in love is because you need strategy or accountability in other areas...not because you're not open. ON THE OTEHR HAND.... Are you a runner, a track star? Are you on 'red flag' high alert or are easily triggered by modern dating? Are you QUICK to cut someone off and cancel them from your life? Do you find yourself in dating or relationship situations just waiting for the other shoe to drop? OR ending it before it does? Have you had a history of abuse or harassment from the opposite sex? If any of these are true, its probable that FEAR FACTOR was one of your higher scores. You're likely resistance to the process of finding love. If Fear Factor is one of your top 2 scores, it is likely that self-sabotage, anxiety and/or barriers (not to be confused with boundaries) make it difficult for you in the love and dating process. Its hard to connect with someone when you're suspicious of them. There's a distinct difference in being wise and safe versus being suspicious and on edge; that's not healthy sis. Its a very stressful way to live. PRO-TIP: I see you sis, you may be becoming a little defensive (who does she think she is) or feeling uncomfortable (that twist in your gut) and maybe rolling your eyes and about to stop reading this. If this is you, LITERALLY, RIGHT NOW, close your eyes and take 3 DEEP breaths. Did you do it? UGH why you so hard headed? Girl, take the deep breaths already! lol You need some oxygen in your amygdala. Yes, these barriers (again, not to be confused with boundaries) you've put around yourself have served a purpose and kept you from a lot of heartache and headaches. Guess what...they've also kept you from healthy relationships & learning opportunities. I've literally been right where you are! God told me I HATED men...and at the core of that hate was fear due to past trauma and drama. I am a REAL LIFE EXAMPLE that this is TOTALLY fixable!! ======================================================== NEXT STEPS: Whether you agree with your scores or disagree, schedule your Complimentary Consultation with me, Tracy Ready, the creator of this assessment to get a deeper understanding of your results and help on improving your score and therefore increasing your chances of making your next relationship your best relationship. Click the button below.
4.
Expectancy
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Are you one who is comfortable addressing (not CONFRONTING) conflicts in your relationships? In past relationships, do you easily take accountability for your part? With reasonable offenses, are you quick to apologize and forgive? If any of these are true for you, its probable that EXPECTANCY was one of your higher scores. Your Expectancy score indicates how realistic your expectations about love are or are not. If Expectancy was one of your top 2 scores, this means that you have fairly realistic expectations while navigating dating and relationships. Not saying that it is or isn't, but I wouldn't be surprised if your PREPAREDNESS score was pretty high too. On the other hand... Do you have a rather long list of requirements for "Mr. Right"? Are you the "I can forgive you but I won't forget" type? Maybe your list is short but extremely specific and detailed (i.e. "He has to be exactly 6'1 and a Neurosurgeon" or "He can't be from XYZ city" ...or something like that)? Have you been told by past loves that you are hard to please or demanding? If any of this, or some variation of it is true, its likely that EXPECTANCY was one of your lower scores. If Expectancy is, in fact, one of your lower scores, this means idealism or seeking perfection (whether consciously or subconsciously) may be steering your love life....in an unfavorable direction. We ALL think our expectations or lists are realistic. Was your FEAR FACTOR score high too? PRO TIP: Calm down sis. Its not that anyone is trying to eliminate any healthy boundaries or make you get rid of any reasonable expectations. Its also not that you aren't worthy of anything on your list. You may not realize how these things are hindering rather than helping you - if being in a healthy happy relationship IS indeed your end goal. I've been there. My list was literally 4 pages long! Its a control issue. In healthy love, there is no control. There's give and take, request and reciprocation, actions and consequences. But control, absolutely not...and THAT'S what your low EXPECTANCY score is all about: your grasps for control. GOOD NEWS: You can change that and thrive...I'm proof. ========================================================NEXT STEPS: Whether you agree with your scores or disagree, schedule your Complimentary Consultation with me, Tracy Ready, the creator of this assessment to get a deeper understanding of your results and help on improving your score and therefore increasing your chances of making your next relationship your best relationship. Click the button below.
5.
Coachability
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Do you read a lot of self-help or personal development books? Do you lean toward podcasts or shows that help you improve in various activities and interests? Do you have mentors or people around you who've personally selected to hold you accountable to your goals in various areas of your life? If any of this is true, its probable that you scored high on COACHABILITY. Your Coachability score is a measure of your willingness to heal and learn new tools and strategies to date and relationship more effectively. If Coachability was one of your 2 top scores, this means you're teachable and authentically open to and excited about learning new things. Not only that, a high COACHABLILITY score is a good indicator that you'll apply your newly learned tools and therefore be more likely to reach your relationship goals! On the flipside... Are you OVER relationship gurus online? Are you of the opinion that no one knows you better than you know yourself? When approaching new activities, do you prefer to figure it out rather than ask for help? If so, its likely that COACHABILITY was one of your lower scores or didn't appear in your results at all. This means you may have likely reached your wit's end regarding dating and relationships and think there is nothing else to learn. You MAY have even answered "YES" to the "Do you know your blind spots" question. Sis, if you know it, its not a blind spot. LOL...BY DEFINITION, blind spot means something you can't see. You feel that there's not another book to read nor podcast to listen to; you've tried it ALL and nothing has worked!!! After exhausting all your mental resources, you've decided it's not ON you, it's ON them (them being the dating pool, men, society, etc). PRO TIP: While there is definitely pee in the dating pool and a lot of work to do all around, that doesn't mean there's nothing else for you to learn and do. Its probable that the things you've learned, you haven't applied OR haven't applied them properly to your dating life. You've been a loner, going it on your own and I'm ALMOST 100% sure you've got a LOT of blind spots that you simply don't see. Its time to invite someone who is unbiased, experienced and rooting for your dating and relationship success. BUT, you've GOT to WHOLE HEARTEDLY embrace this phrase and ask yourself: "What if I'm wrong?" If you ARE open, this can be fixed sis! ======================================================== NEXT STEPS: Whether you agree with your scores or disagree, schedule your Complimentary Consultation with me, Tracy Ready, the creator of this assessment to get a deeper understanding of your results and help on improving your score and therefore increasing your chances of making your next relationship your best relationship. Click the button below.

Relationship Readiness Assessment

Are you really HEALED and READY for your next relationship? Answer a few questions and your scores will help you discover the likeliness of your dating and relationship success based on 5 key predictors. PRO-TIP: Screenshot your results at the end!(5 Minutes or less)

Quiz Questions

Quiz Outcomes