How Healthy is Your Relationship for You?

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Quiz Questions

1.
Do you show your partner affection in public?
- A.
  Nope - PDA is not okay. We'll get a room!
- B.
  Holding hands is about as far as we'll go.
- C.
  We do it all the time! We love showing others how much we care about each other
2.
Do you point out your partner's weaknesses to them?
- A.
  Never! I like my partner for who they are.
- B.
  I do, but only if it's really bad...
- C.
  Totally! I want to help them become their best.
3.
Does thinking about your partner changing scare you?
- A.
  Not a bit! I know we'll be ok no matter how much we change.
- B.
  Uh yes...what if they don't like me or I don't like them?
4.
Do you find yourself doing more in the relationship than your significant other?
- A.
  Yeah, I do way more and I wish my partner would step it up.
- B.
  Sometimes I do more, and sometimes my partner does more.
- C.
  Actually...my partner usually puts in more effort than I do.
- D.
  No, we both put in the same amount of effort.
5.
Are there things your partner does that you don't like?
- A.
  Nope, I like them just the way they are - Mr. Rogers' style!
- B.
  Yes, there are things my partner does that bother me, and I don't think they'll ever change.
- C.
  There are a few things, but my partner knows they bother me and tries to limit them.
6.
How often do you talk about your greatest dreams and wishes or deepest fears and failures?
- A.
  Ummm...never?
- B.
  We did in the beginning, but not that much anymore.
- C.
  We do pretty often.
- D.
  All the time! We talk about our dreams and fears a lot.
7.
How often do you and your partner fight?
- A.
  Whenever we need to - if we don't agree, we let the other know.
- B.
  Occasionally - but something has to really set us off!
- C.
  We don't fight at all. We keep it positive!
8.
True or False: I share almost everything I'm thinking or feeling with my partner.
- A.
  True - I share what I'm thinking and feeling all the time!
- B.
  False - They don't want to hear EVERYTHING I'm thinking and feeling - that would be too much.
9.
How comfortable do you feel being physically intimate with your partner?
- A.
  I usually feel too self-conscious to feel totally comfortable.
- B.
  I'm generally pretty comfortable - I enjoy being intimate when I'm feeling it.
- C.
  Very! I'm really comfortable being physically intimate, and I feel comfortable sharing when I'm not feeling it, too!
10.
True or False: My partner and I often discuss how our days went.
- A.
  True
- B.
  False

Quiz Outcomes

1.
Could Use Some Work
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You care for your partner, but you tend to feel uncomfortable telling your partner how you’re really feeling and what you’re really thinking. You tend to keep yourself to yourself - with your partner and with others.Not wanting to upset them or rock the boat, you tend to avoid sharing things that you want or that bother you about your partner or relationship, and find that you're left wanting because of it.Sharing yourself fully in relationships is scary - we know! But the more YOU you can express, the more satisfaction, intimacy, and fulfillment you - and your partner - will experience.Click below to learn about our premiere emotional intelligence training - MORE Life Training - where you will learn important skills to increase your sense of satisfaction and connection in your relationship and your life!
2.
Pretty Good!
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You care deeply for your partner, and often feel supported by them. You generally feel comfortable sharing how you feel with them.When it comes to getting what you want, you tend to only take risks when you think it won’t change things too much or upset them, which keeps you from really connecting deeply with your partner and having full satisfaction in your relationship. Learning to speak up about what you really want and being totally yourself in relationships is scary - we know! But the more YOU you can be, the more satisfaction, intimacy, and fulfillment you - and your partner - will experience.Click below to learn about our premier emotional intelligence training - MORE Life Training - where you will learn important skills to increase your sense of satisfaction and connection in your relationship and your life!
3.
Great!
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You care deeply about your partner and value the support your partner provides to help you be your best. You speak up for what you want in your relationship and aren’t afraid to ruffle a few feathers to do so, because you know how important your satisfaction is to maintaining a healthy relationship. You value closeness and intimacy with your partner and aren’t afraid to show that off to others! Just like the pros continue to hone their skill by learning new techniques, you too are in the perfect position to continue to develop yourself and your relationship to achieve even more happiness and fulfillment - for you and your partner. Click below to learn about our premiere emotional intelligence training - MORE Life Training - where you will learn important skills to increase your sense of satisfaction and connection in your relationship and your life!