Am I in a Healthy Relationship?You deserve to be in a healthy relationship. Are you? Anwer "Yes" or "No" to the following questions to find out. You will find out your score at the end.
The person I'm with: Is very supportive of things that I do.
A.
Yes
B.
No
2.
The person I'm with: Listens respectfully when I share what is on my mind.
A.
Yes
B.
No
3.
The person I'm with: Encourages me to meet new people.
A.
Yes
B.
No
4.
The person I'm with: Makes me feel loved and important.
A.
Yes
B.
No
5.
The person I'm with: Enjoys simple activities done together because we enjoy each other's company.
A.
Yes
B.
No
6.
The person I'm with: Is not liked very well by my family and friends.
A.
Yes
B.
No
7.
The person I'm with: Texts me or calls me all the time or constantly makes me check in.
A.
Yes
B.
No
8.
The person I'm with: Gets extremely possessive and/or often accuses me of flirting.
A.
Yes
B.
No
9.
The person I'm with: Wants me to do everything they want rather than giving me a choice of activities and tries to isolate me from others.
A.
Yes
B.
No
10.
The person I'm with: Has frequent mood swings,getting angry and yelling at me one minute, but being sweet and apologetic the next.
A.
Yes
B.
No
11.
The person I'm with: Blames me when things don't go right.
A.
Yes
B.
No
12.
The person I'm with: Makes me feel nervous or like I'm "walking on eggshells."
A.
Yes
B.
No
13.
The person I'm with: Threatens to hurt me, themselves, my friends, or family.
A.
Yes
B.
No
14.
The person I'm with: Has cheated on me in the past.
A.
Yes
B.
No
15.
The person I'm with: Goes through my phone often and has all my passwords.
A.
Yes
B.
No
16.
The person I'm with: Threatens to destroy my things (Phone,clothing,laptop,car,etc.)
A.
Yes
B.
No
17.
The person I'm with: Grabs, pushes, shoves, chokes, punches, slaps, holds me down, throws things or hurts me in some way.
A.
Yes
B.
No
18.
The person I'm with: Yells, screams, or humiliates me in front of people.
A.
Yes
B.
No
19.
The person I'm with: Makes me feel like no one else would want me.
A.
Yes
B.
No
20.
The person I'm with: Pressures or forces me into having sex or going farther than I want.
A.
Yes
B.
No
Quiz Outcomes
1.
0-4 points
Great! Your relationship is on the right path. Remember that maintaining a healthy relationship takes work and time. Continually evaluate your relationship to make sure it stays healthy. Please take time to evaluate a friend’s relationship to see if it is strong or they could be headed towards an abusive relationship.
2.
5-7 points
There may be some things that are unhealthy in your relationship, which can be considered “red flags." Continually evaluate your relationship to see if there could possibly be any warning signs of an abusive relationship. Open communication is important, so be sure to talk with your partner to share your concerns. Educate yourself on signs and types of abuse.
3.
8-11 points
Look out! There are many warning signs of abuse in your relationship. Do not ignore them. What starts as a small warning grows over time. While no relationship is perfect, you will not find abusive behaviors in a healthy relationship. Now may be the time to consider moving on from this relationship.
4.
12 or more points
There are significant warning signs that you may be in an abusive relationship. You are not alone. There are people who can help you. Consult with loved ones to make sure you are safe and please consider making a safety plan.
