Not there yet. Be gentle with yourself and keep going!
Be curious where you are having trouble supporting yourself right now. Try to stay out of a place where you are judging yourself incessantly for not being over it, or going into victim and depleting yourself. Do your best to not spend too much energy focused on what you or your partner could have done differently. Nurture yourself as someone who thrives despite immense obstacles and challenges. Learn to make boundaries and stay connected to the wisdom of your heart.Where could you bring more love and attention to yourself and your life? Explore the places where you feel you are still holding on to your ex: How has this benefited you, and how has it caused you to suffer?Practice focusing on yourself and staying true to what you want. Stay steady. Keep going!