Is your communication style hurting your career?

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Quiz Questions

1.
You want a colleague to connect you with someone they know.
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- A.
  You don't have the courage to ask.
- B.
  You offer something first and then ask for the favor.
- C.
  You tell them they owe you the favor.
- D.
  You ask them nicely and you explain how it would help you.
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A work colleague interrupts you in meetings many times.
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- A.
  Why bother! You let it go because it's not worth the fight.
- B.
  You start to interrupt them back.
- C.
  You call it out instantly by pointing at them and saying "Stop interrupting me!"
- D.
  You invite them for a chat later in the day, explain you don't like to be interrupted.
3.
A team member is late for an important meeting that you are heading.
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- A.
  You're upset but you let it go to avoid a scene.
- B.
  You make jokes or comment about people being late in the meeting without mentioning names.
- C.
  You tell them to leave because you don't tolerate late arrivals and to set an example.
- D.
  You talk to them in private at the end of the meeting.
4.
Your employee starts to treat you cold suddenly and you don't know why.
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- A.
  You try to be extra nice to them so they can warm up to you.
- B.
  You ignore them because they may need some space.
- C.
  You make a joke to lighten it up.
- D.
  You ask them if there is an issue.
5.
A vendor insists in giving you a presentation about their software that you're not interested in.
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- A.
  You watch the presentation anyways so they can stop bothering you.
- B.
  You stop responding to their phone calls and emails.
- C.
  You tell them their software is terrible.
- D.
  You insist that you are not interested and that you don't want a presentation.
6.
You believe you are ready for a promotion.
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- A.
  You work even harder and hope that someone will notice you.
- B.
  You plan to get another job offer with the goal of using it to negotiate a promotion.
- C.
  You tell your boss if they don’t promote you you’ll quit.
- D.
  You routinely show your contributions to higher ups, then you present your case for a promotion.
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Your boss gives you harsh criticism in front of others.
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- A.
  You feel you are too sensitive and need to toughen up.
- B.
  Your boss is horrible so you quit the job.
- C.
  You tell your boss they are wrong and unfair.
- D.
  You tell your boss that you don't like to be criticized in front of others because it makes you feel disrespected.

Quiz Outcomes

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Your communication style is... Nice
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Your most used communication style is nice, friend! It means you tend to be very focused on other people's feelings. You can be very considerate, caring, and respectful towards others. You're also empathetic and a great listener. You're also very flexible, friendly, and accommodating. You're a team player and a colaborator. It's very important for you to be liked by others. People often describe you as "nice", "sweet heart", or "soft spoken". However, sometimes you may feel frustrated with others. You often feel overwhelmed and stressed because of too much work. You also feel like you're not properly recognized and appreciated for your work and contribution. At times others take advantage of your kindness.You'd rather avoid conflict or difficult conversations unless absolutely necessary, because it's uncomfortable and you don't like bothering other people. Speaking to higher ups can be challenging. Asking for what you want or for help is not easy.People take you for granted. They don't appreciate all that you do for them. People tend to interrupt you a lot. In the rare instances you express yourself, people ignore you or are not interested in what you have to say. Other times you feel invisible. You may feel like a doormat and helpless in the situation."Communication must be HOT. That's Honest, Open, and Two-way." — Dan OswaldTips to help you overcome the lack of appreciation and recognition. Read on…Sometimes you feel like you're too accommodating and that others take advantage of you instead of valuing you. You want to speak your mind, advocate for yourself and have boundaries, but confrontation and conflict are scary.And to make things worse, deep down you know that if you don't start to speak up and take control of your dreams, ambitions, and wellness right now, you're likely to end up full of regrets in your older age, wondering why you allowed others to hold you back from your dreams, your passions, your potential, and your gifts. Wondering why you stayed small.You might be worrying…… 😳What if others think I am rude, aggressive, or difficult? What if they stop liking me?… 😳What if I get backlash or retaliation for saying something others don't want to hear, especially as a woman or minority?… 😒Why don't they simply recognize and value me and my work? I'm humble, my work speaks for itself!… 😖Or what if I get too emotional when I speak up? What if I say something that will hurt their feelings?On top of that, you don't know where to start and who to talk to! No wonder speaking up and advocating for yourself feels overwhelming.But luckily there are steps you can take to make it a whole lot easier. The first being...1. Learn To Be More Assertive (Without Being Seen As Aggressive Or Rude)It is time for you to be more assertive! Oh yes...Here's the good news: speaking up and standing up for your interests doesn't have to be scary or uncomfortable. It can be exciting, fun, and empowering.People get assertiveness very wrong. You can be 100% assertive and still be 100% empathetic, kind, caring, friendly, liked, considerate, colaborating, team-player, humble, and lovable.Assertive communication is the SKILL of saying anything to anyone in a RESPECTFUL and effective way that gets results. It is the opposite of aggressive communication, where you are not respectful of others, or passive communication, where you don't express yourself fully.CLICK HERE for a 30 min video training on how to be more assertive without being rude.2. Develop Speaking Up Courage StaminaImagine you magically wake up one day and feel incrediblity confident to say anything to anyone and not fear conflict or confrontation! Unfortunately, it's not going to happen that way.First you need the courage to use your voice, the confidence will come later.How do you develop courage to speak up and speak your mind unapologetically? You are in luck! I created a playlist with my top episodes to help you find more courage to speak up and manage those fears of confrontation, conflict, of hurting people's feelings, of coming across in the wrong way, ofbeing misunderstood, of being disliked, of retaliation, etc.CLICK HERE for 9 podcast episodes designed to boost your courage to speak your mind and share your beautiful voice with the world!3. Get Weekly Doses Of InspirationIf you want to change anything for better in your life, you need regular reminders, inspiration, and knowledge on that thing you want to change.That's exactly why I created a free newsletter. The Assertive Way Newsletter gives you empowering and educational content to help you stay on your speaking up and assertiveness game.Get motivated to speak up on your own terms, get more breakthroughs at work, say anything to anyone in the right way, and find your authentic voice.Why? So you can be heard and get taken seriously, feel more confident and in control, advance your dreams and your goals, have wonderful work relationships, serve better, and lead better.CLICK HERE to join the free Assertive Way email Newsletter to get inspiration, motivation, and tips to speak up assertively and respectfully.Speaking of Speaking up... Let Me Introduce Myself!Hey there 👋 I’m Ivna Curi, founder of AssertiveWay.com . We empower ambitious professionals, especially women and minorities, who feel stuck, misunderstood, or not taken seriously to advocate for themselves to get the position, recognition, and respect they deserve and to be more effective in their work and leadership. How? By developing assertiveness in a safe environment.We are for those who want to fast track their career, speak up with ease, have great work relationships, serve in higher capacity, and be happier at work.Looking for a little extra guidance? Check out these resources...1. Get this free crash course on"How to Be Assertive At Work" where you'll learn the different communication styles, the assertive body language and expressions, and more.2. Listen to the Speak Your Mind Unapologetically Podcast for tips and inspiration.3. Sign up for our Weekly Assertive Way Newsletter. We’ll get to the bottom of the speaking up conundrums that might be holding you back from a fulfilling work and career.P.S. Don’t forget to check out our free resources to help you speak up and be more assertive in a kind way...
2.
Your communication style is... Mysterious
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Your most used communication style is mysterious, friend! It means people don't always know what you're thinking even though you know what you like and want. You won't allow others to treat you like a doormat. You also don't like people to be upset with you.However, sometimes you feel guilty or resentful towards others. You often feel like others don't recognize and appreciate your work and contribution. You also feel misunderstood by others. You want to be nice and pleasant to others but not be taken advantage of.You are enigmatic and secretive because you may find it hard to express your feelings, desires, and views to other people. You don't easily reveal your true motivations and intentions to others. So others are confused and don't understand you.You'd rather avoid conflict or difficult conversations unless absolutely necessary, because it's uncomfortable and you don't like bothering other people. Speaking to higher ups can be challenging. Asking for what you want or for help is not easy. "Communication must be HOT. That's Honest, Open, and Two-way." — Dan OswaldTips to help you overcome being misunderstood by others? Read on…If communicating honestly with others feels like a whirlpool of stress and self-doubt, you’re not alone, friend. It can be overwhelming at times.You might be worrying…… 😳What if I say what I really think, and people hate me?… 😖What if my needs and views clash with my boss? They'll retaliate!… 😒What if they think I'm rude, selfish, aggressive, difficult, or inconsiderate?On top of that, you just don't know where to start and whom to talk to! No wonder speaking up openly and embracing conflict feels scary.But luckily there are steps you can take to make it a whole lot easier. The first being...1. Learn To Be More Assertive (Without Being Seen As Aggressive Or Rude)It is time for you to be more assertive! Oh yes...Here's the good news: speaking up and standing up for your interests doesn't have to be scary or uncomfortable. It can be exciting, fun, and empowering.People get assertiveness very wrong. You can be 100% assertive and still be 100% empathetic, kind, caring, friendly, liked, considerate, colaborating, team-player, humble, and lovable. And it is not confrontational! Plus it avoids conflict. Assertive communication is the SKILL of saying anything to anyone in a RESPECTFUL and effective way that gets results. It is the opposite of aggressive communication, where you are not respectful of others, or passive communication, where you don't express yourself fully.CLICK HERE for a 30 min video training on how to be more assertive without being rude.2. Develop Speaking Up Courage StaminaImagine you magically wake up one day and feel incrediblity confident to say anything to anyone and not fear conflict or confrontation! Unfortunately, it's not going to happen that way.First you need the courage to use your voice, the confidence will come later.How do you develop courage to speak up and speak your mind unapologetically? You are in luck! I created a playlist with my top episodes to help you find more courage to speak up and manage those fears of confrontation, of conflict, of hurting people's feelings, of coming across in the wrong way, of being misunderstood, of being disliked, of retaliation, etc.CLICK HERE for 9 podcast episodes designed to boost your courage to speak your mind and share your beautiful voice with the world!3. Get Weekly Doses Of InspirationIf you want to change anything for better in your life, you need regular reminders, inspiration, and knowledge on that thing you want to change.That's exactly why I created a free newsletter. The Assertive Way Newsletter gives you empowering and educational content to help you stay on your speaking up and assertiveness game.Get motivated to speak up on your own terms, get more breakthroughs at work, say anything to anyone in the right way, and find your authentic voice.Why? So you can be heard and get taken seriously, feel more confident and in control, advance your dreams and your goals, have wonderful work relationships, serve better, and lead better.CLICK HERE to join the free Assertive Way email Newsletter to get inspiration, motivation, and tips to speak up assertively and respectfully.Speaking of Speaking up... Let Me Introduce Myself!Hey there 👋 I’m Ivna Curi, founder of AssertiveWay.com . We empower ambitious professionals, especially women and minorities, who feel stuck, misunderstood, or not taken seriously to advocate for themselves to get the position, recognition, and respect they deserve and to be more effective in their work and leadership. How? By developing assertiveness in a safe environment.We are for those who want to fast track their career, speak up with ease, have great work relationships, serve in higher capacity, and be happier at work.Looking for a little extra guidance? Check out these resources...1. Get this free crash course on"How to Be Assertive At Work" where you'll learn the different communication styles, the assertive body language and expressions, and more.2. Listen to the Speak Your Mind Unapologetically Podcast for tips and inspiration.3. Sign up for our Weekly Assertive Way Newsletter. We’ll get to the bottom of the speaking up conundrums that might be holding you back from a fulfilling work and career.P.S. Don’t forget to check out our free resources to help you speak up and be more assertive in a kind way...
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Your communication style is... Daring
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Your most used communication style is daring, friend! Daring communicators are more likely to confidently say what they think and want. You exude power and even dominance. You are more competitive than others and love to win. You are fearless! You pride yourself in saying it as it is, being honest, and direct.Sometimes you feel like others don't deal very well with your daring attitude. They may not like you. Often, they avoid you when they can. You don't worry much about what others think but you know that dominance strategy is ineffective in the long run.You don't shy away from conflict and difficult conversations. You'll speak to anyone no matter how senior they are. You like to feel control over situations. Tips to help you overcome being avoided or disliked by other people to be more effective. Read on…If communicating daringly with others makes others stop liking you and start avoiding you or doing things to hurt you, you’re not alone, friend. It can be annoying at times.You might be thinking…… Why are people so sensitive to what I say?… How can I be direct and not be seen as aggressive?… Or how can I keep my strong personality and still be likable?On top of that, you just don't know where to start and whom to talk to! No wonder it's hard to change.But luckily there are steps you can take to be a liked daring communicator.Demontrate that you care by listening, validating, acknowledging, and being empathetic.Learn to say exactly what you mean in a kind way.Inspire others to action rather then dominate by power.But luckily there are steps you can take to make it a whole lot easier. The first being...1. Learn To Be More Assertive (Without Being Seen As Aggressive Or Rude)You can be 100% direct, edgy, and assertive and at the same time be 100% empathetic, kind, caring, considerate, respectful and be respected by others.Assertive communication is the SKILL of saying anything to anyone in a RESPECTFUL and effective way that gets results. It is the opposite of aggressive communication, where you are not respectful of others, or passive communication, where you don't express yourself fully.👉🏼CLICK HERE for a 30 min video training on how to be more assertive without being rude.2. Keep LearningListen to Speak Your Mind Unapologetically podcast to get deep insight on how to be more assertive in an effective, kind and respectful way.👉🏼CLICK HERE to listen to Speak You Mind Unapologetically Podcast Episodes.3. Get Weekly Doses Of InspirationIf you want to change anything for better in your life, you need regular reminders, inspiration, and knowledge on that thing you want to change.That's exactly why I created a free newsletter. The Assertive Way Newsletter gives you empowering and educational content to help you stay on your speaking up and assertiveness game.Get motivated to speak up on your own terms, get more breakthroughs at work, say anything to anyone in the right way, and find your authentic voice.Why? So you can be heard and get taken seriously, feel more confident and in control, advance your dreams and your goals, have wonderful work relationships, serve better, and lead better, and get more done.👉🏼CLICK HERE to join the free Assertive Way email Newsletter and get inspiration, motivation, and tips to speak up assertively and respectfully.Speaking of Speaking Up... Let Me Introduce Myself!Hey there 👋 I’m Ivna Curi, founder of AssertiveWay.com . We empower ambitious professionals, especially women and minorities, who feel stuck, misunderstood, or not taken seriously to advocate for themselves to get the position, recognition, and respect they deserve and to be more effective in their work and leadership. How? By developing assertiveness in a safe environment.We are for those who want to fast track their career, speak up with ease, have great work relationships, serve in higher capacity, and be happier at work.Looking for a little extra guidance? Check out these resources...1. Get this free crash course on"How to Be Assertive At Work" where you'll learn the different communication styles, the assertive body language and expressions, and more.2. Listen to the Speak Your Mind Unapologetically Podcast for tips and inspiration.3. Sign up for our Weekly Assertive Way Newsletter. We’ll get to the bottom of the speaking up conundrums that might be holding you back from a fulfilling work and career.P.S. Don’t forget to check out our free resources to help you speak up and be more assertive in a kind way...
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Your communication style is... Intentional
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Your most used communication style is intentional, friend! It means you tend to communicate with purpose. You are clear on what you want to say. You are honest and at the same time are considerate, caring, and respectful towards others. People trust you because you are authentic. People like you because you allow your true personality to shine.You embrace conflict or difficult conversations even if it's uncomfortable because you know it's how things will get better. You have a growth mindset and don't hesitate in asking for help. You are confident, candid, and caring!“Why fit in when you were born to stand out?" - Dr. SeussTips to help you get even better in communicating confidently. Read on…You are already communicating quite well and with confidence. Now, you can master it so that you can magnify your impact and fast-track your career!There are steps you can take to fine-tune your communication style and multiply your impact. Align your non-verbals with your language.Remove language that makes you seem less credible or less competent.Show empathy, kindness, and compassion in your tough communication without detracting from your message.Here are some ways you can start multipling your impact. The first being...1. Learn To Be More Assertive (Without Being Seen As Aggressive Or Rude)Develop your assertive communication skills! You can be 100% assertive and still be 100% kind and respectful. Assertive communication is the SKILL of saying anything to anyone in a RESPECTFUL and effective way that gets results. It is the opposite of aggressive communication, where you are not respectful of others, or passive communication, where you don't express yourself fully.CLICK HERE for a 30 min video training on how to be more assertive without being rude.2. Keep LearningListen to Speak Your Mind Unapologetically podcast to get deep insight on how to be more assertive in an effective, kind and compassionate way.CLICK HERE to listen to Speak You Mind Unapologetically Podcast Episodes.3. Get Weekly Doses Of InspirationGet regular reminders, inspiration, and knowledge on assertive communication through our email newsletter. The Assertive Way Newsletter gives you empowering and educational content to help you stay on your speaking up and assertiveness game.Get motivated to speak up on your own terms, get more breakthroughs at work, say anything to anyone in the right way, and find your authentic voice.Why? So you can be heard and get taken seriously, feel more confident and in control, advance your dreams and your goals, have wonderful work relationships, serve better, and lead better.CLICK HERE to join the free Assertive Way email Newsletter to get inspiration, motivation, and tips to speak up assertively and respectfully.Speaking of Speaking up... Let Me Introduce Myself!Hey there 👋 I’m Ivna Curi, founder of AssertiveWay.com . We empower ambitious professionals, especially women and minorities, who feel stuck, misunderstood, or not taken seriously to advocate for themselves to get the position, recognition, and respect they deserve and to be more effective in their work and leadership. How? By developing assertiveness in a safe environment.We are for those who want to fast track their career, speak up with ease, have great work relationships, serve in higher capacity, and be happier at work.Looking for a little extra guidance? Check out these resources...1. Get this free crash course on"How to Be Assertive At Work" where you'll learn the different communication styles, the assertive body language and expressions, and more.2. Listen to the Speak Your Mind Unapologetically Podcast for tips and inspiration.3. Sign up for our Weekly Assertive Way Newsletter. We’ll get to the bottom of the speaking up conundrums that might be holding you back from a fulfilling work and career.P.S. Don’t forget to check out our free resources to help you speak up and be more assertive in a kind way...

Is your communication style hurting your career?

Take this quick quiz to uncover your main communication style, if it is hurting the career success you deserve, and get easy steps to get you back on fast-track mode! Answer what you would actually do, not what you think you should do.

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Quiz Outcomes