Why do you keep repeating the same patterns in love?

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Quiz Questions

1.
What is love?
- A.
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  Love is a vibe, an idea, a possibility of two individuals forming something greater than themselves.
- B.
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  Love is an explosion of feeling, here and now, never the same, a great adventure.
- C.
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  Love is chemistry.
- D.
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  Love is what it's always been: two people sticking together through thick and thin.
2.
"If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together." (African proverb) Which do you resonate with more/first?
- A.
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  autonomy; independence; pragmatism
- B.
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  cooperation; interdependence; affiliation
3.
When thinking about people and the world, are you more likely to focus on
- A.
  motives; why people do things; what underlying purpose is driving the person or situation
- B.
  structures; how things are organized; what underlying methods or rules govern the system
4.
Which of the following comes easiest to you?
- A.
  empathizing, harmonizing, helping others find their passion
- B.
  analyzing, explaining contingencies, mobilizing action
- C.
  providing support, making things easy for others, examining and maintaining standards
- D.
  reading the room, knowing what to do next, putting out fires
5.
What kind of wedding did you envision as a teenager?
- A.
  Unique - Customized, personal touches, really "you"
- B.
  City Hall - Simple, smart, efficient
- C.
  Church - Traditional, creating memories, celebrating the bonding of your families
- D.
  Location - Fun, exciting, colorful, unpredictable
6.
Which of these sets of values are most important to you?
- A.
  Authenticity, self-actualization, empathy, ethics, morality
- B.
  Responsibility, duty, regulations, usefulness, group relationships
- C.
  Variety, action, adventure, stimulation, skill
- D.
  Expertise, logical consistency, research, progress
7.
What stresses you the most?
- A.
  powerlessness & incompetence
- B.
  insincerity & betrayal
- C.
  boredom & constraints
- D.
  abandonment & instability
8.
Which of these would be your "couples goals?"
- A.
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  Loving and idealistic like Barack and Michelle Obama
- B.
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  Rational and mentally stimulating like Sherlock & Watson
- C.
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  Loyal and steadfast like Tom Hanks & Rita Wilson
- D.
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  Fun and spontaneous like Chrissy Teigen & John Legend
9.
If you could magically fix one thing about your relationship, what would it be?
- A.
  We need to learn how to communicate more effectively
- B.
  We need to stop having the same arguments
- C.
  We need to get on the same page in the bedroom
- D.
  We need to figure out how to support both our career goals
- E.
  Nothing, everything's pretty great
- F.
  Honestly, I wonder sometimes if my own insecurities and baggage are getting in the way and sabotaging a generally good thing

Quiz Outcomes

1.
You're a... Catalyst™
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OverviewAs a Catalyst(TM), your friends know you as a people person who always makes them feel good. You're a great champion and cheerleader, and you have an ideal image of how people and things should be. You have a tendency to take things personally, and try to avoid conflict, or at least strive to find common ground. Your friends would describe you as idealistic, friendly, and sometimes too giving in relationships. You may struggle to not lose yourself in your relationships, while also working on your life's vision and balancing career, friends, and family. You don't want to waste time on people who seem fake, and you're inspired by authenticity and people who live their truth.Ultimately, you're in search of a purposeful life and a loving relationship, where you can work towards your ideal.More Resources: This quiz is a quick taste of how your Essential Motivator(TM) style shows up in relationships. The reality is, you are much more complicated and unique - and so are your partners. If you would like to learn more about how to use these Type insights to find a new love, rekindle a spark, or finally learn to really love yourself, here are two free ways to go deeper:Subscribe to my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@dorisfullgrabe Sign up for my newsletter (below). PS: I've made a self-discovery video available on my website, where I take you through this model in much greater depth to really get at your "why" and hidden talents, as well as the Interaction Styles(TM) model, to better understand your "how" and your energies. Taken together, the two models have helped many of my clients arrive at their best-fit 4-letter Type in an organic way. It's only $47 for now, and you can access it here: http://www.dorisfullgrabe.com/your-core-type
2.
You're a... Theorist™
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As a Theorist(TM), your friends know you as a smart and fair person who can explain to them how the world works. You may get lost in the weeds or comes across as a little oblivious sometimes, but you love to think things through in great detail. You have a tendency to seem brusque or critiquing, but your intention is usually to provide a logical analysis and suggestions for improvement. Your colleagues would probably describe you as the strategic analyst and organizer in the team. You may struggle to find a way to be vulnerable or show emotion, while also balancing your need for competence. You don't want to waste time on a relationship that is a poor fit long-term, and you're inspired by intelligent and creative problem-solvers. Ultimately, you're in search of a mentally stimulating life and relationship, where you can continue to learn and play. More Resources: This quiz is a quick taste of how your personality type shows up in relationships. The reality is, you are much more complicated and unique - and so are your partners. If you would like to learn more about how to use these Type insights to find a new love, rekindle a spark, or finally learn to really love yourself, here are two free ways to go deeper:Subscribe to my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@dorisfullgrabe Sign up for my newsletter (below). PS: I've made a self-discovery video available on my website, where I take you through this model in much greater depth to really get at your "why" and hidden talents, as well as the Interaction Styles(TM) model, to better understand your "how" and your energies. Taken together, the two models have helped many of my clients arrive at their best-fit 4-letter Type in an organic way. It's only $47 for now, and you can access it here: http://www.dorisfullgrabe.com/your-core-type
3.
You're a... Stabilizer™
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As a Stabilizer(TM), your friends know you as a reliable person they can always count on. You are a generous host, and don't shy away from taking on responsibility. You have a tendency to avoid risk, and always makes sure to check for effectiveness and efficiency. Your friends and family would probably describe you as organized and loyal; the glue that keeps them together. You may struggle to find a way to be open to new, unknown things, while also balancing tradition. You don't want to waste time or resources, and you're inspired by people with common sense who've pulled themselves up by their bootstraps. Ultimately, you're in search of a good life and a stable relationship, where you can take care of others and truly belong.More Resources: This quiz is a quick taste of how your personality type shows up in relationships. The reality is, you are much more complicated and unique - and so are your partners. If you would like to learn more about how to use these Type insights to find a new love, rekindle a spark, or finally learn to really love yourself, here are two free ways to go deeper:Subscribe to my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@dorisfullgrabe Sign up for my newsletter (below). PS: I've made a self-discovery video available on my website, where I take you through this model in much greater depth to really get at your "why" and hidden talents, as well as the Interaction Styles(TM) model, to better understand your "how" and your energies. Taken together, the two models have helped many of my clients arrive at their best-fit 4-letter Type in an organic way. It's only $47 for now, and you can access it here: http://www.dorisfullgrabe.com/your-core-type
4.
You're an... Improviser™
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As an Improviser(TM), your friends know you as the fun firecracker who can fix a tire or belt out a song at the drop of a hat. You frequently love to shake things up, and need space and freedom to do things. You have a tendency to be a social butterfly, love variety, and don't mind being the center of attention. Your friends would probably describe you as the life of the party, and the person they'll call in a crisis, because you know what to do next.You may struggle to find a way to sit still for very long, while also balancing repetitive demands or rigid structures. You don't want to waste time on anyone boring, and you admire people who are great at what they do, and do it with style. Ultimately, you're in search of a life where you have an impact, and a passionate relationship, where you never know what could happen next.More Resources: This quiz is a quick taste of how your personality type shows up in relationships. The reality is, you are much more complicated and unique - and so are your partners. If you would like to learn more about how to use these Type insights to find a new love, rekindle a spark, or finally learn to really love yourself, here are two free ways to go deeper:Subscribe to my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@dorisfullgrabe Sign up for my newsletter (below). PS: I've made a self-discovery video available on my website, where I take you through this model in much greater depth to really get at your "why" and hidden talents, as well as the Interaction Styles(TM) model, to better understand your "how" and your energies. Taken together, the two models have helped many of my clients arrive at their best-fit 4-letter Type in an organic way. It's only $47 for now, and you can access it here: http://www.dorisfullgrabe.com/your-core-type

Why do you keep repeating the same patterns in love?

Even when you know better. A mirror for the patterns that keep showing up, and what they're actually telling you.

Quiz Questions

Quiz Outcomes