Should You Elope?

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Quiz Questions

1.
Would you consider yourself an introvert or an extrovert?
- A.
  
  Introvert!
- B.
  
  Extrovert!
2.
How do you feel about tradition, in general?
- A.
  
  Traditions are beautiful ways to pass down experiences through generations. I love them!
- B.
  
  There are some traditions I really love and cherish, and others that I can totally do without.
- C.
  
  I'm not really into traditions.
3.
Do you enjoy being in the spotlight?
- A.
  
  I thrive in the spotlight! It's where I shine.
- B.
  
  I don't shy away from the spotlight when I deserve to be there, but I don't necessarily seek it out, either.
- C.
  
  Being the center of attention is a deeply uncomfortable experience for me.
4.
You've just gotten a big bonus ($$$) at work, and you're not allowed to spend it on bills or put it into savings. How will you spend it?
- A.
  
  Travel! Or a nice dinner out! Or maybe Hamilton tickets?!
- B.
  
  I'm going to buy something really nice for myself or a loved one! Like a nice new coat, or a new phone, or that bag I've been eyeing but haven't let myself hit that "buy now" button!
5.
When thinking about your wedding planning process so far, what has been the biggest limiting factor?
- A.
  
  We've got champagne dreams and a seltzer water budget.
- B.
  
  Our family and friends seem to think this is THEIR wedding...
- C.
  
  Family drama. Enough said.
- D.
  
  Finding vendors who understand our vision.
6.
How attached are you to things going according to plan?
- A.
  
  I am pretty "go with the flow."
- B.
  
  I am a big planner, and things not going according to plan is a serious source of stress for me.
- C.
  
  I like to have a plan, but am adaptable.
7.
Which do you generally value more?
- A.
  
  Experiences
- B.
  
  Posessions
8.
Which set of words best describes your dream wedding?
- A.
  
  stress-free, intentional, memorable, exciting, unconventional, unique, intimate, adventurous
- B.
  
  a party, luxurious, grand, stylish, impressive, a whirlwind, traditional
9.
Which of these best describes the way you think about eloping?
- A.
  
  Eloping is a "Plan B" for when circumstances keep you from being able to have a real wedding. It's an easy way to keep costs down. Eloping requires making some sort of sacrifice.
- B.
  
  Eloping is a different way of celebrating a marriage. It is curated and intentional and personal. It is smaller and more intimate by design, not out of necessity.
10.
How close are you with your extended family?
- A.
  
  We're a very tight-knit family, and even my more distant relatives are very important to me.
- B.
  
  I don't have a very close relationship with most of my extended family.
- C.
  
  I'm very close with my extended family, but that's really only a few people. There aren't very many of us!
11.
Is eloping actually what you WANT to do, deep down?
- A.
  
  Yes
- B.
  
  No
- C.
  
  I don't know

Quiz Outcomes

1.

Yes! Eloping could be a great option for you!

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You're ready to shake off the weight of the centuries of rules and expectations that surround planning your wedding and have a day that truly celebrates you and your partner, and the promises you're making to each other!Get out there, adventurer! I can't wait to see what you dream up!
2.

A Small, Intimate Wedding Might Be More Your Speed!

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You want your wedding to be personal and relaxed, but having all of your loved ones there and incorporating your favorite wedding day traditions is important to you, and that's awesome!You fall somewhere in between wanting to elope and wanting to have a bigger wedding, which means that you have the opportunity to take the pieces that you love about each and carefully craft a celebration that's perfect for you!
3.

No. Eloping Is Probably Not The Best Option For You.

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You've probably been dreaming about your perfect wedding day since you were a kid and want the big, beautiful celebration with all of your family and friends. All of the rich traditions that come with planning a wedding are exciting to you, and the idea of missing out on those things makes you feel a little sad. A lot of folks consider eloping because of concerns about their budget or timing. Others have complicated family situations that would make planning a big celebration, well, complicated. Whatever your reason for considering eloping, I am proud of you for considering all of your options, but I encourage you to take a good look at what will truly make you happy.You should have NO regrets about your wedding day, and if what your heart really wants is a big wedding, you may always feel that you missed out on something if you decide to elope. If you're still on the fence, it would be my pleasure to hop on a call or FaceTime with you and help you think through your options. I have been to hundreds of weddings, both big and small, and might be able to provide some insight into your decision. Seriously! Send me an email and let's schedule a call! My mission is to help couples have the wedding day that is right for them, whether that means I'm the right photographer for them or not.