Your desire is to settle down with the love of your life and live happily ever after in an emotionally and sexually exclusive relationship. You are pretty clear about what works for you and what doesn't in your intimate life. Social norms around sex and relationships fit you just fine, which takes a lot of the guesswork and drama out of your intimate life. Your challenge for your sex & relationships is to keep the novelty alive by continuing to explore new things and committing to practices that help you and your partner deepen in emotional intimacy. Keep investing in yourself, your hobbies and your friendships just as much as you invest in your romantic relationship. This can prevent codependence and help maintain an element of "mystery" to keep desire alive. If you or you and your partner could use private support with your intimate life, apply for sex & relationship coaching with Janel.