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You have anxious attachment style!
You love to be very close to your romantic partners and have the capacity for great intimacy. You often fear, however, that your partner does not wish to be as close as you would like him/her to be. Relationships tend to consume a large part of your emotional energy. You tend to be very sensitive to small fluctuations in your partner’s moods and actions, and although your senses are often accurate, you take your partner’s behaviors too personally. You experience a lot of negative emotions within the relationship and get easily upset. As a result, you tend to act out and say things you later regret. You may feel unable to leave toxic relationships believing that things will change and justifying their behaviors.If the other person provides a lot of security and reassurance, however, you are able to shed your worries and be the most loving partner.“We accept the love we think we deserve.”~Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower” Here are some personalized tips based on your attachment style:1. Acknowledge and communicate your needs in a clear, direct way. I will give an example. In order to get your partner's attention, you may act unapproachable, threatening to leave, or acting hostile. Instead of meeting your need to be seen indirectly, you can find a different way how to communicate it directly.2. Read red flags and rule out avoidant types. Some of those red flags include mixed messages, withdrawing, avoiding commitment. Your type flourishes the most with mature and secure partners. Ask yourself: Is this person emotionally available? Is he/she ready to commit? What are my non-negotiable priorities and needs when it comes to relationships? Is he/she able to meet my emotional needs?3. Embrace your authentic self. Instead of thinking about how you need to mold yourself in order to please your partner, remain true to yourself.4. Face your fears around relationships. This will require some deeper inner child work and potential trauma release. Hi, I’m Kamila! ✨My passion is to help others to release what weighs them down so that they can live more fulfilling, authentic, and liberated lives.Through releasing my unprocessed emotions, traumas and reprogramming my beliefs, I experienced a tremendous shift that resulted in a greater sense of liberation. In order to achieve this, I had to draw upon a variety of tools. I now share these tools in my work with others. You don’t have to wait for anything outside of you to change. All you need is a willingness, guidance and clear intention. There’s nothing more fulfilling for me than seeing transformation in my clients when they set themselves free!Here are 3 ways how I can help you to set yourself free:1. Check my latest articles.2. Get inspired on my Facebook page.3. Hop on a free 20-30 minute call with me. We can discuss together what weighs you down and I can give you quick tips on how to break free and move forward.
