If I feel someone I have been just recently seeing pull away from me, I typically...
A.
Get anxious and "chase" them
B.
Get busy doing something else and give them space.
C.
Feel scorned and forget them....next!
3.
I feel attractive.
A.
Often
B.
Sometimes
C.
Rarely
4.
I am worthy of love and loveable.
A.
Agree
B.
Neutral
C.
Disagree
5.
I am a good person with a lot to offer in a relationship.
A.
Agree
B.
Neutral
C.
Disagree
6.
All the good men/women are taken.
A.
Agree
B.
Neutral
C.
Disagree
7.
I feel naturally comfortable and safe expressing my feelings and needs to loved ones.
A.
Often
B.
Sometimes
C.
Rarely
8.
I feel very upset when others infringe on my need for space or time alone.
A.
Often
B.
Sometimes
C.
Rarely
9.
I am very attuned to others' needs and often put them before my own and resent it later.
A.
Often
B.
Sometimes
C.
Rarely
10.
I am effective at compromising and communicating.
A.
Often
B.
Sometimes
C.
Rarely
11.
It is very difficult for me to set boundaries unless I am angry. I can sometimes set excessive boundaries and push people away too dramatically out of anger.
A.
Often
B.
Sometimes
C.
Rarely
12.
If I notice my partner showing any signs of coldness, I panic and want to get closer as quickly as possible. This often happens to me in friendships as well.
