What’s your level of emotional intelligence?

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Quiz Questions

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Today is going all kinds of wrong — you spilled your $5 cappuccino on your dress as you sit down for a business meeting... How do you deal?

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  I go straight to the restroom with a quick apology and take 3 deep belly breaths as I clean up as much as I can — a bit of spilled espresso isn't going to ruin my day!
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  I try to repress my frustration but still feel totally frazzled. Why does telling myself to get a grip backfire everytime?
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  I can’t stop reprimanding myself... Ugh, why can’t I get anything right? Sometimes I feel totally incapable and beat myself up for three days!
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From 1-10, how well do you typically get along with others?

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  1-4 — I’m not much of a people person. It’s easier for me to keep to myself. When I do socialize, it often ends in anxiety and frustration.
- B.
  
  5-7 — I love chatting up a storm with friends and family. Sometimes I let my emotions get the best of me, but usually I'm easy to communicate with.
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  8 — 10 I speak my mind without coming off too domineering. I’m comfortable expressing myself + am an awesome listener. I get along with just about everyone!
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What question do you ask yourself the most?

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  What’s wrong with me — I feel exhausted... And I've barely accomplished anything today.
- B.
  
  What can I do to find peace and reduce the overwhelm I feel almost all of the time?
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  Did she take what I said the wrong way? I hope she wasn't offended...
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I realize I just said the wrong thing in an important business meeting. How do you react?
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  I nod my head, and keep a straight face, and pretend it didn't happen.
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  I have to bite back my tears. I feel terrible that I’ve let myself down — I always seem to blow it!
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  I ask her what she thinks. I’m not about to let it affect my positive self-image.
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What song best suits your self-image?

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  Crazy in Love - Beyoncé
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  Hot n' Cold - Katy Perry
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  Love is a Losing Game - Amy Winehouse
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Which of the following best describes your current reality most days?

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  I’m happiest in the morning, but as the day goes on I begin to feel drained. People ask so much of me, and I’m not great at saying ‘no.’
- B.
  
  Usually I’m in a pretty good mood, I try not to take on more than I can manage. I know what it feels like to get burned out and I’m so not about that life…
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  I’m calm and collected. I have a great sense of what I need and am assertive enough to ask for help when the time comes.
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Let’s talk boundaries — got any?
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  Sometimes it’s hard to turn things down, but I’m not going to be happy if I’m exhausted…
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  I love a boundary. If something drains me, it’s not happening.
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  I don’t feel confident saying no…I hate disappointing people.
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You crack open a fortune cookie... What message do you get?

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  You deserve some serious rest and recuperation — give yourself a break!
- B.
  
  You NEED to apologize for that silly mistake you made a decade ago...
- C.
  
  Keep doing what brings you happiness and trust that good will come.
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You can tell what someone is feeling without him/her saying a word.
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  True
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  False
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Your friends are in a fight. How do you handle the situation?
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  Find me in the kitchen fixing a drink — I don’t touch conflict with a 10 foot pole.
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  It’s hard for me to stay on the sidelines… I tend to get too involved.
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  I’m the deescalation royalty. I’m helping them talk through their feelings and find a resolution!

Quiz Outcomes

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Your emotional intelligence is… starting to transform you!

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Sweet Friend, you may have trouble believing this, but you’ve got a lot going for you! You are admired for who you are and how much you have to offer! Yet, no matter what they say to praise you... you don’t 100% trust your own gifts...How do the limiting beliefs affect your current success? People don't by products and services, they buy you! Could low self-esteem be impacting you and your business? You’re likely reluctant to dole out constructive criticism. And when someone questions your actions, you’re quick to jump on the defensive.Boundaries are a bit of a sore spot, too. You’re sometimes afraid to say ‘no’ even when it’s in your best interest. Plus negative emotions tend to freak you out… Luckily, there’s a clear path forward!“You have been criticizing yourself for years, and it hasn't worked, now has it? Try seeing your self the way God sees you and see what happens.” — Lori RaupeReady to boost your emotional intelligence? Try these 3 strategies...1. Make positivity a daily practice! A little bit of optimism goes a long way, friend. Whether it’s gratitude journaling or meditating on God's word, find an activity that lifts you up and do it on the regular.2. Choose a growth mindset. Instead of seeing failure as a dead-end, view it as an opportunity to learn. Your mind is forever expanding. Just because you didn’t do so well at a task doesn’t mean you can’t — with a bit of practice — win big!3. Put on your best smile! Smiling boosts your mood. It also boosts the moods of everyone around you. By smiling, you show that you’re approachable and ready to engage.4. Work with a Certified Life Coach! Life Strategies can change the way you look at yourself and heal your heart. This is the filter in which you see the world. A Life strategist can help you find blind spots and shine the light on them in a kind and gentle environment. Hello, friend! I’m Lori Raupe ✨I’m a life strategist that helps women with a Godly holistic approach to achieving life harmony. — women just like you — become a better version of themselves! AND achieve more!In 1998, my daughter Jennifer died after an accident, my marriage fell apart, and just a few years later my home with all of my possessions burned in the California Cedar fire. I felt hopeless...It was at this time that I knew I needed to live a more authentic life and be true to myself. When all had been stripped away I looked myself in the mirror and I didn’t like what I saw. Then I heard my longtime mentor, John Maxwell, say something that resonated to the core of my being when he said, “I want to make a difference, with people who want to make a difference.” This became my quest over the next 20+ years now... I do that by helping women find their passion, using their personality strengths, talents, and experiences to do something that makes a difference in their world! And when we discover heart wounds we work together to heal them. My favorite thing about coaching is watching my clients’ lives flourish in unexpected ways after they discover their passion, heal their hearts from past heart wounds, and finding their authentic selves. Even if you’re not 100% there for yourself, I’ve got your back.Check out these AMAZING resources to develop your emotional intelligence.Look for and Subscribe to my soon to be released: Life Strategies for Life Harmony PODCAST Trust me, I will add value to you each week with experts in their field and stories from the experiences that have taught me how to achieve life harmony. You’re going to learn a lot along the way!Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, and Clubhouse. I'll have ideas to help you live the authentic and abundant God has waiting for you and you become a better version of yourself. Grab one of my books here on Amazon.com AND I’ve got you covered!GRAB MY FREE GIFT CLICK BELOW Get OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE!Plus expect to see me in your inbox with transformational tips ✨
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Your emotional intelligence is… the core to your transformation!

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Sweet Friend, you know you’ve got a lot going for you! You are admired for who you are and how much you have to offer! Yet, no matter what they say to praise you still sometimes don't buy it... How do we get to the core of achieving more success? People don't by products and services, they buy you! Even those with good self-esteem can still have blindspots. Is this impacting you and your business? Boundaries are a bit of a sore spot, too. You can say "no" sometimes but you also beat yourself up afterward. Plus negative emotions can tend to freak you out… Luckily, there’s a clear path forward!“If you have been criticizing yourself for years, and it hasn't worked try seeing yourself the way God sees you and see what happens.” Lori RaupeReady to boost your emotional intelligence? Try these 3 strategies...1. Make positivity a daily practice! A little bit of optimism goes a long way, friend. Whether it’s gratitude journaling or meditating on God's word, find an activity that lifts you up and do it on the regular.2. Choose a growth mindset. Instead of seeing failure as a dead-end, view it as an opportunity to learn. Your mind is forever expanding. Just because you didn’t do so well at a task doesn’t mean you can’t — with a bit of practice — win big!3. Put on your best smile! Smiling boosts your mood. It also boosts the moods of everyone around you. By smiling, you show that you’re approachable and ready to engage.4. Work with a Certified Life Coach! Life Strategies can change the way you look at yourself and the filter in which you see the world. A Life strategist can help you find blind spots and shine the light on them in a kind and gentle environment. Hello, friend! I’m Lori Raupe ✨I’m a life strategist that helps women with a Godly holistic approach to achieving life harmony — women just like you — become a better version of themselves! AND achieve more!In 1998, my daughter Jennifer died after an accident, my marriage fell apart, and just a few years later my home with all of my possessions burned in the California Cedar fire. It was at this time that I knew I needed to live a more authentic life. When all had been stripped away I looked myself in the mirror and I didn’t like what I saw. Then I heard my longtime mentor, John Maxwell, say something that resonated to the core of my being when he said, “I want to make a difference, with people who want to make a difference.” This became my quest over the next 20 years... I do that by helping women find their passion, using their personality strengths, talents, and experiences to do something that makes a difference in their world! My favorite thing is watching my clients’ lives flourish in unexpected ways by discovering their passion, healing their hearts from past heart wounds, and finding their authentic selves. Even if you’re not 100% there for yourself, I’ve got your back.Check out these AMAZING resources to develop your emotional intelligence.Look for and Subscribe to my soon to be released: Life Strategies for Life Harmony PODCAST Trust me, I will add value to you each week with experts in their field and stories from the experiences that have taught me how to achieve life harmony. You’re going to learn a lot along the way!Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, and Clubhouse. I'll have ideas to help you live the authentic and abundant God has waiting for you and you become a better version of yourself. Grab one of my books here on Amazon.com I’ve got you covered!GRAB MY FREE GIFT CLICK BELOWHelp to Get OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE!Plus expect to see me in your inbox with transformational tips ✨
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Your emotional intelligence is… in full bloom!

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Congratulations friend, you know that taking care of yourself is a big part of taking care of everyone in your life! You express your opinions without ever coming off as pushy or threatening.Boundaries are a big ‘yes’ for you. You don’t overcommit because you know you can’t shine your brightest when worried about what others might think.Give yourself a big pat on the back! You could basically teach a class on emotional intelligence.“We plant seeds that will flower as results in our lives, so best to remove the weeds of anger, avarice, envy and doubt.” — Dorothy DayReady to boost your emotional intelligence? Try these 3 strategies...1. Make positivity a daily practice! A little bit of optimism goes a long way, friend. Whether it’s gratitude journaling or meditating, find an activity that lifts you up and do it on the regular.2. Choose a growth mindset. Instead of seeing failure as a dead-end, view it as an opportunity to learn. Your mind if forever expanding. Just because you didn’t do so well at a task doesn’t mean you can’t — with a bit of practice — win big!3. Put on your best smile! Smiling boosts your mood. It also boosts the moods of everyone around you. By smiling, you show that you’re approachable and ready to engage.4. Work with a Certified Life Coach! Life Strategies can change the way you look at yourself and the filter in which you see the world. A Life strategist can help you find blind spots and shine the light on them in a kind and gentle environment. Hello, friend! I’m Lori Raupe ✨I’m a life strategist that helps women with a Godly holistic approach to achieving life harmony — women just like you — become a better version of themselves! AND achieve more!In 1998, my daughter Jennifer died after an accident, my marriage fell apart, and just a few years later my home with all of my possessions burned in the California Cedar fire. It was at this time that I knew I needed to live a more authentic life. When all had been stripped away I looked myself in the mirror and I didn’t like what I saw. Then I heard my longtime mentor, John Maxwell, say something that resonated to the core of my being when he said, “I want to make a difference, with people who want to make a difference.” This became my quest over the next 20 years... I do that by helping women find their passion, using their personality strengths, talents, and experiences to do something that makes a difference in their world! My favorite thing is watching my clients’ lives flourish in unexpected ways by discovering their passion, healing their hearts from past heart wounds, and finding their authentic selves. Even if you’re not 100% there for yourself, I’ve got your back.Check out these AMAZING resources to develop your emotional intelligence.Look for and Subscribe to my soon to be released: Life Strategies for Life Harmony PODCAST Trust me, I will add value to you each week with experts in their field and stories from the experiences that have taught me how to achieve life harmony. You’re going to learn a lot along the way!Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, and Clubhouse. I'll have ideas to help you live the authentic and abundant God has waiting for you and you become a better version of yourself. Grab one of my books here on Amazon.com I’ve got you covered!GRAB MY FREE GIFT CLICK BELOWHelp to Get OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE!Plus expect to see me in your inbox with transformational tips ✨

What’s your level of emotional intelligence?

Find out if your emotional intelligence is helping or hindering your growth! Plus get ready for life-changing transformations — I’m going to give you tips to boost your self-awareness and become a strong, inspiring entrepreneur...

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