Are You Ready for a Serious Relationship?

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  Do you know what you want in a partner?

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  • A.
    Yes, I want someone that makes me feel secure, happy, and loved.
  • B.
    I want someone who is attractive, who I know my friends and family will be impressed by, and who is financially secure.
  • C.
    I want someone so I don't feel so alone.
• 2.
  Do you like yourself?

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  • A.
    Yes, most days. And I work hard to continue healing and elevating my sense of self-love.
  • B.
    I try and I've made some progress, but it's still hard to believe I'm truly lovable as I am.
  • C.
    Not really. I know I need to do the work to start loving myself.
• 3.
  Why do you want a relationship?

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  • A.
    For companionship and to have a partner in life.
  • B.
    To have someone to love and to love me back.
  • C.
    To have someone to make me feel good.
• 4.
  You're attracted to:

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  • A.
    The hottie at the bar who hits on you (out of all the other options!!) while you're out with friends. They’re so confident and sexy!
  • B.
    The person who has been trying to get to know you better from work. They’re cute, nice, and definitely into you!!
  • C.
    Someone you've gotten to know who treats you the way you deserve to be treated, makes you laugh, and cares about your pleasure!
• 5.
  You want Mexican food for dinner but your partner wants American. What do you do?

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    Have Mexican tonight and American next time.
  • B.
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    Try to get them to want Mexican. After all, it's way more delicious!
  • C.
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    Wonder if you're too different to be together and if you should break it off.
• 6.
  Your partner pulls away from you now and then. Do you...

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  • A.
    Text them over and over until they respond. You ask them questions, text a joke…you try not to seem too needy.
  • B.
    Let them know how you feel when they pull away, and that you need them to stop for the relationship to continue.
  • C.
    Cope with the anxiety and hurt feelings and wait for them to come back. They always do eventually.
• 7.
  You've just gotten home from a great first date. 

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  • A.
    You call your mom to tell her all about this new person you're so excited about and talk about whether to invite them to your sister's wedding in a couple of months
  • B.
    You're so excited and you really think this could be the person you want to be with. You're looking forward to the next date!
  • C.
    You get in bed, excited to watch Netflix. You're open to seeing the person again and getting to know them better
• 8.
  What kind of spouse do you want to be? 

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  • A.
    I haven't really thought about it
  • B.
    The kind that will do anything for their spouse and is married to someone who would do the same
  • C.
    The best one I can be
• 9.
  Your partner has been stressed out from work recently, and you're feeling distant. You want more attention and affection from them. What do you do?

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    You tell your partner what you need and ask for more quality time together.
  • B.
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    You tell your partner they seem stressed out a lot of the time and show them the meditation app you signed them up for. You're sure if they can find ways to manage their stress they'll be more present with you.
  • C.
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    You hope they'll be less stressed out soon so you can feel more connected. You don't want to say anything about it and add to their stress.
• 10.
  What's the thing your looking forward to the most about a relationship?

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    Someone to be there for me and help me with things.
  • B.
    Being able to share things in my life with someone.
  • C.
    Showing off my awesome partner.

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  Yes!

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  You are ready for a healthy, committed, long-term relationship! You want it all, a great partner, love, companionship, and maybe even a family. You feel a relationship will enhance your life right now and that's a big part of why you want one. Remember, a serious relationship takes time to develop, and there is no way to rush the process. Take your time getting to know potential partners, and let the closeness and connection build and strengthen as you get to know each other better. I hope this list will help you recognize the mistakes you're making, so you can get out of your own way & finally create the healthy, loving relationship you want! Do you hate Valentine's Day when you don’t have someone special to spend it with?Are you dreading this Valentine's Day because it’s the first one since you broke up with your ex?Do you hate being reminded that you’re single and don’t want to be?Introducing... The Valentines Day Self-Love Retreat I’m hosting a retreat for single women who want to spend Valentine's Day loving themselves, nurturing themselves, and getting deeply connected to themselves. ABOUT ME: I'm Caitlin Cantor, Individual, Couples & Sex Therapist, Dating Coach, Psychology Today's Modern Sex Blogger & Sought after speaker. I hope you've enjoyed this quiz! Click the link below and let's do this!
• 2.
  Almost! 

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  You're almost ready! And it's totally ok to want a serious relationship, but not to be 100% ready for one. This just means you need to do more inner work before you'll be 100% ready for that loving partnership you long for. The most important work you can do for yourself is to heal from old wounds and learn to love yourself. The more you love yourself, the more likely you are to choose a loving partner and to be able to feel loved by that person. When you don't love yourself, you're more likely to ignore red flags and to put up with less than you deserve.Remember, you are the hero of your story, and only you can do the work needed to heal. Do you hate Valentine's Day when you don’t have someone special to spend it with?Are you dreading this Valentine's Day because it’s the first one since you broke up with your ex?Do you hate being reminded that you’re single and don’t want to be?Introducing... The Valentines Day Self-Love Retreat I’m hosting a retreat for single women who want to spend Valentine's Day loving themselves, nurturing themselves, and getting deeply connected to themselves. ABOUT ME: I'm Caitlin Cantor, Individual, Couples & Sex Therapist, Dating Coach, Psychology Today's Modern Sex Blogger & Sought after speaker. I hope you've enjoyed this quiz! Click the link below and let's do this!
• 3.
  Not yet! 

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  You're definitely ready to get out there and date, but you are not quite ready for a serious relationship. That's okay! You have more work to do to love yourself, heal from old wounds, and learn important relationship skills. You're moving in the right direction, but healing and growing take time. Remember, you are more than enough as you are, and entirely worthy of love. Practice communicating your truth; your needs; your feelings. Get more comfortable setting boundaries and putting yourself first. Remember, you are the hero of your story, and only you can do the work needed to heal. Do you hate Valentine's Day when you don’t have someone special to spend it with?Are you dreading this Valentine's Day because it’s the first one since you broke up with your ex?Do you hate being reminded that you’re single and don’t want to be?Introducing... The Valentines Day Self-Love Retreat I’m hosting a retreat for single women who want to spend Valentine's Day loving themselves, nurturing themselves, and getting deeply connected to themselves. ABOUT ME: I'm Caitlin Cantor, Individual, Couples & Sex Therapist, Dating Coach, Psychology Today's Modern Sex Blogger & Sought after speaker. I hope you've enjoyed this quiz! Click the link below and let's do this!