How Healthy Is Your Marriage?

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Quiz Questions

1.
Who/What Gets the Most Attention From You?
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- A.
  My Husband
- B.
  My Kids
- C.
  My Chores (laundry, dishes, etc.)
- D.
  Myself (hey, self-care baby.)
- E.
  My Work/Employment
2.
How Do You Make Yourself a Priority?
- A.
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  I Like to Read, Take Bubble Baths, and Find Quiet Time
- B.
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  I Like to Get Out into Nature, Hike, and Feel the Sun on My Face.
- C.
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  Did Someone Say Target?! Im there.
- D.
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  Taking Care of My Family Is My Priority.
- E.
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  I Don't Have Time to Make Myself a Priority.
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  I Like to Workout, Exercise, Maybe Some Yoga.
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How Do You Deal with Conflict?
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  I Avoid It At All Costs!
- B.
  I Treat It Like Nothing Happened.
- C.
  I'm Very Confrontational.
- D.
  I Try to Have a Conversation.
4.
What Do You Want to Change About Your Husband?
- A.
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  I Wish He Would Stop Smoking/Drinking.
- B.
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  I Wish He Would Actually Put his Socks in the Laundry Basket and Dishes in the Sink.
- C.
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  I Wish He Would Spend More Time With Me.
- D.
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  Nothing. He's Perfect.
5.
How Do You Treat Sex Within Your Marriage?
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- A.
  Quickies! Who Has Time for Romance?
- B.
  I Use Sex for Reward and Withhold It As a Punishment.
- C.
  We Are Totally in Sync.
- D.
  We Take Our Time, Every Time. The Romance Will Never Die.
- E.
  What's Sex?

Quiz Outcomes

1.
Girl, we have some work to do. If I can be honest, most women are struggling with similar issues, you are not alone. Frustration, burnout, resentment is all building and you don't know how to stop it. Sound familiar?
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I get it! I used to feel disconnected from my husband, almost like we were roommates or business partners. I wanted to reignite that spark but didn't know-how. Most Women I coach ask, How can I get my husband to hear me? Understand me? Really listen to me? If this sounds like you, then I want to personally invite you to my FREE Facebook group. Click here to join.Now, without further ado, let’s break down the 5 Mistakes to Avoid In Your Marriage that this Quiz covered ...Mistake #1: I'm embarrassed to admit this but ... the dishes, the laundry, and the kids get more attention than my husband. Ask yourself, why is it more important that the laundry gets done before I spend time with my husband? Something as simple as a smile, a touch or a flirtatious kiss can make the biggest difference. This is key to a healthy marriage. We all want to feel desired and appreciated, why not show it?Mistake #2: I don't know my own value. My worth is based off of my family and my marriage.I want to make something clear. Putting yourself at the top of your priority list does not mean everyone else doesn’t matter. It’s actually quite the opposite. You can’t be the mom, wife, friend, or sister that you want to be if you choose to neglect yourself, and your needs.Mistake #3: I avoid conflict, I let a few days pass and then carry on as if nothing happened.There is a distinct difference between being demanding versus sharing your thoughts and feelings. Learning how to effectively communicate with your spouse is critical to the success of your marriage.Mistake #4: I can make him change, I just have to try harder, love him more, do more. . .Truth is, you don't have the power to change him. Read that again. It's something he has to be mentally prepared for and when he's ready, change will happen. Until then you are going to exhaust yourself trying to create the perfect environment for him to feel motivated. Then when he resists, resentment builds. Instead, I want you to think about how you can relate to him? Mistake #5: I won't have sex with him until he's apologized. I use sex as a weapon sometimes.Sex is not a weapon! A common mistake couples make is spreading themselves too thin. Truth is, when we make more time for our marriage, the relationship strengthens. Find that common ground that connects you both. It could be going for walks, snuggling on the couch, watching a movie, or having dinner together after a long day. You’ll both love the attention and you’ll feel more confident around each other. This increases your chances of letting down your guard and increase your desire to really listen to each others needs, and intimately connect.
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Girl, we have some work to do. If I can be honest, most women are struggling with similar issues, you are not alone. Frustration, burnout, resentment is all building and you don't know how to stop it. Sound familiar?
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We do SO MUCH yet we still put pressure on ourselves to do SO MUCH MORE. But then one day, we wake up and realize we’ve lost ourselves in the thick of it.If this sounds like you, then I want to personally invite you to my FREE Facebook group. Click here to join.Now, without further ado, let’s break down the 5 Mistakes to Avoid In Your Marriage that this Quiz covered ...Mistake #1: I'm embarrassed to admit this but ... the dishes, the laundry, and the kids get more attention than my husband. Ask yourself, why is it more important that the laundry gets done before I spend time with my husband? Something as simple as a smile, a touch or a flirtatious kiss can make the biggest difference. This is key to a healthy marriage. We all want to feel desired and appreciated, why not show it?Mistake #2: I don't know my own value. My worth is based off of my family and my marriage.I want to make something clear. Putting yourself at the top of your priority list does not mean everyone else doesn’t matter. It’s actually quite the opposite. You can’t be the mom, wife, friend, or sister that you want to be if you choose to neglect yourself, and your needs.Mistake #3: I avoid conflict, I let a few days pass and then carry on as if nothing happened.There is a distinct difference between being demanding versus sharing your thoughts and feelings. Learning how to effectively communicate with your spouse is critical to the success of your marriage.Mistake #4: I can make him change, I just have to try harder, love him more, do more. . .Truth is, you don't have the power to change him. Read that again. It's something he has to be mentally prepared for and when he's ready, change will happen. Until then you are going to exhaust yourself trying to create the perfect environment for him to feel motivated. Then when he resists, resentment builds. Instead, I want you to think about how you can relate to him? Mistake #5: I won't have sex with him until he's apologized. I use sex as a weapon sometimes.Sex is not a weapon! A common mistake couples make is spreading themselves too thin. Truth is, when we make more time for our marriage, the relationship strengthens. Find that common ground that connects you both. It could be going for walks, snuggling on the couch, watching a movie, or having dinner together after a long day. You’ll both love the attention and you’ll feel more confident around each other. This increases your chances of letting down your guard and increase your desire to really listen to each others needs, and intimately connect
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Girl, You two are on fire!!!!
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Let me ask you a few questions. Do you at times struggle with communication? Do you find he struggles with expressing emotions? If this sounds like you, then I want to personally invite you to my FREE Facebook group. Click here to join.Now, without further ado, let’s break down the 5 Mistakes to Avoid In Your Marriage that this Quiz covered ...Mistake #1: I'm embarrassed to admit this but ... the dishes, the laundry, and the kids get more attention than my husband. Ask yourself, why is it more important that the laundry gets done before I spend time with my husband? Something as simple as a smile, a touch or a flirtatious kiss can make the biggest difference. This is key to a healthy marriage. We all want to feel desired and appreciated, why not show it?Mistake #2: I don't know my own value. My worth is based off of my family and my marriage.I want to make something clear. Putting yourself at the top of your priority list does not mean everyone else doesn’t matter. It’s actually quite the opposite. You can’t be the mom, wife, friend, or sister that you want to be if you choose to neglect yourself, and your needs.Mistake #3: I avoid conflict, I let a few days pass and then carry on as if nothing happened.There is a distinct difference between being demanding versus sharing your thoughts and feelings. Learning how to effectively communicate with your spouse is critical to the success of your marriage.Mistake #4: I can make him change, I just have to try harder, love him more, do more. . .Truth is, you don't have the power to change him. Read that again. It's something he has to be mentally prepared for and when he's ready, change will happen. Until then you are going to exhaust yourself trying to create the perfect environment for him to feel motivated. Then when he resists, resentment builds. Instead, I want you to think about how you can relate to him? Mistake #5: I won't have sex with him until he's apologized. I use sex as a weapon sometimes.Sex is not a weapon! A common mistake couples make is spreading themselves too thin. Truth is, when we make more time for our marriage, the relationship strengthens. Find that common ground that connects you both. It could be going for walks, snuggling on the couch, watching a movie, or having dinner together after a long day. You’ll both love the attention and you’ll feel more confident around each other. This increases your chances of letting down your guard and increase your desire to really listen to each others needs, and intimately connect.