Are You Ready for a Relationship?

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Quiz Questions

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1) What qualities are most important to you in a guy that you date?
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- A.
  a. He has a decent job who can provide for me, our family, and the lifestyle that I want
- B.
  b. He loves God and has a personal relationship with Jesus, and he is committed to making a difference in this world for God’s glory
- C.
  c. He’s attractive and we have good chemistry together, and he makes me laugh
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2) Do you still have feelings for someone you used to date?
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- A.
  a. No, I’ve moved on and never think of men from my past
- B.
  b. Sort of, I hardly think of them and I feel like I’m moving on
- C.
  c. Yes, I know I need to move on but I can’t stop thinking about them
- D.
  d. Not relevant. I’ve never dated or had a boyfriend.
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3) How physical do you get with someone that you are dating?
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- A.
  a. I try and not to hook up with someone, but I end up giving in eventually
- B.
  b. I get physical - I don’t think having sex or hooking up with someone before marriage is a big deal
- C.
  c. I don’t get physical - it’s important to me to wait until we are married to have sex
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4) Would you date someone that doesn’t have a relationship with God?
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- A.
  a. No, I only date men that love Jesus
- B.
  b. It depends. I may be willing to make an exception if he has all the other qualities I’m looking for in a guy
- C.
  c. Yes, it doesn’t matter if he has a relationship with God
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5) How would you describe your purpose as a single woman?
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- A.
  a. I am tired of being single and I’m waiting to get married so my real life can start
- B.
  b. I feel content being single and am focusing on all the things God wants me to focus on around me as I trust God with my future husband
- C.
  c. I know God has a plan for me, but sometimes I struggle to see my purpose as a single woman and I’m not sure what I’m supposed to focus on in this season
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6) Have you forgiven men or ex-boyfriends that have hurt you in the past?
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  b. Yes, I’ve forgiven them and have peace about the past
- B.
  c. I’m working on forgiving them, but it's a process
- C.
  a. No, I haven't forgiven the men that hurt me
- D.
  d. Not relevant. I’ve never been hurt by men in the past.
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7) How would you describe your relationship with God?
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- A.
  a. God is my everything. I can’t wait to spend time with him each day.
- B.
  c. I believe in God, but I don’t spend much time with him
- C.
  b. I know I need to spend more time with God, but I struggle to make him a priority
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8) When it comes to confidence, how would you describe yourself?
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- A.
  a. I know God loves me, but sometimes I struggle to love myself or I struggle with comparing myself to other women around me
- B.
  b. I don’t feel worthy of love and sometimes wonder if any man will ever love me
- C.
  c. I am confident in who God created me to be, and I trust that the man that God has for me will be able to appreciate me for who I am
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9) How much do you involve God in your dating life?
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  a. I pray and seek God’s guidance as it relates to the men I should date
- B.
  b. I don’t really involve God in my dating life at all
- C.
  c. I know I should seek God’s guidance more when it comes to dating, but I typically end up dating whoever I want or dating whoever I am most attracted to
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10) If you met your future husband tomorrow, do you honestly feel ready to be in a relationship?
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- A.
  a. No, deep down I know I'm not ready
- B.
  b. Yes, I do feel ready to be in a relationship
- C.
  c. I'm not sure, that's why I'm taking this quiz :)

Quiz Outcomes

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You're not quite ready for a relationship, but don't worry girl, I'm here to help...
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No one accuses you of not livin’ it up. You’re all about the present + spending big here and now. Which makes you a lot of fun to hang with. That and that you’re probably buying a round for everyone at the bar.You’re next-level generous. You value spontaneity and aren’t afraid to bet on the long shot. Sometimes your risk-taking pays big. But more often than not you find yourself paying-up...I get it. You like the lifestyle—Power to you! BUT (forgive me for sounding like your mother) have you thought much about the future? I’m talking mortgage down payments and retirement plans, baby...Here’s the sitch. Whether or not you’re throwing stacks, you’re a badass. Your worth isn’t defined by that Gucci belt you’re sporting. And saving cash doesn’t always have to be a buzz-kill. If you can’t appreciate all you’ve got. Odds are you don’t need more.“If you live for having it all, what you have is never enough.” — Vicki RobinRead on for your personalized abundance playbook!1. Focus on the future. Does your current spending style align with your goals? Maybe you see yourself at sixty-two cruising the Mediterranean on a king-sized Yacht. Unless you’re making six-figures a year, I’d recommend double-knotting those purse strings.2. Get real with your budget. It’s homework time, friend. Breakdown what you can afford to spend on the basics: rent, groceries, and your cellphone bill. Split whatever amount is left-over between fun-money and savings. 3. Check your habits. Some daily rituals are more equitable than others. When you get so used to sipping an almond milk latte every morning that you don’t think twice before swiping your card, the expense sneaks up. I’m not saying deny yourself—Just make sure the cost is worth the gain!Who am I to tell you how to spend your dough? Funny you should ask…Hey, I’m Lexie Hamlin ✌️I’m a finance blogger from San Fran—yeah, you heard that right. And I’m about to tell you how to save + spend your way to success.After five-years waitressing at a local sports bar, I decided to switch up the game...I invested my tips in alternative energy stocks and watched my profits soar! Now I want to teach you how to do the same.Take it from me, friend. Life is too precious to sit around worrying about cash.Abundance doesn’t have to be a grind! I’m here to help you take your first steps to financial freedom. Riches aren’t for the unseen few. You deserve this. You got this. And I got you 🙌Ready To Make Bank Like A Boss? Here’re Three Sweat-Free Steps!1. Catch me crushing money misconceptions on my podcast Femme Finance — new episode every Friday, friend. From crafting a monthly budget to investing for retirement, I’ve got the scoop.2. Download my app Piggy Bank to track spending. So the price of your morning smoothie doesn’t pile-up.3. Email me to book a free fifteen minute consultation. Whatever stage you’re at on the path to big money, I can get you there faster. Whether you’re a business or just someone trying to get out of debt, I want to hear from you!Meet me in your inbox? I’m going to be sending you some emails to help you stay on track with your saving!
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Get it girl! You're almost ready for a relationship, but there's some areas you could work on...
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Not going to lie—When it comes to money, you’ve got it going on! You know when to spend and when to make for Value Village and save, baby, save.Odds are you’re balanced in most areas of life. You like to have fun, but you’re never a mess. You get annoyed, but no one has to worry about you flipping a table—What’d be the point?Moderation has always earned you more than pinching or pouring pennies. Skimping? Sometimes. Shopping sprees? Rarely. But you know better than to ever say never, right?O.K., you get it. Your money game is looking good...My big challenge for you? Dream bigger. Maybe your books only seem balanced because you’re not setting your sights high enough. You’re budgeting for a Jetta when you really want a Jaguar.“It takes as much energy to wish as it does to plan.” — Eleanor RooseveltRead On For Your Personalized Abundance Playbook!1. Grow your goals. Who convinced you that crazy wealth—I’m talking Rolex watches and trips to Dubai—is out of the cards? O.K. maybe designer bling and private planes aren’t your heart’s calling. Try asking yourself what you’ve been too scared to admit wanting.2. Get acquainted with the gig-economy. Odds are you’ve got a skill someone else is missing. I’m giving you permission (right here, right now) to capitalize on that and turn it into a new revenue stream.3. Check your habits. Some daily rituals are more equitable than others. When you get so used to sipping an almond milk latte every morning that you don’t think twice before swiping your card, the expense sneaks up. I’m not saying deny yourself—Just make sure the cost is worth the gain!Who am I to tell you how to spend your dough? Funny you should ask...Hey, I’m Lexie Hamlin ✌️I’m a finance blogger from San Fran—yeah, you heard that right. And I’m about to tell you how to save + spend your way to success.After five-years waitressing at a local sports bar, I decided to switch up the game...I invested my tips in alternative energy stocks and watched my profits soar! Now I want to teach you how to do the same.Take it from me, friend. Life is too precious to sit around worrying about cash. Abundance doesn’t have to be a grind! I’m here to help you take your first steps to financial freedom. Riches aren’t for the unseen few. You deserve this. You got this. And I got you 🙌Ready To Make Bank Like A Boss? Here’re Three Sweat-Free Steps!1. Catch me crushing money misconceptions on my podcast Femme Finance — new episode every Friday, friend. From crafting a monthly budget to investing for retirement, I’ve got the scoop.2. Download my app Piggy Bank to track spending. So the price of your morning smoothie doesn’t pile-up. 3. Email me to book a free fifteen minute consultation. Whatever stage you’re at on the path to big money, I can get you there faster. Whether you’re a business or just someone trying to get out of debt, I want to hear from you!Meet me in your inbox? I’m going to be sending you some emails to help you stay on track with your saving!
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Woohoo! You are ready for a relationship! Now, let's talk about how to navigate the dating scene...
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When it comes to cash, you cut every corner (and coupon)!Let me set the scene—you’re out at that bougie new bistro downtown. But all you order is water and the house salad. You know how much that bottle of Pinot Merlot costs. And it sure as heck ain’t $55 off the shelf!Props, friend, you’ve got amazing self-control. Your long-term financial goals are never far from mind. You’re A-O.K. denying yourself in the present if it means big pay-offs in the future...Here’s the hold-up—If you’re saving up for your dream home or retirement, fair enough. Just make sure you’re investing a lil’ in your right-now happiness, too. I know it’s hard. But treat yourself once in a while. This doesn’t have to mean a Louis Vuitton clutch or a pair of red bottoms. Maybe there's an online class you’ve been obsessing over—Pay-up (just a bit). Don’t tell your mother I said this, but sometimes spending can get you further than saving!“Not everything that can be counted counts, and not everything that counts can be counted.” — Albert EinsteinRead on for your personalized abundance playbook!1. Pull out your notebook! It’s soul-searching time, friend. Write down where you want to be in five years. What do you need to invest in to get you there? Be honest with yourself... 2. Save on the basics, sure. But spend when it counts. If you feel like you’re missing out by tightening the purse strings, loosen up.3. Put fun back in your budget. You’re not going to feel bad spending if it’s part of the masterplan! Plus—stick with me here—it’s healthy to spend on what makes you happy...C’mon, just a bit?Who am I to tell you how to spend your dough? Funny you should ask...Hey, I’m Lexie Hamlin ✌️I’m a finance blogger from San Fran—yeah, you heard that right. And I’m about to tell you how to save + spend your way to success.After five-years waitressing at a local sports bar, I decided to switch up the game...I invested my tips in alternative energy stocks and watched my profits soar! Now I want to teach you how to do the same.Take it from me, friend. Life is too precious to sit around worrying about cash. Abundance doesn’t have to be a grind! I’m here to help you take your first steps to financial freedom. Riches aren’t for the unseen few. You deserve this. You got this. And I got you 🙌Ready To Make Bank Like A Boss? Here’re Three Sweat-Free Steps!1. Catch me crushing money misconceptions on my podcast Femme Finance — new episode every Friday, friend. From crafting a monthly budget to investing for retirement, I’ve got the scoop.2. Download my app Piggy Bank to track spending. So the price of your morning smoothie doesn’t pile-up. 3. Email me to book a free fifteen minute consultation. Whatever stage you’re at on the path to big money, I can get you there faster. Whether you’re a business or just someone trying to get out of debt, I want to hear from you!Meet me in your inbox? I’m going to be sending you some emails to help you stay on track with your savings!