What is Your Self-Sabotage Story and how can you turn a thriller into a fairytale?

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  OK, let's start.. Imagine it’s 2022 and finally, the travel ban is lifted 🎉 After months of putting everyone else first - you desperately need some sun… what do you do first?

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    I’m out of here! I jump on the first plane to somewhere hot that serves margaritas - it doesn’t matter where!
  • B.
    I book a holiday.. and then I tell the family.
  • C.
    It's time to plan, check flights and holiday sites. It’s been a long time coming – we need to get this right.
  • D.
    I call a family meeting – let’s chat it through and find out what everyone's perfect holiday will be!
• 2.
  Time for some me-time. Settle down on the sofa, grab your beverage of choice, plenty of snacks and relax with a classic! Which Movie Quote is most like you?

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    Professor Marvel Never Guesses – he knows - Wizard of Oz 
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    Show me everything. I can handle myself - Alien
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    Seize the Day – Make Your Lives Extraordinary – Dead Poets Society
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    I’m not a smart man – but I know what love is – Forest Gump 
• 3.
  You're out for a meal with friends but let's just say it's not going great! The steak is cremated, the red wine corked and Serena Williams could teach these guys a thing or two about great service! Then the bill arrives. How do you react?

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  • A.
    I weigh up the good points against the bad and talk to the manager to propose a reasonable discount.
  • B.
    I demand to see the manager. I'll be paying the 50% they deserve and not a penny more.
  • C.
    I just pay the bill - I really don't want to get any of the staff in trouble.
  • D.
    Life's too short - it's not worth spoiling the evening.
• 4.
  Let’s do things...

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  • A.
    Immediately.
  • B.
    Spontaneously.
  • C.
    Harmoniously.
  • D.
    Right.
• 5.
  It's time to buy a new car. What does Honest John have to tell you to persuade you to splash the cash?

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  • A.
    The price, the model the colour and can I get it next week please?
  • B.
    That it’s the most popular family brand on the market and the most versatile.
  • C.
    That it was voted highest by others for its safety record and reliability.
  • D.
    All the above plus residual Value, Cost of Ownership, CO2 emissions, long term resale value - anything I've missed?!
• 6.
  You're feeling stuck, you're frustrated and it's time to fix that. But how do you really feel about change?

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  • A.
    I’m ready for change but I don’t know what I want.
  • B.
    I know what I want but don’t know how to do it.
  • C.
    I’m ready for change, know what I want and it's time for action. 
  • D.
    I'm not sure I'm ready for change.
• 7.
  You have worked your socks off for weeks on a new proposal at work. But your boss is less than impressed and pushes his own ideas forward. What do you do?

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  • A.
    Ermm - I tell them straight his ideas won’t work and mine will.
  • B.
    I think things through, propose a different solution and offer some better alternatives.
  • C.
    I just agree to go along with him (but anyone with half a clue can see there's no chance his ideas will work)
  • D.
    I present all the facts and data that demonstrate why my idea is the best way forward.
• 8.
  Time to celebrate 🎉 Six months have passed. You’re finally feeling unstuck and you've reclaimed your Mojo! But what has changed?

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  • A.
    I'm crystal clear on what I want.
  • B.
    I know how to say no to others’ demands (and not upset anyone).
  • C.
    I ditched the procrastinating, overthinking and I started to take action.
  • D.
    I've more confidence and really believe in myself.
  • E.
    I've built better, stronger, connections with other people - it feels great.
• 9.
  Thanks for taking the quiz - I can't wait to give you your results. If you leave your email I'll also send you a personalised strategy to get you unstuck... sound good?

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    Yes, please!
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    Show me my results!
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    I need this in my life!

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  My Way or the Highway

  MY WAY OR THE HIGH WAY! How to Alienate Your Team but at least you get the Job Done.Your answers tell me that you are likely energetic, efficient, fast paced, results driven, and think on your feet! You will be happiest when you are the one in charge and have full control over what you do, when you do it, how you do it and when you do it. These are fantastic strengths for getting things done, particularly when it comes to making changes in your life! These strengths will really work for you in situations where you don't need anyone else to achieve your outcome. But we all know that in pursuit of our goals we're going to bump up against people who are not on board with us. So what happens then?Whenever we have strengths, they come with a downside and the challenge in your case shows up when you need others to get on board with your ideas and plans. It can be really frustrating, and it seems like a waste of time to try and convince others when they don't agree. Sometimes these situations result in a clash with others, that slows you down and stops you from getting the result that you want.So how can you get the full advantage of your strengths without the downside that these strengths come with?The answer is to learn how to influence and get others on board.
• 2.
  101 Life Changing Ideas

  101 Life Changing IdeasThat' You'll Never Actually ImplementYour answers tell me that you are creative enthusiastic sociable warm and spontaneous you love interacting with others and exploring new opportunities and ideas.These strengths will really help you make to make changes in your life. In fact, you love change, and are drawn to new experiences and meeting a wide range of people.With all these strengths of course, there is a downside. The challenge for you when it comes to making changes in your life is deciding which option to pursue. Because of your openness to new ideas you may take on too many at the same time and end up being overwhelmed!So how can you use these strengths to make changes in your life without getting overwhelmed by too many options? The answer lies in getting really clear on what's most important to you.Below this video you will find an activity that will help you get really clear on your core values. You many not have realised this, but every choice you make is driven by your personal values. Do you know what yours are???Follow these steps to identify your core values. Then checking your new opportunities against these will help you to make good decisions about what to focus on.
• 3.
  How To Take Care of Everyone Else's Happiness

  How To Take Care of Everyone Else's HappinessSo you don't have to worry about yours!Your answers tell me that you are a loyal, caring, grounded and extremely good at building relationships with others. You can be counted on when you give your word and committed to following through and making sure things get done. You are happiest when others are happy and really tuned in when it comes to knowing what others need. These are great strengths when it comes to making changes in your life as you will be really good at working in a team… and we often need others when it comes to achieving our goals.With all strengths however there's a downside… and the downside in your case is that your strengths in being able to tune in to others needs means that it's often challenging to tune into your own!This might cause you to sacrifice your own goals in service of others and end up feeling resentful and frustrated. So how can you create clear boundaries for yourself in a way that doesn't upset those you care about?
• 4.
  101 Ways to Plan Your Way Out of Success

  101 Ways to Plan Your Way Out of SuccessSo you never have to take ActionYour answers tell me that you are really great at planning, thinking logically and making sure all the details are covered. You care about things being done the “right” way and consider all the details others sometimes miss.These are all great strengths when it comes to making changes in your life. You are careful about avoiding risks and making sure decisions are made with all the facts, especially when they might have longer term implications.With all strengths of course, there is a downside… and in your case your strengths in analysing and logical thinking may cause you to get stuck so far in the detail that it's hard to move forward.So how can you avoid procrastinating and take action, even when things aren’t perfect or all the information isn’t in?Below this video is a useful process for knowing when it's right to take action