Should You Tell Your Crush That You Like Them?

Quiz Questions

• 1.
   Are you a man or woman?

  • A.
    Man
  • B.
    Woman
• 2.
  How often do you talk to this person?

  • A.
    Rarely
  • B.
    Weekly
  • C.
    We talk and text pretty often
• 3.
  How do you know them?

  • A.
    We’ve been friends for a while
  • B.
    We work together or go to school together
  • C.
    I see them around from time to time
• 4.
  How much do you like them?

  • A.
    I’m enjoying the time spent with them and getting to know them
  • B.
    They are so pretty/handsome and I love looking at them
  • C.
    I’ve liked them for a long time now and my feelings keep growing
• 5.
  Do you think that they like you?

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  • A.
    Yes, their body language and the way our conversations flow seems to be a good indicator
  • B.
    Yeah, I think so. They can be a little hot and cold sometimes
  • C.
    I'm not sure
• 6.
  Have they ever told you that they like you?

  • A.
    Not directly, but I feel like they have hinted or said little things 
  • B.
    Yeah, they said they liked me before
  • C.
    We don’t really talk like that
• 7.
  What is holding you back from telling them how you feel?

  • A.
    I’m afraid of ruining our friendship
  • B.
    I’m afraid that they don’t actually like me in the way I like them
  • C.
    Not having a chance to spend time with them
• 8.
  If you told them and they rejected you, how would that change your relationship?

  • A.
    I think it would hurt things and make them awkward
  • B.
    We’re both so close that it wouldn’t be worth losing the friendship
  • C.
    Nothing would really change, we aren't that close
• 9.
  Do you see yourself with this person long term?

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  • A.
    Not really
  • B.
    It's possible
  • C.
    I can see myself marrying this person
• 10.
  Who is the person you have a crush on?

  • A.
    My teacher, boss or someone who is in another relationship
  • B.
    A friend, co-worker or neighbor
  • C.
    My best friend

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  Tell them how you feel!

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  It sounds like you have a lot of green lights going on! You seem to know each other pretty well, things seem to be going in the right direction and it seems like they like you back as well. There is a still a risk if you decide to tell them. They might like you but not see future with you. They might not want a relationship right now. Or they might not actually be attracted to you in that way. All of those are possibilities and if that happens it’s okay. It’s good to remember that there are lots of other people out there and just because things didn’t work out with this person it’s okay. If you do decide to tell them, be proud of yourself for taking a risk and putting yourself out there. That takes guts! However, there is a chance that they were just waiting for you to say something. Maybe they like you too but weren’t sure if the feelings were mutual. It could be the start of something beautiful. If so, it will defiantly be worth the risk!
• 2.
  Don't tell them

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  I doesn't seem like it would be a good idea for you to tell this person you like them. Maybe you don’t know them very well or maybe they just haven’t really shown you any signs that they might like you back. If you decide to take the risk and tell someone how you feel, you have to prepared for rejection. Sometimes, it’s smart to not take a risk if you feel like there is a good chance of rejection. Get to know this person better before making a move. You actually could scare them off if you say something too soon. Maybe after getting to know you better maybe they will realize that they do like you. Or maybe after you get to know them better, you’ll realize that you really don’t even like them as much as you thought. At this point it seems like the wise thing to do would be to not tell them anything. Get to know them better and give it some time. If it isn’t meant to be, that’s okay, there are plenty of other people out there.
• 3.
  Wait and let it happen

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  It sounds like you and this person have a pretty good relationship that is just starting to grow. You may have known them for a while or maybe they are a new friend, but you’re in a good place with this person. One of the best ways relationships can start is naturally. You might end up spending more and more time together just because you enjoy being around each other. You may realize you have common interest and similar values and goals in life. There might come a time where you are spending time together and you end up kissing or holding hands. Or maybe you end up having a conversation where you admit your feelings for one another. Yes, someone will eventually have to cross that line, but sometimes it just feels right. And maybe they will be the one to do it. The possibilities are endless on how it could happen.Give it some time. Spend time getting to know them better. You can invite them to hang out with you, go places you know they might be, ask them questions about themselves and just get to know them. See what happens and let things happen naturally. And if nothing every happens, then no biggie.