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You Seem to Be Securely Attached in Your Relationship!
Congratulations! You seem privileged to be in a securely attached relationship. Secure attachment brings you many benefits in life for your health, resiliency in the face of life's challenges, and success as a partner, parent, and community member. “We love the things we love for what they are.” — Robert FrostHere are the most securely attached responses to the quiz questions.1. When my partner comes home at the end of the day, I come close to the dog in showing how happy I am to see them.2. If I was worried about finances, and my partner made a significant purchase without consulting me, I'd invite them to share what led them to do this. Later, I'd share my financial insecurities, and ask how they'd like to support me.3. When my birthday comes around, we have a discussion about my wishes, my partner's wishes, and we make a plan to celebrate.4. If my partner were spending more and more time at work and with friends, I'd get mad, and tell them how much I need them and miss them. 5. My partner has a habit that annoys me. I ask my partner to understand my annoyance and help me better understand what's behind their habit.6. If I started to resent the amount of time and effort we were spending on my partner's family, I'd tell my partner I need more time alone together away from his family, and time together with my family too.7. My partner wants sex, but I'm not feeling into it. I tell them I'm not feeling it, and ask if they want to help me get there.Hello, 👋 I’m Lori Marchak. I'm a relationship expert in Bozeman, MT. I help couples and individuals find their way out of distress. Visit my blog for more information about relationships and mental health.