How Do You Make Choices That Matter?

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  If you were at a restaurant with friends how would you be most likely to choose what to order off the menu....

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     You know what you like and can eat so you ask questions about additions, deletions or things can be put “on the side” 
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     You offer to make the reservation for everyone  and then go online in advance to look at the menu and pick out your meal choice 
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    You order very different or original meal options you don't make at home and then try to figure out how they made it
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    You politely decline and eat at home. You  don’t want to waste your money or don’t really feel comfortable in the restaurant environment 
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    You wait until  everyone else  orders so you can hear what they choose or even ask the waiter's opinion to help you make up your mind.
• 2.
  If you are being honest about yourself you would say you are most like:

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    Although you would call yourself thorough, some might say you over think things
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    You sometimes feel like you just don't fit into groups, but changing who you are to fit in isn't your thing
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    Listening to options and opinions is second nature but it can lead to feeling overwhelmed and second guessing
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    You love to learn or try new things, but waiting for others to catch on or catch up can be exhausting
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    You are definitely not into other people's drama and prefer to keep life simple and uninvolved
• 3.
  Beside dessert, your sweetest wish is to:

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    To live out your life in peace and quiet
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    To follow your plans and live in a world you imagine
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    To believe and trust in yourself, regardless of others
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    To be creative, try new things, evolve and grow
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    To be surrounded by supportive people who have your back
• 4.
  When you have to make a choice, your greatest worry is that...

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    You'll feel regret over making the wrong decision
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    You'll have to do something that isn't authentic to who you are
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    You'll get caught up in chaos or swept away
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    You are heading into the unknown where you don't have control of the outcome
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    Complacency or making a "safe" choice because it's always been done

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
   "On the Side" Sally

  How does this fit for you?Some might call you “high maintenance” but you know what works well for you - and what doesn’t. When did “specific” become “picky”? You have put time and resources into understanding your body, your likes and dislikes and your reactions and responses to different things. Why would you put up with something if it wasn’t right for you? And once you know these things about yourself, it’s hard not to know or to act in any other way, even though people might make raise their eyebrows.Making choices that are exactly right for you is your super power.What does this mean for you when making choices around end-of-life?Hi I’m Jen Davis from Exit Matters.Life involves making a lot of choices and so can death. For us and for the people that love us. Understanding what drives us, what we find important, what matters to us can help make those difficult choices and sort through all the options.Knowing we have a "style" can really help too.Exit Matters wants to help you in thinking and talking about your own "menu options" - now in your life, during your dying process and after your death. Your style is how you decide what goes on your menu, and gives your loved ones big clues as to what you would choose.
• 2.
  "Be Prepared" Paula 

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  How does this fit for you?You have a more traditional approach to life (and food) and like to think things through in advance. Why not?Thinking through the options helps “get the juices flowing” and ensures you will be ready for what is to come. Plus it leaves more time and energy for conversation.Of course the "daily specials" may throw a wrench in the choices and give you some agonizing on the spot. Life can't be too planned, can it?Doing the research and thinking things through is your super-power.What does this mean for you when making choices around end-of-life?Hi I’m Jen Davis from Exit Matters.Life involves making a lot of choices, and so can death. For us and for the people that love us. Understanding what drives us, what we find important, what matters to us can help make those difficult choices and sort through all the options.Knowing we have a "style" can really help too.Exit Matters wants to help you in thinking and talking about your own "menu options" - now in your life, during your dying process and after your death. Your style is how you decide what goes on your menu, and gives your loved ones big clues as to what you would choose.
• 3.
  "DIY " Dyan

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  How does this fit for you?Being original or creative is something you pride yourself on. Cooking (or life) is a creative process for you. A "recipe" is just a guideline and going off the path wherever inspiration strikes is your go-to way of being.Life offers up opportunities to learn and grow, and that is a big part of what brings you joy."Winging it" when needed is your super power.What does this mean for you when making choices around end-of-life?Hi I’m Jen Davis from Exit Matters.Life involves making a lot of choices, and so can death. For us and for the people that love us. Understanding what drives us, what we find important, what matters to us can help make those difficult choices and sort through all the options.Knowing we have a "style" can really help too.Exit Matters wants to help you in thinking and talking about your own "menu options" - now in your life, during your dying process and after your death. Your style is how you decide what goes on your menu, and gives your loved ones big clues as to what you would choose.
• 4.
  "I Got This" Irene

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  How does this fit for you?You have a real practical side and going out doesn't always fit into that. Maybe you don’t have enough time, don’t want to spend your money, don’t like or need the pressure of going out. Maybe you are just happier at home. Perhaps you look at eating as more of a function then fun. Or maybe you are just someone that doesn't like drama.You are self-contained and okay with it.Being independent and "no-fuss" is your super powerWhat does this mean for you when making choices around end-of-life?Hi I’m Jen Davis from Exit Matters.Life involves making a lot of choices, and so can death. For us and for the people that love us. Understanding what drives us, what we find important, what matters to us can help make those difficult choices and sort through all the options.Knowing we have a "style" can really help too.Exit Matters wants to help you in thinking and talking about your own "menu options" - now in your life, during your dying process and after your death. Your style is how you decide what goes on your menu, and gives your loved ones big clues as to what you would choose.
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   "Flexible" Fran

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  How does this fit for you?Making menu choices can be a lot of work! Why wouldn't you want to gather all the information before you make your choice? It can help to hear what others want. And isn't the waiter the expert? Sure sometimes it can make it confusing, because it all sounds so good. Too many options can feel overwhelming.But there is that expression "two heads are better then one" so you just want to be the second head - not the first.Staying open is your super power.What does this mean for you when making choices around end-of-life?Hi I’m Jen Davis from Exit Matters.Life involves making a lot of choices, and so can death. For us and for the people that love us. Understanding what drives us, what we find important, what matters to us can help make those difficult choices and sort through all the options.Knowing we have a "style" can really help too.Exit Matters wants to help you in thinking and talking about your own "menu options" - now in your life, during your dying process and after your death. Your style is how you decide what goes on your menu, and gives your loved ones big clues as to what you would choose.