Captivating Queen or Wounded Princess What are Your Relationship Love Blocks?

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  Do you feel challenged with emotional triggers during courtship, dating or relationships?

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    Yes, I often feel anxious, avoided or emotionally reactive or not enough.
  • B.
    I'm kinda in-between.
  • C.
    No, I feel emotionally reactive I'm usually secure, calm and at peace.
• 2.
  Do you feel confident to trust?

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    Yes, I trust the courtship process. I feel confident and relaxed with men.
  • B.
    I'm kinda in-between.
  • C.
    Never! I fear getting left, look for red flags, question my judgement and feel pressure to make the relationship work on my time and my terms.
• 3.
  Do you have clarity around your love life and believe it will manifest?

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    Without a doubt I believe I will attract a compatible partner and I'm clear how to make it happen and how it will feel!
  • B.
    I'm kinda in-between.
  • C.
    I feel unsure how my love life will look in the next 5 years. I don't actually believe a good partner exists for me or how to make it happen.
• 4.
  Which describes your partner attraction mindset?

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    Optimistic, feeling highly worthy and desirable for the men I desire to be with. I enjoy courtship and meeting men.
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    I'm kind in-between.
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    I tend to have a lot of negative thoughts about men and fear I will have to settle. Don't feel I have a lot of options.
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  Are you clear on the best partners for you?

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    I feel fully confident on who are the right men for me and how to quickly and easily identify them.
  • B.
    I'm kinda in between
  • C.
    Hmm...I don't feel confident on who are the authentic right partners for me. Courtship feels like a bit of a burden. Sometimes I feel men like the idea of me and not the real me.
• 6.
  Are you clear and consistent with setting and keeping boundaries with men?

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    I feel fully clear and aligned with my values. I effortlessly set boundaries and walk away from men who push them!
  • B.
    I'm kinda in-between.
  • C.
    Men tend to push my boundaries and deep down I know I allow it. I often shrink with men in order to please them or feel loved.
• 7.
  Do you feel confident about where to meet compatible men?

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    I have a game plan men. I take consistent action and meet men I'm attracted to and feel compatible with.
  • B.
    I'm kinda in-between.
  • C.
    I feel clueless about where to meet men and not sure it will happen. I often feel burnt out, frustrated or fearful I've wasted too much time. Let's not even talk about ghosting and rejection!
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  Do you feel aligned with your ideal man?

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    Consistently meeting compatible men who see my value. They make me feel loved, desirable, and respected.
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    I'm kinda in-between. 
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    I don't feel highly worthy for the men I want. When I meet a guy I like try to prove my value.
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  Are you confident about how to court for commitment?

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    I feel clear on how to court for commitment in a way that makes me feel desired authentic, confident, and pursued.
  • B.
    I'm kinda in-between.
  • C.
    I have no clue what I'm doing. I often feel like like I'm chasing or applying pressure for commitment. Sometimes, I become exclusive with men just to hear he isn't ready for commitment.
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  Do you feel highly pursued during courtship?

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    Men are consistent, make plans for the future, and I feel confident, relaxed and feminine.
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    I'm kinda in-between.
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    I'm frustrated! Men are inconsistent and lack good communication. I feel like I do all the planning and try to control the outcome.
• 11.
  Are you comfortable with being vulnerable and creating deep connections with men?

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    I feel authentically connect with warmth and feel confident sharing uncomfortable things or feelings, along with things that bring me joy. 
  • B.
    I'm kinda in-between.
  • C.
    I struggle with communicating my feelings and truth in fear I'll push men away. I've fear opening up may lead to ghosting or abandonment.
• 12.
  Almost done...Do you find yourself in grey areas with men?

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    I understand how to navigate commitment conversations and move into commitment with ease.
  • B.
    I'm kinda in-between. 
  • C.
    I find myself in situationships or fully exclusive with men who aren't committed. I often wait for the man to end the relationship or communication, even when I'm not satisfied. 
• 13.
  One more...Are you attracting men who are ready, willing and able to commit?

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    The men I meet are ready, willing and able to commit on mutual terms, within a reasonable timeframe.
  • B.
    I'm kinda in-between.
  • C.
    The men I meet aren't ready to commit on mutual terms with long term expectations. I often give ultimatums or apply pressure which makes me feel even worse.
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  Last question...which describes you?

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    I haven't consistently courted a man past 30 days in the last 12 months.
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    I haven't consistently courted a man for 90 days WITH exclusivity in the last 12 months.
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    I've exclusively courted for at least 6 months, in the last 12 months, but experienced a breakup.

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  You’re a (drumroll, please)...             Captivating Queen of Courtship!

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  Without a doubt you're an absolute Queen of Courtship. You’re all about meeting great men and you feel confident about how to make a real love connection happen. Which makes you a lot of fun to be around and for an enchanting relationship experience. That and that you’re probably feeling like quite the bell of the ball and ready to choose your king.You are next-level feminine energy. You value quality, healthy men and aren’t afraid to bet on the long shot. Sometimes you may even risk courting men outside of your comfort zone, yet, you can still roll with the punches and value the experience even if the relationship doesn't work out. But more often than not, you find yourself attracting men who meet your relationship goals and are ready to commit...Read on for your personalized courtship playbook!1. Focus on the future. Does your current vision of love reflect your actual relationship goals? Maybe you see yourself having deep stimulating conversations with your man by a blazing fireplace. Unless you’re dangerously in love at the moment, I’d recommend continuing working on getting crystal clear on how you envision your love and family life, believing it's possible, and align your relationships with that.2. Get real with your communication. It’s homework time, friend. Breakdown what you need to work on to create deeper emotional commitments and not just shallow love connections. The basics: listening, staying on your throne, and your feminine energy. 3. Check your habits. Some daily rituals are more valuable than others. Focus on creating a captivating life that supports your Captivating Queen energy and continue pouring into your own bucket, allowing men to get the overflow.Who am I to tell you how to attract a partner? Funny you should ask…Hey, I’m Zara J. ✌️Relationship coach, author, creator of the Captivating Courtship Code and host of the Courtship Code podcast. I Teach Women How To Transform The Quality Of Their Love Life. Helping my clients grow past relationship disappointments and master how to actually navigate courtship, and attract quality men for commitment.I’m passionate about helping my clients create happy, healthy, high value love lives with ease so they can live their best life and I can’t wait to help you, too.Ready To Captivate Courtship? Here’re Three Sweat-Free Steps!1. Catch me crushing dating & courtship misconceptions on my podcast Courtship Code — new episode every Monday, beautiful. From relationship anxiety to creating a match game plan, I've got the scoop.2. Download the Be Your Own Matchmaker FREE audio Challenge. So you can start with the basics of getting clear on how to meet your match.3. Get the Captivating Courtship Code. Whatever stage you’re at on the path to courting for commitment, I can get you there faster. This call is perfect if you're on the fence about starting coaching and need some relationship clarity. Whether you’re a wounded princess or just a queen trying to inspire long term commitment faster, I want to hear from you!Meet me in your inbox? I’m going to be sending you some emails to help you captivate courtship!
• 2.
  You’re a (drumroll, please)...                Wounded Princess Journey 1

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  Not going to lie—When it comes to courtship, you’ve either got it going on or you're slightly in denial! You know enough about this love thing to attract potential partners but you're not fully clear on what you need to do differently to be your own relationship goals.Odds are you’re balanced in most areas of courtship and connection. You like to have fun with the process, but you’re never a risky mess. You get annoyed, but no one has to worry about you flipping a table—What’d be the point?Independence and logic has always earned you more than being vulnerable or following your pure heart and intuition. Emotional reactions? Sometimes. Avoid meeting men? Rarely. But you know better than to ever say you've got relationships all figured out, right?O.K., you get it. You're ready for love...My big challenge for you? Dream bigger. Maybe your love life only seems balanced because you’re not setting your vision of love clear enough. You’re settling for a Mr. Right Now when you really want a Mr. Right.“It takes as much energy to wish as it does to plan.” — Eleanor RooseveltRead on for your personalized courtship playbook!1. Focus on the future. Does your current vision of love reflect your actual relationship goals? Maybe you see yourself having deep stimulating conversations with your man by a blazing fireplace. Unless you’re dangerously in love at the moment, I’d recommend continuing working on getting crystal clear on how you envision your love and family life, believing it's possible, and align your relationships with that.2. Get real with your feminine connection and communication. It’s vulnerability time, friend. Breakdown what you need to work on to create deeper emotional connections and not just shallow love connections, along with your ability to trust your intuition. Stop being afraid to be fully seen and authentic. The basics: listening, staying on your throne, and your feminine energy. 3. Check your habits. Some daily rituals are more valuable than others. When you get so used to pouring into others and being uber independent you don’t think twice before trying to prove to a man you're wife worthy, and find yourself doing the absolute most and becoming resentful. I’m not saying be selfish—Just make sure the man is actually commitment ready! Focus on creating a captivating life that supports your Captivating Queen energy and continue pouring into your own bucket, let men get the overflow.Who am I to tell you how to attract a partner? Funny you should ask…Hey, I’m Zara J. ✌️Relationship coach, author, creator of the Captivating Courtship Code and host of the Courtship Code podcast. I Teach Women How To Transform The Quality Of Their Love Life. Helping my clients grow past relationship disappointments and master how to actually navigate courtship, and attract quality men for commitment.I’m passionate about helping my clients create happy, healthy, high value love lives with ease so they can live their best life and I can’t wait to help you, too.Ready To Captivate Courtship? Here’re Three Sweat-Free Steps!1. Catch me crushing dating & courtship misconceptions on my podcast Courtship Code — new episode every Monday, beautiful. From relationship anxiety to creating a match game plan, I've got the scoop.2. Download the Be Your Own Matchmaker FREE audio Challenge. So you can start with the basics of getting clear on how to meet your match.3. Get the Captivating Courtship Code. Whatever stage you’re at on the path to courting for commitment, I can get you there faster. This call is perfect if you're on the fence about starting coaching and need some relationship clarity. Whether you’re a wounded princess or just a queen trying to inspire long term commitment faster, I want to hear from you!Meet me in your inbox? I’m going to be sending you some emails to help you captivate courtship!
• 3.
  You’re a (drumroll, please)...                Wounded Princess Journey 2!

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  When it comes to courtship, you reject incompatible men (and feel rejected by compatible ones)!Let me set the scene—you’re out at that bougie new bistro downtown and the guy of your dreams approaches you (or slides in your DM if the bistro is your IG account). Before you know it, you're all in your head planning the wedding and baby names. You know how rare it is to meet a real life unicorn. And you sure as heck ain’t gonna miss your chance to make him yours!Props, friend, you’ve got amazing taste. Your long-term relationship goals are never far from mind. You’re A-O.K. denying incompatibility in the present if it means big pay-offs in the future with your perfect prince charming...Here’s the hold-up—If you’re attracting commitment ready men, fair enough. Just make sure you’re equally as invested in your vision of love as the men you try to convince to commit. I know it’s hard to meet the right guy. Listen, the right guy will like the real you, not just the idea of you. But trust yourself and intuition more. You want a man who sees your value, not one you have to force and pressure him to realize it. Know your authentic value. And this doesn’t have to mean a Louis Vuitton clutch or a pair of red bottoms. Maybe there's a better aligned relationship than the man you’ve been obsessing over—Ease-up (just a bit). Don’t tell the guy you have your eye on I said this, but sometimes walking away can get you further than being patient!Read on for your personalized courtship playbook!1. Focus on the future. Does your current vision of love reflect your actual relationship goals? Maybe you see yourself having deep stimulating conversations with your man by a blazing fireplace. Unless you’re dangerously in love at the moment, I’d recommend continuing working on getting crystal clear on how you envision your love and family life, believing it's possible, and align your relationships with that.2. Stop emotionally reacting. Get real with your feminine connection and communication. It’s vulnerability time, friend. Breakdown what you need to work on to create deeper emotional connections and not just shallow love connections, along with your ability to trust your intuition. Yes, you're an articulate communicator but you need to work on being an effective communicator with men. Stop being afraid to be fully seen and authentic. The basics: listening, trusting your intuition, staying on your throne, and embodying your Captivating Queen feminine energy. 3. Check your habits. Some daily rituals are more valuable than others. When you get so used to pouring into others and being uber independent you don’t think twice before trying to prove to a man you're wife worthy, and find yourself doing the absolute most and becoming resentful. I’m not saying be selfish—Just make sure the man is actually commitment ready! Focus on creating a captivating life that supports your Captivating Queen energy and continue pouring into your own bucket, let men get the overflow. 4. Quit overthinking. Laying in bed letting your worries and concerns spiral into an emotional frenzy, or going down the Google and Youtube rabbit hole trying to figure out how to get him to commit, why he didn't call back, or whatevers stressing you out won't make courtship anymore enjoyable. Stop trying to control the outcome. You need a courtship game plan that can eliminate relationship anxiety what ifs and set you up for success and what's next!Who am I to tell you how to attract a partner? Funny you should ask…Hey, I’m Zara J. ✌️Relationship coach, author, creator of the Captivating Courtship Code and host of the Courtship Code podcast. I Teach Women How To Transform The Quality Of Their Love Life. Helping my clients grow past relationship disappointments and master how to actually navigate courtship, and attract quality men for commitment.I’m passionate about helping my clients create happy, healthy, high value love lives with ease so they can live their best life and I can’t wait to help you, too.Ready To Captivate Courtship? Here’re Three Sweat-Free Steps!1. Catch me crushing dating & courtship misconceptions on my podcast Courtship Code — new episode every Monday, beautiful. From relationship anxiety to creating a match game plan, I've got the scoop.2. Download the Be Your Own Matchmaker FREE audio Challenge. So you can start with the basics of getting clear on how to meet your match.3. Get the Captivating Courtship Code. Whatever stage you’re at on the path to courting for commitment, I can get you there faster. This call is perfect if you're on the fence about starting coaching and need some relationship clarity. Whether you’re a wounded princess or just a queen trying to inspire long term commitment faster, I want to hear from you!Meet me in your inbox? I’m going to be sending you some emails to help you captivate courtship!
• 4.
  You’re a (drumroll, please)...                 Wounded Princess Journey 3!

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  When it comes to love, you feel like you've lost your way (but it's not too late)!O.K. beautiful, you’ve probably got a list of reasons why you can't attract a good man and a plethora of experiences to back-up your negative feelings about courtship that you think most cannot relate to. You truly want to protect yourself from painful experiences so you meticulously research about relationships or how to avoid certain types of men and mistakes…In a sea of fake love, you desire to be on a safe harbor!You're so focused on guarding your heart that you're not playing to win. Whether it’s learning new relationship skills or healing from past disappointments, you’ve got to start opening up your heart and get the knowledge to transform your love life with a man who deserves your inner queen.My advice? Don’t let your fear of rejection or disappointment hold you back from your actual vision of love. Try to learn more effective ways to court, create connection and communication, and make sure your support system is truly positive and encouraging your relationship goals. Single and bitter aren’t mutually exclusive, friend...Read on for your personalized courtship playbook!1. Focus on the future. Does your current vision of love reflect your actual relationship goals? Maybe you see yourself having deep stimulating conversations with your man by a blazing fireplace. Unless you’re dangerously in love at the moment, I’d recommend continuing working on getting crystal clear on how you envision your love and family life, believing it's possible, and align your relationships with that.2. Stop emotionally reacting. Get real with your feminine connection and communication. It’s vulnerability time, friend. Breakdown what you need to work on to create deeper emotional connections and not just shallow love connections, along with your ability to trust your intuition. You can't keep internalizing your experiences as a reflection of your worthiness or desirability and expect to truly feel like a Captivating Queen. Stop being afraid to be fully seen and authentic. The basics: listening, trusting your intuition, staying on your throne, and embodying your Captivating Queen feminine energy. 3. Believe in love again. If you believe it you can achieve it. But that can seem unrealistic when you haven't experienced what you desire to feel. So what do you do to reignite your belief in your relationship goals? Simple: get new relationship skills, get a positive support system, take big consistent action. You have to make your love life a priority—In the right way! 4. Quit overthinking. Laying in bed letting your worries and concerns spiral into an emotional frenzy, or going down the Google and Youtube rabbit hole trying to figure out how to get him to commit, why he didn't call back, or whatevers stressing you out won't make courtship anymore enjoyable. Stop trying to control the outcome. You need a courtship game plan that can eliminate relationship anxiety what ifs and set you up for success and what's next!Who am I to tell you how to attract a partner? Funny you should ask…Hey, I’m Zara J. ✌️Relationship coach, author, creator of the Captivating Courtship Code and host of the Courtship Code podcast. I Teach Women How To Transform The Quality Of Their Love Life. Helping my clients grow past relationship disappointments and master how to actually navigate courtship, and attract quality men for commitment.I’m passionate about helping my clients create happy, healthy, high value love lives with ease so they can live their best life and I can’t wait to help you, too.Ready To Captivate Courtship? Here’re Three Sweat-Free Steps!1. Catch me crushing dating & courtship misconceptions on my podcast Courtship Code — new episode every Monday, beautiful. From relationship anxiety to creating a match game plan, I've got the scoop.2. Download the Be Your Own Matchmaker FREE audio Challenge. So you can start with the basics of getting clear on how to meet your match.3. Get the Captivating Courtship Code. Whatever stage you’re at on the path to courting for commitment, I can get you there faster. This call is perfect if you're on the fence about starting coaching and need some relationship clarity. Whether you’re a wounded princess or just a queen trying to inspire long term commitment faster, I want to hear from you!Meet me in your inbox? I’m going to be sending you some emails to help you captivate courtship!