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You’re a (drumroll, please)... Wounded Princess Journey 2!
When it comes to courtship, you reject incompatible men (and feel rejected by compatible ones)!Let me set the scene—you’re out at that bougie new bistro downtown and the guy of your dreams approaches you (or slides in your DM if the bistro is your IG account). Before you know it, you're all in your head planning the wedding and baby names. You know how rare it is to meet a real life unicorn. And you sure as heck ain’t gonna miss your chance to make him yours!Props, friend, you’ve got amazing taste. Your long-term relationship goals are never far from mind. You’re A-O.K. denying incompatibility in the present if it means big pay-offs in the future with your perfect prince charming...Here’s the hold-up—If you’re attracting commitment ready men, fair enough. Just make sure you’re equally as invested in your vision of love as the men you try to convince to commit. I know it’s hard to meet the right guy. Listen, the right guy will like the real you, not just the idea of you. But trust yourself and intuition more. You want a man who sees your value, not one you have to force and pressure him to realize it. Know your authentic value. And this doesn’t have to mean a Louis Vuitton clutch or a pair of red bottoms. Maybe there's a better aligned relationship than the man you’ve been obsessing over—Ease-up (just a bit). Don’t tell the guy you have your eye on I said this, but sometimes walking away can get you further than being patient!Read on for your personalized courtship playbook!1. Focus on the future. Does your current vision of love reflect your actual relationship goals? Maybe you see yourself having deep stimulating conversations with your man by a blazing fireplace. Unless you’re dangerously in love at the moment, I’d recommend continuing working on getting crystal clear on how you envision your love and family life, believing it's possible, and align your relationships with that.2. Stop emotionally reacting. Get real with your feminine connection and communication. It’s vulnerability time, friend. Breakdown what you need to work on to create deeper emotional connections and not just shallow love connections, along with your ability to trust your intuition. Yes, you're an articulate communicator but you need to work on being an effective communicator with men. Stop being afraid to be fully seen and authentic. The basics: listening, trusting your intuition, staying on your throne, and embodying your Captivating Queen feminine energy. 3. Check your habits. Some daily rituals are more valuable than others. When you get so used to pouring into others and being uber independent you don’t think twice before trying to prove to a man you're wife worthy, and find yourself doing the absolute most and becoming resentful. I’m not saying be selfish—Just make sure the man is actually commitment ready! Focus on creating a captivating life that supports your Captivating Queen energy and continue pouring into your own bucket, let men get the overflow. 4. Quit overthinking. Laying in bed letting your worries and concerns spiral into an emotional frenzy, or going down the Google and Youtube rabbit hole trying to figure out how to get him to commit, why he didn't call back, or whatevers stressing you out won't make courtship anymore enjoyable. Stop trying to control the outcome. You need a courtship game plan that can eliminate relationship anxiety what ifs and set you up for success and what's next!Who am I to tell you how to attract a partner? Funny you should ask…Hey, I’m Zara J. ✌️Relationship coach, author, creator of the Captivating Courtship Code and host of the Courtship Code podcast. I Teach Women How To Transform The Quality Of Their Love Life. Helping my clients grow past relationship disappointments and master how to actually navigate courtship, and attract quality men for commitment.I’m passionate about helping my clients create happy, healthy, high value love lives with ease so they can live their best life and I can’t wait to help you, too.Ready To Captivate Courtship? Here’re Three Sweat-Free Steps!1. Catch me crushing dating & courtship misconceptions on my podcast Courtship Code — new episode every Monday, beautiful. From relationship anxiety to creating a match game plan, I've got the scoop.2. Download the Be Your Own Matchmaker FREE audio Challenge. So you can start with the basics of getting clear on how to meet your match.3. Get the Captivating Courtship Code. Whatever stage you’re at on the path to courting for commitment, I can get you there faster. This call is perfect if you're on the fence about starting coaching and need some relationship clarity. Whether you’re a wounded princess or just a queen trying to inspire long term commitment faster, I want to hear from you!Meet me in your inbox? I’m going to be sending you some emails to help you captivate courtship!