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Managing Issues Phase
"There is nothing like the support of other men who understand what you're going through while also having tools and strategies to work the issues." - Mark S.This is the phase that survivors in the program cannot wait to get to "tackling issues and taking actions" to manage the underlying dysfunctional behaviors, limiting beliefs, pain, frustration, etc that creates havoc in their life. Whether it's building self-esteem, eradicating porn, starting to feel comfortable in your own skin, creating healthy boundaries, redefining intimacy, regaining motivation, drive and performance, or building better relationships. This is where much of the final heavy lifting takes place. Here you delve into the framework produced in the first three phases. This is the place of substantial transformation forged by intense commitment, hard work, dedication and openness. A place where you fall, fail, tweak, learn, and get back up. If you have watched any of the videos on the website you have witnessed men being transformed as they learn to manage and even eradicate various issues. Your score or percentage in this phase simply is an indicator of the amount of attention or energy currently given or needed in this area. If it's higher than other phases, something inside of you is saying, "We need to work on this one more!"