WHO is sabotaging your relationships and your confidence?

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  Your biggest COMPLAINT in your relationships is...

  • A.
    They are too needy and clingy! 
  • B.
    They are mean and/or uncaring.
  • C.
    I give so much and get back less than I need. 
  • D.
    They don't respect me and my great ideas! 
  • E.
    They are sooo self-absorbed. 
• 2.
  When you ​disagree, how do you make things worse?

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  • A.
    I try to convince them my perspective is more correct. 
  • B.
    I try to lighten things up and change the channel.
  • C.
    I give in to try and make them less angry. 
  • D.
    I take it personally, defend myself or turn away to sulk. 
  • E.
    I get critical (of them or myself) about why we have these problems!
• 3.
  What's your biggest FEAR, in relationships?

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  • A.
    Feeling SUFFOCATED - losing my freedom and sense of self.
  • B.
    Feeling REJECTED - not loved for who I am.
  • C.
    Feeling INADEQUATE - not good enough. 
  • D.
    Feeling POWERLESS and/or losing CONTROL and hurting them.
  • E.
    Feeling BETRAYED and/or ABANDONED. 
• 4.
  Are you more likely to be accused of being...?

  • A.
    A People Pleaser
  • B.
    A Control Freak
  • C.
    Overly Sensitive
  • D.
    A Hermit Loner
  • E.
    Sharp Tongued/Mean
• 5.
  Recognize this guy? Who do you most relate to?

  • A.
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    I need SPACE to figure shit out and then maybe be in a relationship.
  • B.
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    We could FIX this, if only they listened to my advice.
  • C.
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    We're fine.... I think. What do YOU think, honey? 
  • D.
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    My partner and my ex are the ones with all the ISSUES!  
  • E.
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    Relationships are so hard for someone like me. 
• 6.
  What you are missing and craving most from others is....?

  • A.
    SAFETY and TRUST that you can be vulnerable.
  • B.
    FREEDOM to be your wild and adventurous self. 
  • C.
    AFFECTION and CLOSENESS - feeling loved. 
  • D.
    Feel SEEN and HEARD - ALL of you is accepted!
  • E.
    RESPECT and that you make an impact on them. 

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  The FIXER

  The FIXER is a master at sabotaging our relationships and our confidence....BUT, he doesn't have to be... We actually need him to help us breakthrough to feeling more deeply connected, respected and effective!Discover his secrets and how to evolve him...
• 2.
  The LONE WOLF

  The LONE WOLF is a master at sabotaging our relationships and our confidence....BUT, he doesn't have to be... We actually need him to help us breakthrough to feeling more deeply connected, passionate and true to our selves!Discover his secrets and how to evolve him...
• 3.
  The VICTIM

  The VICTIM is a master at sabotaging our relationships and our confidence....BUT, he doesn't have to be... We actually need him to help us breakthrough to feeling more deeply connected, secure and confident!Discover his secrets and how to evolve him...
• 4.
  The PLEASER

  The PLEASER is a master at sabotaging our relationships and our confidence....BUT, he doesn't have to be... We actually need him to help us breakthrough to feeling more deeply accepted, connected and loved!Discover his secrets and how to evolve him...
• 5.
  The CRITIC

  THE CRITIC is a master at sabotaging our relationships and our confidence....BUT, he doesn't have to be... We actually need him to help us breakthrough to feeling more deeply seen, understand, and appreciated!Discover his secrets and how to evolve him...